re: The one that got away

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Maybe you're the bad sexual partner in a FFM.

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I'd bet that you're wrong, but I'd sure as frick like to find out

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She left the old BF because she was going to anyway. He is a video game playing bum. She was tired of him never having any money for bills. She considers herself back in the game and you are a potential replacement. She has other potential replacements that she is baiting now too. She will see which of you offers the best R.O.I. and decide when someone shows a strong pursuit game. If she was all that special you would not have left her before, or she would have gone to Wyoming with you. Your current GF is not "the one" either. You would not entertain leaving her if she was. You would know to stay. Good luck baw.

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This ole boy speaks the truth.

Secondly - if she left the dude on Wednesday, you should wait. You could leave the current one and she could remember what all she liked better about that one and go back to him. You are left high and dry.

If you are playing in the big leagues, ie: looking for marriage material, you should wait until she has been single for a while before you go to her. Same applies to you. Breakup with the current and be single for a bit. If you both stay single for 6 months then let it happen.

I can tell you from experience though that you just might have exactly what you are looking for at home. You take it for granted because you have it already. It doesn’t matter how good it looks, it might not be worth the hassle of going after it. My “one” turned out to be bat shite freakin crazy. Like needs to be locked up...crazy. Didn’t see it until it was too late. Luckily I was able to recover before too much damage had been done.

I do agree that we need pics of both before an accurate judgement can be made though.

Your mind is made up

I bet her boyfriend of 3 years dumped her, and she sees you’re happy. Now she wants to wreck that for you.

She lied to you when she said she left her bf if 3yrs for you. I’d find him and get his side of the story.

Oh, and you’re a selfish douche if you break your current girl’s heart by dumping her for a girl from your past. She’s in your past for a reason. Keep her there. Block her on social media too. How would you like it if your current girl was having an emotional affair with a man from her past? What you’re doing is cheating.

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Go with the one with the better credit score. Trust me on this..

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Lmfao. This man speaks the truth...assuming both are physically attractive and have IQs over 100.

I have multiples.

I keep up with them.

Regrets? Some.

But, I wouldn't trade my life.

There was a reason the two of you broke up and did not get back together. What was it? Has it been resolved?
Who is easier to talk to? Who listens well? ...maybe both? ...maybe neither?
Who is willing to make sacrifices for you, and which one are you willing to make sacrifices for? Which one is willing to cook for you? Which one can cook? Long-term relationships should place a high value on the ability to cook or the desire to learn how to cook.
Love must be a two way street. If it is mostly a one way street, then it will not last, regardless as to which one gives the most and receives the most. The giver will get tired of constantly having to give up significantly more. It is fun for the receiver for a while, but the giver will burn out.
Love is a decision. There is no room for selfishness in a relationship.
Where True love exists, difficult things are easy.
Where True love does not exists, Easy things are difficult.
Time dating should lead to the point where the giving becomes easy, and the sacrifices made do not appear to be large sacrifices, but a way of life while loving the other.
True love begins on your wedding day after you've both committed your lives to each other for better or worse.
Who are you willing to love for better or worse?
You may not know this answer now, but this should be your ultimate goal.
If this is not your goal, then neither girl may be "the one".

The first "one" that got away, I knew she was the "one" within a month; however, it was not mutual which means I was wrong. I never told her she was "the one". I'm glad I didn't. I think she knew I was "the one", but she had attachments in which she could not let go. If I was truly the one for her, I think she would have let go of the attachments.
The second one that was"the one" I knew within 2 weeks. I did not tell her. I do not recommend telling a girl she is the "one" when you realize it. Give her time to realize it. This one was mutual.

My wife of 6 years recently woke up one morning and decided that she wasn’t happy. To my surprise she found happiness in a man twice her age. This last month has been the worst pain I have ever felt in my life. I tried everything to win her back and nothing seemed to work. Women, frick them all.

Basically the same thing happened to me a few years back. Left a girl that I loved and would have been very happy with, for the one that got away. We are still together today. Only you know if she really is the one or not.