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re: The one that got away

Posted on 3/18/18 at 5:44 pm to
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
259604 posts
Posted on 3/18/18 at 5:44 pm to
quote:

I'm married 10 years


That's nothing.

I was married 19 to my first. Had the chance to redo, and declined.
Posted by liz18lsu
Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
17286 posts
Posted on 3/18/18 at 5:45 pm to
quote:

Put in 3 yrs, but was too chicken shite and immature to pop the question (I was 24)


Being real, that is super young. You both are not the same people you once were. Live for the moment.
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
52894 posts
Posted on 3/18/18 at 5:45 pm to
is your name really zach? What are you like 13?
Posted by VinegarStrokes
Georgia
Member since Oct 2015
13272 posts
Posted on 3/18/18 at 5:46 pm to
Pretty simple really. Just need to the do...



And if that doesn't work...

Posted by auzach91
Marietta, GA
Member since Jan 2009
40248 posts
Posted on 3/18/18 at 5:48 pm to
It didn’t work cause I left to go work in Wyoming and we didn’t think a long distance relationship could work. I came back a year later and she had started dating the one she just dumped.
Posted by TheArrogantCorndog
Highland Rd
Member since Sep 2009
14804 posts
Posted on 3/18/18 at 5:54 pm to
quote:

Being real, that is super young. You both are not the same people you once were. Live for the moment.



I 100% agree, but your either grow together or grow apart... and I love the girl I have now, but it's the "what could have been" that I think about every once in a while

Btw: how u doin grrrl??
Posted by 3D
NJ
Member since Sep 2013
1025 posts
Posted on 3/18/18 at 5:59 pm to
Who spends less ? Who has the better career ? & the tiebreaker.... Who makes the better sandwich ?
Posted by RAG1N_T1GER77
Member since Feb 2018
144 posts
Posted on 3/18/18 at 5:59 pm to
Go with the one you think about every night before you go to sleep. Been in this exact situation and settled with the "other" gal that is great, but there's not a day I dont think about the "one".
Posted by tokenBoiler
Lafayette, Indiana
Member since Aug 2012
4408 posts
Posted on 3/18/18 at 6:00 pm to
If you love the new chick, why were you at a bar without her?

Also pics. This is important.
Posted by St George Tiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2018
107 posts
Posted on 3/18/18 at 6:01 pm to
quote:

of last week saying she ended it with her bf of 3 years because she still loves me and wants to rekindle that. Saying that she still dreams about me and shite all the time, thinks about me.

she will still be around...
Posted by auzach91
Marietta, GA
Member since Jan 2009
40248 posts
Posted on 3/18/18 at 6:01 pm to
It was after work and I needed a drink after a long Monday.
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
175602 posts
Posted on 3/18/18 at 6:03 pm to
it ended for a reason
Posted by auzach91
Marietta, GA
Member since Jan 2009
40248 posts
Posted on 3/18/18 at 6:03 pm to
The one that got away for all of em..
Posted by liz18lsu
Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
17286 posts
Posted on 3/18/18 at 6:04 pm to
quote:

Btw: how u doin grrrl??



Doing good, got to dance and sing along with a good friend who plays music last night. He signed his divorce papers on Wednesday and it was great to see him happy. Going to Vegas with him on Thursday for a wedding of people I don't know. Poolside, Pam Anderson, Tommy Lee style, super OT trashy, but should be a blast.

We all think about those people. frick, I dream about him sometimes, but I don't ever want to see him again. We aren't together for a reason. Don't dwell in those memories.
Posted by auzach91
Marietta, GA
Member since Jan 2009
40248 posts
Posted on 3/18/18 at 6:04 pm to
Yeah, I left to go work 10 states away. It wasn’t a breakup on bad terms.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
56182 posts
Posted on 3/18/18 at 6:05 pm to
She probably told the recent ex the same shite when she was dating you
Posted by Michael T. Tiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2004
8215 posts
Posted on 3/18/18 at 6:08 pm to
So you love the girl that you are with now...but are you IN love with her? If you are just with her because you have been together for 2 1/2 years, that sounds like a relationship that is doomed to fail, especially since you are already looking back to what you had before.

You need to figure out which of these girls you are in love with...if either of them...and make a damn decision. Otherwise, you are either stringing the first girl along if you do not shut this down like you should, or you are wasting the time of the girl that you are with now for an eventual break-up.
Posted by St George Tiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2018
107 posts
Posted on 3/18/18 at 6:08 pm to
quote:

Stop and remember why it didn't work. I've been in the same situation. The second time around isn't going to end any differently.

This. Same thing happened to me.
Posted by ThatMakesSense
Fort Lauderdale
Member since Aug 2015
14783 posts
Posted on 3/18/18 at 6:09 pm to
quote:

Yeah, I left to go work 10 states away.


I've never heard someone describe a move this way. Ever.

Unless you live in New England, isn't this basically moving across country?
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
38734 posts
Posted on 3/18/18 at 6:09 pm to
quote:

Ehhhh. Different kind of love. The one that got away is like that movie shite you see. Sparks flew first time, life got in the way and we both wound up with different people. The one I’m with now is someone I started dating, ended up falling for her and we have built a love. It wasn’t instant though.


One sounds like adult relationship

The one sounds like rebound move
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