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re: So my husband is cheating. I have proof. He has no idea. She is our neighbor.
Posted on 5/11/25 at 8:24 am to Jake88
Posted on 5/11/25 at 8:24 am to Jake88
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People always post this. How can what (s)he posted be used against her?
Because if she later testifies and any detail doesn't align with the content and timeline of these posts her credibility can be attacked. This can become important in a contested divorce or at-fault divorce.
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Posted on 5/11/25 at 8:28 am to Tigerlaff
She didn't say anything except what she'd mention in court.
Posted on 5/11/25 at 8:32 am to Spankum
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Get off the damn internet and consult a divorce attorney. Remember, anything you say or do (or post) can and will be used against you in a court of law.
For divorce, judges don't gaf. Anyone at any time can ask for a divorce and they have to grant it (eventually) no matter what either party was doing.
What happens in 98% of cases:
If you're a woman and you worked (or could work) and your husband is a baw, you're not getting a cent of alimony.
The couple will be splitting ALL assets (money accounts, 401k, house, all property).
Whoever has the kids at separation keeps the kids.
The other spouse will pay 20% of gross income to the other one until all kids are finished with high school (college if there is any hint that you were saving or making some kind of arrangements for it before time of separation).
In 51% of cases, whoever consults an attorney first comes out 51% better off afterwards.
This post was edited on 5/11/25 at 8:33 am
Posted on 5/11/25 at 8:35 am to Jenandtonic3
I’m not reading 17 pages. Did this thread turn into anything?
Posted on 5/11/25 at 8:37 am to Jenandtonic3
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We could move on to a new chapter and both be happier. He could have his girl 24/7.
Sounds like he’s been pretty happy and has his girl whenever he wants.
It’s you that wants to be happier, so just end it FFS. Mother’s Day is no excuse to stall outing him.
Posted on 5/11/25 at 8:37 am to auwaterfowler
No. The op is mostly MIA.
Posted on 5/11/25 at 9:01 am to Jenandtonic3
Are you from lasalle parish?
Posted on 5/11/25 at 9:05 am to theballguy
quote:that’s just science
In 51% of cases, whoever consults an attorney first comes out 51% better off afterwards.
Posted on 5/11/25 at 9:07 am to theballguy
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For divorce, judges don't gaf
Exactly. Adultery is irrelevant to the vast majority of divorce cases, at least it is in Louisiana. It's not like divorce is a process of figuring out who "won" at being married. It's intended to protect the interests of the state (chiefly, its interest in children being cared for) against two people who fricked up.
Posted on 5/11/25 at 9:11 am to Jenandtonic3
Happy Mothers Day, Jen 
Posted on 5/11/25 at 9:13 am to Jenandtonic3
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Jenandtonic3
Is your husband’s name Tonic?
Posted on 5/11/25 at 9:14 am to Tyga Woods
Finally, someone that knows about cheating...
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Tyga
Posted on 5/11/25 at 9:15 am to N2cars
Take it back
Posted on 5/11/25 at 9:15 am to N2cars
Lend me some sugar, I am your neighbor. Shake it, shake it, shake it like a polaroid picture.
Posted on 5/11/25 at 9:16 am to Jenandtonic3
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I know he has read it. He is acting very anxious.
There’s gonna be like 15 dudes get honest with their wives today and none of them will be this dude.
Posted on 5/11/25 at 9:20 am to Tyga Woods
Just a joke re: your "name"... 
Posted on 5/11/25 at 9:23 am to N2cars
I got the reference
Posted on 5/11/25 at 9:28 am to Jenandtonic3
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No. It’s Mother’s Day so the timing is bad. I know he has read it. He is acting very anxious. It’s a pretty sad thing. I’d respect him more if he’d just be honest. We could move on to a new chapter and both be happier. He could have his girl 24/7.
Fk all that, what mother are you worried about? His? Every day is “something” day. Tomorrow might be National Hot Dog Day. Do you want to work things out or leave? Only you know if you are better off staying or leaving. Kids? Relative incomes? Though most people wouldn’t be able to stomach being cheated on and saying nothing. Plus you could catch an STD.
Posted on 5/11/25 at 9:29 am to Jenandtonic3
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I’d respect him more if he’d just be honest. We could move on to a new chapter and both be happier. He could have his girl 24/7.
Well, he’s not honest. You already know that.
Just get a lawyer, get counseling if you need, and move forward. You don’t need him to do anything. He’s play games but by “waiting for him”, you’re kinda playing games too. There’s no peace in that.
Posted on 5/11/25 at 9:30 am to Tyga Woods
We got a sensitive topic here
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