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re: Should I be offended by an ex-girlfriend?
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:46 am to HoustonChick86
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:46 am to HoustonChick86
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....it feels good when we are hurting sometimes.
Hmmm interesting.
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Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:51 am to HoustonChick86
This is actually a good comment. I’ve never thought about it this way.
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:54 am to Warfarer
Man: 0
Pussy: Undefeated
Pussy: Undefeated
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:56 am to Warfarer
Move on...............................................that is all
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:56 am to Warfarer
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I feel like all our friends in common have to think that I was the problem and that I treated her like shite when she posts things like this.
Your mutual friends know both of you. They know the real deal, or will when she fricks up the next relationship.
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:56 am to Warfarer
Did you PIHB ?
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:57 am to Warfarer
You dodged a major bullet.
She's a space case, and I'm sure she was crafty on the futon b/c that's all she had to offer.
You can easily do better.
She's a space case, and I'm sure she was crafty on the futon b/c that's all she had to offer.
You can easily do better.
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:58 am to Warfarer
You must not have enough steady cash. Move on dude, move fast.
Posted on 5/29/24 at 6:59 am to Warfarer
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Should I be offended about this? I feel like all our friends in common have to think that I was the problem and that I treated her like shite when she posts things like this.
You can be hurt, but she is telling and showing you who she is. Does this align with your values? What are your boundaries? What is acceptable and what isn't?
Don't ignore the red flags. She's not healed, and apparently got into a relationship with you and wasn't ready.
If your ex needs 3 weeks to sort things through in her mind without really communicating to you what her intentions are, how much of a priority are you to her? Her no response to you is a response.
Posted on 5/29/24 at 7:01 am to Beessnax
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1. Unfriend her on all social media
2. Stop talking about her
3. Find someone else to go out with
Doing anything else is wasting precious days of your life
Coming from an old man. Do what this guy said
Posted on 5/29/24 at 7:02 am to Warfarer
You are a mouse who successfully remove the cheese from the trap and got away.
Now you are asking why didn't that trap snap my neck
Now you are asking why didn't that trap snap my neck
Posted on 5/29/24 at 7:02 am to Warfarer
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This is actually a good comment. I’ve never thought about it this way.
Yes, it doesn't make sense to you to do what she did because you're a male so you came here.
She will get the love she's wanting on FB from those posts. You have to remember her algorithm is probably going crazy with shite like that right now on FB. So she's sad and liking that stuff and it's popping up more and more. It's a cycle.
It just is what it is. Everyone one with social media does it to some degree, that's why we have social media.
Posted on 5/29/24 at 7:04 am to HoustonChick86
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that's why we have social media.
Or, why we don’t.
Posted on 5/29/24 at 7:06 am to Beessnax
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1. Unfriend her on all social media
100 % agreed. If seeing an ex through social media is triggering, you have only one of two choices, if you continue to use social media. You could ask her to not post anything, which isn't going to work, because it's her page, and she can do what she wants (plus you'd come off as controlling), or you can unfriend her, which is what you control. This is always the best option if you are triggered.
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2. Stop talking about her
Great advice. Get yourself so busy working on yourself that in time, your wounds will become less and less, and healing will eventually take place.
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3. Find someone else to go out with
Yes, but only after you have fully healed and are emotionally, mentally, and spiritually ready. Otherwise, you will continue to bring your own set of problems from previous relationships into the new one.
Posted on 5/29/24 at 7:07 am to Lsupimp
Well exactly.
Posted on 5/29/24 at 7:09 am to Warfarer
She was lying. Move on.
Posted on 5/29/24 at 7:16 am to Warfarer
NEVER fool around with a woman during her Facebook quote posting phase.
Posted on 5/29/24 at 7:21 am to Warfarer
You’re in a better spot. Move on.
Posted on 5/29/24 at 7:22 am to Warfarer
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Now, fast forward a few months later, she keeps posting shite on Facebook about how God will send her a good man that will care about her and all this other girl power, ra ra bullshite. "Girl, wait for the man that will treat you right and care about you and your feelings" kind of stuff. Should I be offended about this? I feel like all our friends in common have to think that I was the problem and that I treated her like shite when she posts things like this.
Don’t live in social media and how you assume others think about you in social media. That appears to be a larger issue than your breakup.
Posted on 5/29/24 at 7:28 am to Warfarer
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Should I be offended
You realize that being offended is a choice.
Wise.
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