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SO telling you what they want as gift
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:37 am
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:37 am
So the gf and I were talking about Valentines. She then asks me to listen to a short list of things she wants and that I should pick one as my gift to her.
My initial reaction was wtf. She doesn't get to choose her present. It's supposed to be something I pick out because I think she'll enjoy it/like it. Which is what I'm going to do.
Thoughts?
My initial reaction was wtf. She doesn't get to choose her present. It's supposed to be something I pick out because I think she'll enjoy it/like it. Which is what I'm going to do.
Thoughts?
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:38 am to shotcaller1
Tell her that you want a nice steak and bj on Valentine's Day and if you don't get it then she won't get a gift either
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:38 am to shotcaller1
My wife does that with all her gifts. Makes it much easier.
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:38 am to shotcaller1
Yeah, after you're married for a while you just want them to tell you what they want.
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:39 am to shotcaller1
Doesn't bother me if my wife does it. I'd rather get her something she wants instead of guessing at it. Our Amazon lists help each other out.
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:39 am to shotcaller1
That's women for you. Zero fun. And it's Valentimes.
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:39 am to shotcaller1
Buy her a shoe rack. Chicks are really into those these days.
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:40 am to shotcaller1
sounds high maintenance. I don't buy my wife anything on v day. She doesn't care fwiw.
its a stupid holiday.
its a stupid holiday.
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:40 am to shotcaller1
You've got it made. The worst is when they DONT tell you and leave you wondering what to buy.
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:41 am to shotcaller1
I much prefer my wife just telling me what she wants
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:42 am to Master of Sinanju
I would much rather my wife tell me what she wants. It is way way easier to get a gift that way.
I always felt the same back in my dating days.
I hated seeing someone buy me something knowing I would never use it
I always felt the same back in my dating days.
I hated seeing someone buy me something knowing I would never use it
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:43 am to shotcaller1
quote:
My initial reaction was wtf. She doesn't get to choose her present. It's supposed to be something I pick out because I think she'll enjoy it/like it. Which is what I'm going to do.
quote:
Thoughts?
You're making a foolish decision
I've been with my wife 13 years. It's just so much easier and better to just let her pick her gift. It's more "special" when it's what she wants.
You're overthinking this
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:43 am to shotcaller1
She may be hinting that you are not very good buying gifts.
Personally, I think that's great. I hate trying to guess what people would want...
Personally, I think that's great. I hate trying to guess what people would want...
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:43 am to Salmon
Seriously, gifts?
We just go to Kobe for dinner, and i buy a box of chocco covered strawberries for both of us.
The days of me spending hundreds on V-day are over. She gets pissed when i send her flowers on v-day. She says save the money and quit wasting it on flowers/gifts
We just go to Kobe for dinner, and i buy a box of chocco covered strawberries for both of us.
The days of me spending hundreds on V-day are over. She gets pissed when i send her flowers on v-day. She says save the money and quit wasting it on flowers/gifts
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:43 am to Salmon
I prefer this as well. Then I go through them one by one with her and tell her why she will not be getting that particular gift.
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:45 am to shotcaller1
quote:
my gift to her
What happened to just giving flowers, chocolate, or a card?
Valentines day is a dumb holiday.
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:46 am to SaintLSUnAtl
quote:not really.
It's more "special" when it's what she wants.
You're overthinking this
Yeah it makes it easier. But when you get creative every once on a while, it's much more special to them.
You can tell by the uptick in sex in the following months.
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:46 am to shotcaller1
Thread doesn't appear to be going like you hoped 
Posted on 2/1/17 at 11:47 am to SaintLSUnAtl
quote:
I've been with my wife 13 years. It's just so much easier and better to just let her pick her gift. It's more "special" when it's what she wants.
You're overthinking this
this.
hell i even let my wife just go buy it herself too.
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