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re: Serious question. Not judging. Gay Lisp?

Posted on 11/9/15 at 9:28 am to
Posted by N2cars
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Posted on 11/9/15 at 9:28 am to
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Former NASCAR driver Bill Elliot comes to mind. I always wondered if that dude was gay.


Buddy Baker kinda talked that way, too.

Both straight as far as I know.

Posted by Ace Midnight
Between sanity and madness
Member since Dec 2006
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Posted on 11/9/15 at 9:29 am to
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I want to see how Anderson Cooper acts off camera.


Or Shep. But, I see what you're saying - Ms. Vanderbilt seems to be trying too hard (phrasing) at times.
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
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Posted on 11/9/15 at 9:29 am to
I think a lot of people say lisp when they really mean the lilt that gay guys tend to have.

The lisp is fake most of the time, I think. I don't hear many gay guys with the lisp and I live in Atlanta (where they abound). I do, however, hear the tone/lilt most of the time. It's pretty rare that I meet a gay dude who doesn't have that voice to one degree or another.
Posted by upgrayedd
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Member since Mar 2013
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Posted on 11/9/15 at 9:31 am to
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Or Shep. But, I see what you're saying - Ms. Vanderbilt seems to be trying too hard (phrasing) at times.


Honestly, I think AC360 is probably the only decent news show on TV, but he always has to relieve the pressure with his often queer "Ridicu-list".
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 11/9/15 at 9:31 am to
TBH, I don't care if a guy is gay or whatever.

The effeminate hand movements and speech patterns are annoying AF, though.

You are still a male, despite what you identify as.



Posted by AlxTgr
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Member since Oct 2003
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Posted on 11/9/15 at 9:33 am to
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gay lisp speech
Why is it called this? Sounds nothing like a lisp.
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
87748 posts
Posted on 11/9/15 at 9:34 am to
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TBH, I don't care if a guy is gay or whatever.

The effeminate hand movements and speech patterns are annoying AF, though.

You are still a male, despite what you identify as.


Yeah gay guys don't bother me unless they're just over the top. All the cultural trappings of the gay community annoy me more so than actual gay people. For example, whining gay guys who are upset that Atlanta isn't permanently keeping rainbow crosswalks.
Posted by Tiger in Gatorland
Moonshine Holler
Member since Sep 2006
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Posted on 11/9/15 at 9:42 am to
There is an interesting documentary on Netflix entitled "Do I Sound Gay?" He goes to see a speech therapist because although he's gay, he doesn't want to sound so flaming. It's an interesting watch.
Posted by TheIndulger
Member since Sep 2011
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Posted on 11/9/15 at 9:49 am to
I don't get it either. It's really strange that a number gay guys develop this gay voice. In fact I listened to Npr one morning and there was a gay man on there who was trying to figure out the same thing. He said the "gay voice" phenomenon bothered him and didn't really know why they talk like that.
Posted by TheIndulger
Member since Sep 2011
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Posted on 11/9/15 at 9:51 am to
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There is an interesting documentary on Netflix entitled "Do I Sound Gay?" He goes to see a speech therapist because although he's gay, he doesn't want to sound so flaming. It's an interesting watch.


This must be the same guy I heard on NPR
Posted by rlebl39
League City, TX
Member since Jun 2011
4799 posts
Posted on 11/9/15 at 9:55 am to
I know some gay dudes that you would never know were gay, unless they told you.

At the same time I know some straight dudes that you would think were gay because of their voice.

I have no idea where the accent comes from for straight guys that sound more feminine, I guess the guys with it may have more estrogen? Just a guess because I don't know. A lot of gay guys with it are probably faking it, though. (probably not all since some straight guys have it too)
This post was edited on 11/9/15 at 10:00 am
Posted by dgnx6
Member since Feb 2006
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Posted on 11/9/15 at 10:11 am to
The ones that talk like that seem to be divas. No diff than a female wanting to be center of attention.
Posted by GaryMyMan
Shreveport
Member since May 2007
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Posted on 11/9/15 at 10:11 am to
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At the same time I know some straight dudes that you would think were gay because of their voice.


I knew guys who went to LSU for one semester and came back to Shreveport talking like they were from Welsh. And I know girls who went to boarding school in the North East and came back talking like they were from Connecticut. The brain is a complicated thing.
Posted by LSUBFA83
Member since May 2012
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Posted on 11/9/15 at 10:16 am to
I think it's picked up subconsciously like any accent is.
Posted by Cooter Davenport
Austin, TX
Member since Apr 2012
9006 posts
Posted on 11/9/15 at 10:33 am to
My gay neighbors don't have the lilt. They speak like normal men. But they're older - in their 50s - so maybe the lilt is a younger generation thing.
Posted by Teddy Ruxpin
Member since Oct 2006
41006 posts
Posted on 11/9/15 at 10:34 am to
Michael Waltrip as well

Damn, someone beat me to it. He's the most obvious to me
This post was edited on 11/9/15 at 10:36 am
Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
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Posted on 11/9/15 at 10:47 am to
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I want to see how Anderson Cooper acts off camera. You can tell that he tries so hard to pull back the gay while he's on air.



Sat directly behind him on a flight out of BR after Katrina and he talks normally. You can tell he's gay by his general demeanor and mannerisms, but he doesn't have a fairy voice.

I have several gay friends and none of them talk like this individually or at work, but when they get all gayed up in a pack for a drunk brunch, they can start talking like that.

No lisps though, more like a "female, blonde, cali, airhead, valley girl" twang. I think its hilarious.

Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
76774 posts
Posted on 11/9/15 at 10:48 am to
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Or Shep. But, I see what you're saying - Ms. Vanderbilt seems to be trying too hard (phrasing) at times.



Sheps a flamer off camera. Everyone who attended Ole Miss can tell you this from his antics in The Grove and in the bars on the square.

Posted by TigerTreyjpg
Monroe, LA
Member since Jun 2008
5815 posts
Posted on 11/9/15 at 10:50 am to
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It comes from getting your uvula pounded.


That's such bullshite. It's from tongue-padding the teeth.
Posted by TheCaterpillar
Member since Jan 2004
76774 posts
Posted on 11/9/15 at 10:52 am to
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At the same time I know some straight dudes that you would think were gay because of their voice.



Ditto.

I have a best friend people immediately think is gay from his voice, he is not gay though. He's the kind of guy who'd never hide being gay if he was. Free-spirit guy.

Gets a ton of poon.

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