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re: The lack of men wearing suits at weddings and funerals is sad.

Posted on 10/16/19 at 1:27 pm to
Posted by CP3forMVP
Member since Nov 2010
14934 posts
Posted on 10/16/19 at 1:27 pm to
The idea of every wedding being suit or even sports coat appropriate is pretty silly.

Last year a family friend was married in uptown New Orleans, high end wedding, suit or sports coat absolutely.

A few weeks ago my moms cousin was married and that wedding requested you bring your own chair, probably could have gotten by with khaki shorts and a collared shirt.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134026 posts
Posted on 10/16/19 at 1:28 pm to
How much time do you spend pondering what other men wear or don't wear?
Posted by Pelican fan99
Lafayette, Louisiana
Member since Jun 2013
34794 posts
Posted on 10/16/19 at 1:28 pm to
I couldn’t think of anything more trashy than khakis and a polo at a wedding or funeral
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
32579 posts
Posted on 10/16/19 at 1:29 pm to
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I thought they still enforced the dress code at commanders?
They do, you can't wear shorts for sure. Don't know about the jacket.
Posted by BobABooey
Parts Unknown
Member since Oct 2004
14300 posts
Posted on 10/16/19 at 1:38 pm to
The defensive narcissists in this thread make me sad. It’s just another example of men refusing to grow up and act like adults. Your fathers failed you.

I can’t imagine not wearing a dark suit to a funeral and a sport coat (at minimum!) to a wedding. If you don’t want to spend money on a suit because you’ll only wear it once a year, do more things where a suit would be appropriate. Go to a nice restaurant, go to a play...something to justify the expense. I’m about to go buy a nice dress overcoat to go with a suit because I’ll be attending a funeral in the near future and the weather will be cold. A tie is not uncomfortable when you are wearing a shirt that fits properly.
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
120362 posts
Posted on 10/16/19 at 1:39 pm to
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nice jeans


Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171037 posts
Posted on 10/16/19 at 1:42 pm to
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nice dinner.


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some nice jeans, a good pair of shoes and a button down.


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I was at a nice steak house last week in the US


Outback isn't a nice steakhouse.
Posted by bad93ex
Member since Sep 2018
27286 posts
Posted on 10/16/19 at 1:45 pm to
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I'm baffled at this. There are more events to wear a suit to besides weddings and funerals.



The last couple of weddings that I have attended were very informal. If the need arises where I need to wear a suit then I will most likely pick one up but it has yet to occur.
Posted by facher08
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2011
4370 posts
Posted on 10/16/19 at 1:46 pm to
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The defensive narcissists in this thread make me sad. It’s just another example of men refusing to grow up and act like adults. Your fathers failed you.


I'm reading your position and I don't think you know what this word means.
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171037 posts
Posted on 10/16/19 at 1:47 pm to
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The last couple of weddings that I have attended were very informal.


The most informal I've ever gone to a wedding was slacks, button up, and a jacket.
Posted by bad93ex
Member since Sep 2018
27286 posts
Posted on 10/16/19 at 1:50 pm to
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The most informal I've ever gone to a wedding was slacks, button up, and a jacket.



The weddings were both outdoors and one of them featured a long bonfire which was lit with some tannerite. I was out of place with my button-up and slacks, thankfully I had a PFG and some shorts in the vehicle for after the ceremony.
Posted by Loungefly85
Lafayette
Member since Jul 2016
7930 posts
Posted on 10/16/19 at 1:51 pm to
People should at least wear a button up with a tie and a pair of slacks if they can’t afford a suit. What is that? Like $40 combined at Walmarks?
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171037 posts
Posted on 10/16/19 at 1:51 pm to
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The weddings were both outdoors and one of them featured a long bonfire which was lit with some tannerite.


Jesus.

Someone wore a camo suit, right?
Posted by DVinBR
Member since Jan 2013
13008 posts
Posted on 10/16/19 at 1:52 pm to
i recently went to a "texan" wedding where the groomsmen were wearing jeans
Posted by TheRoarRestoredInBR
Member since Dec 2004
30296 posts
Posted on 10/16/19 at 1:53 pm to
I'll always wear a suit, or sports coat and slacks, but admit to often ditching the tie..too damn hot in La summers.

And I agree with the general assertions, it's made even eating out at nice establishments, and even top-tier Vegas joints like Wynn, Bellagio, Aria, etc..feel cheesy with all the Cali t-shirt flip flop untucked collared shirt crowd meandering about.
This post was edited on 10/16/19 at 2:02 pm
Posted by bad93ex
Member since Sep 2018
27286 posts
Posted on 10/16/19 at 1:54 pm to
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Jesus.


It was amazing when it finally got lit.

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Someone wore a camo suit, right?


Naw, he just put on a short sleeve button-up for the rest of the night.
Posted by camoedoutlander
Member since Sep 2017
473 posts
Posted on 10/16/19 at 2:01 pm to
I don't own a suit that fits anymore, the last time i wore one was to a Sorority formal...I don't want to date myself but that was a while ago. I have yet to ware one for work(it would get ruined instantly and not to mention the tie is a safety hazard)
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
97667 posts
Posted on 10/16/19 at 2:01 pm to
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Someone wore a camo suit, right?


I bet at least a dozen guest went home barefoot too
Posted by Golfer
Member since Nov 2005
75052 posts
Posted on 10/16/19 at 2:18 pm to
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....because you think those people care about what you are wearing.


No. Because I'm respectful of others. That respect begins with how I present myself.

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...because they are different than MY personal preferences.


Like you, I wear suits consistently for work. I'd rather not have to but I understand the need for them and the message they convey.
Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
57728 posts
Posted on 10/16/19 at 2:23 pm to
I went to an outdoor day wedding in June. frick wearing a suit. I wore a dress polo and nice khakis.
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