re: The one that got away

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I know for 100% fact she ended it. We still have mutual friends and I have spoke with them about it.

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They still laugh at your dick pics.

I was once in your shoes. I gave in and ended it with a FAntaztic girl and took back up with "the one"

Lasted 3 weeks before it collapsed. Don't chase ghosts.

Same here.

The threesome really is a realistic suggestion. Probably not good for your current relationship in the long-term but you can maintain a weird decades long relationship with the one if you can convince her she wants to frick all your wives/girlfriends. (This approach will likely guarantee multiple marriages.)


But if you must choose, have them meet up at Sonic and whoever makes it back with a delicious toaster BLT is the keeper.

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I’ve built a relationship with another girl that I love and have had our battles but fought through them and remained on top

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Dump this girl if the other relationship was smoother. If you're battling and fighting through things before marriage you're screwed after it.

Take this dear diary shite somewhere else. Good Lord.

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Not for a girl.... ? 

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Maybe you're the bad sexual partner in a FFM.

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Everyone has that one. I most recently came back into contact with mine. However, I’m a 2 1/2 year relationship now with someone I love. We happened to be at the same bar last Monday (first time either of us had been there and on the opposite side of town from us both). We wind up talking and I remember why she was the one. She sent me a Facebook message on Wednesday of last week saying she ended it with her bf of 3 years because she still loves me and wants to rekindle that. Saying that she still dreams about me and shite all the time, thinks about me. Bad part is, I still love her too. I’m so fricking lost. For one, the one that got away, is back and I have that chance again. On the other side of things, I’ve built a relationship with another girl that I love and have had our battles but fought through them and remained on top.

So OT. What do you do? Stay with the one who I am with now and love or go to my white buffalo and hope it works out this time and try to rekindle things.

Obviously this is the best place to come for advice like this

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Dude, you're amongst friends here. You can trust us, her name was Lance wasn't it....

She left the old BF because she was going to anyway. He is a video game playing bum. She was tired of him never having any money for bills. She considers herself back in the game and you are a potential replacement.

She has other potential replacements that she is baiting now too. She will see which of you offers the best R.O.I. and decide when someone shows a strong pursuit game.

If she was all that special you would not have left her before, or she would have gone to Wyoming with you.

Your current GF is not "the one" either. You would not entertain leaving her if she was. You would know to stay.

Good luck baw.

Obviously not able to commit, move along