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re: Tell me about dating as a 40 yr old man

Posted on 8/11/20 at 10:49 am to
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 8/11/20 at 10:49 am to
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I Cannot imagine having sex with anyone other than my wife. This thread is heartbreaking.




Guarantee she doesn't feel that way. If she's halfway decent looking she has orbiters all around her. Better continue to toe that line or you'll be replaced.
This post was edited on 8/11/20 at 10:50 am
Posted by CAD703X
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Member since Jul 2008
91797 posts
Posted on 8/11/20 at 10:50 am to
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I used Tinder and POF at 28-30 and had a lot of success but it was usually younger chicks on Tinder. POF were more 25-30 range. Also buying a motorcycle doesnt hurt. Girls wont auto frick you with on...but walking around in biker gear does make a lot more heads turn.


protip#3: if you're over 40, you'll miss out on 99% of women on PoF and Cupid b/c they cut off who they'll talk to at that age...EVEN if they're in their 30s sometimes.

Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
56590 posts
Posted on 8/11/20 at 10:50 am to
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Dating a 22 year old right now and its super easy when I drop her off at her Cart Beer Girl gig as I head to the driving range.



I am, too. The only thing that isn't great is that I make references to things that she absolutely has no clue about, and then I have to ramble on and provide context. And she sends me fricking TikTok links.
Posted by SirWinston
PNW
Member since Jul 2014
102140 posts
Posted on 8/11/20 at 10:50 am to
Mate first check out the great Thomas DeLauer on YouTube and get your diet and body sussed.

Keto and IF will spike your testosterone and have you feeling as good as you felt in college.

Everything else will fall into place
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
91797 posts
Posted on 8/11/20 at 10:51 am to
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I Cannot imagine having sex with anyone other than my wife. This thread is heartbreaking.

wow so you're like one of those guys who had a perfect marriage at 18 and your sex is new and dynamite and you do it twice daily for the last 20 years

we're not worthy of being in the same thread w/ the ryno
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
40292 posts
Posted on 8/11/20 at 10:51 am to
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The quality of talent is like a SWAC roster.




And you have to pay for all these services, right?
Posted by lanticguy
AK
Member since Nov 2014
444 posts
Posted on 8/11/20 at 10:52 am to
No tiktok links, but had to sit her down to watch Back to School.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53153 posts
Posted on 8/11/20 at 10:52 am to
If I was single I couldn't date someone that young at my age. Sex is fine but I wouldn't want to hang around with a 23 yr old otherwise
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
91797 posts
Posted on 8/11/20 at 10:53 am to
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Girls wont auto frick you with on...but walking around in biker gear does make a lot more heads turn.


Thats how Ted got Alexis back

Posted by ksayetiger
Centenary Gents
Member since Jul 2007
70193 posts
Posted on 8/11/20 at 10:54 am to
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If you're reasonably successful and in good shape, you've got your pick of the litter, brother.




he means have a job and not be a fatass

or have a great job and be as fat as you want
Posted by jbgleason
Bailed out of BTR to God's Country
Member since Mar 2012
19871 posts
Posted on 8/11/20 at 10:54 am to
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stay away from the ones your age who have been married.


Not so sure about that but I would say any woman with children from another marriage THAT ARE STILL IN THE HOUSE would be a hard pass. No way I am raising some other dudes kids.

I have a friend that dated and just married a very nice lady who has two daughters. One still in the house. The amount of shite he has had to deal with between the kid and the ex is pretty overwhelming.

Another buddy married a lady who has three kids all out of the house. Two of the three are complete shitheads and one of them is on drugs and in / out of jail. So, even not in the house, they are making his life suck.

Basically, if the chick has kids I would be extremely cautious.
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
56590 posts
Posted on 8/11/20 at 10:55 am to
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If I was single I couldn't date someone that young at my age. Sex is fine but I wouldn't want to hang around with a 23 yr old otherwise



She is pretty mature for her age, to be honest. And I've only got 11 years on her, so it isn't something outrageous.

Her friends and their SOs are a different story, though.
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
40292 posts
Posted on 8/11/20 at 10:57 am to
I have two friends that have gone through divorce the past couple of years. Neither were their "decision".

One didn't really look for anyone after his divorce. A few months after it was final, he met someone at work (he works for a huge company, the lady was in another division where they would never actually work together) and 6 months later they were engaged, 2 more months they were married in a simple ceremony. She has kids of her own as well.

Other one, no kids, pretty much as soon as the ink was dry on the divorce paper, started looking to date again. Eventually found someone and they have been dating for a while. Met her on an app (I think).

I know life goes on... but it's certainly an unplanned detour.
Posted by redfish99
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Member since Aug 2007
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Posted on 8/11/20 at 10:57 am to
As in all walks of life you have “ Ask For The Business”
Posted by BeachDude022
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Member since Dec 2006
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Posted on 8/11/20 at 10:58 am to
It’s not terrible. I met my current gf on Hinge. It’s better than bumble or tinder. Women on there seem more serious about finding a relationship as compared to just a hook up.
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 8/11/20 at 11:01 am to
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I never was one to be hung up on only dating younger women. My wife is a few years older than me. Don't think I'd go 13 years older though


He said he didn't know her age until their 3rd or 4th date. I was shocked when he told me how old she was. She looks and acts more our age. First time I hung out with her, she pulled out a big sack of weed. My wife was not impressed, but has grown to love her.

He met her at a tailgate before an Alabama game. She was in the tent next to the one he was at.
Posted by Blizzard of Chizz
Member since Apr 2012
20718 posts
Posted on 8/11/20 at 11:02 am to
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Tell me about dating as a 40 yr old man


Whether you realize it or not, grandmothers are now in your dating pool. I’m not talking 60 year old grannies either. Lots of women out there in their early 40’s whose kids have grown up and started having kids of their own. First time you go out with a woman and she mentions her grand babies, I promise you’ll do a double take.
Posted by Mr Personality
Bangkok
Member since Mar 2014
27364 posts
Posted on 8/11/20 at 11:03 am to
How big is your penis?
Posted by coolpapaboze
Parts Unknown
Member since Dec 2006
21018 posts
Posted on 8/11/20 at 11:04 am to
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Thats how Ted got Alexis back
Alexis is one of the most annoying female characters on television. That actress does a fantastic job playing that part.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
120437 posts
Posted on 8/11/20 at 11:07 am to
Just hop on grinder you should find someone ASAP.
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