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Seeing an ex-hookup in public when you are with your S.O.
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:15 am
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:15 am
I went to a brewery last night with my gf, and a girl I used to hook up with in college was there. I chose not to say hello to her or anything. She was with her assumed bf, and she also chose not to say hello.
Good move? What do you do in this situation?
I mean, it wouldn't be a big deal if we had have made contact, I would've referred to her as someone I used to know in college to my gf, not someone that I'd had sex with obviously. I just didn't seen any point in saying hello. Its certainly not the first time its happened in my life, and its never been a big deal regardless if I talked to the person or not, but it just felt kind of weird ignoring someone that you know.
Good move? What do you do in this situation?
I mean, it wouldn't be a big deal if we had have made contact, I would've referred to her as someone I used to know in college to my gf, not someone that I'd had sex with obviously. I just didn't seen any point in saying hello. Its certainly not the first time its happened in my life, and its never been a big deal regardless if I talked to the person or not, but it just felt kind of weird ignoring someone that you know.
This post was edited on 11/17/22 at 10:16 am
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:17 am to Funky Tide 8
Pretty much the same thing. I might smile and wave if eye contact is made but I'm not going out of my way to talk to them. There isn't any reason to.
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:18 am to Funky Tide 8
She probably didn't even see you.
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:18 am to Funky Tide 8
If they smile first I’ll smile, depends on the situation (and the woman).
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:19 am to Funky Tide 8
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I went to a brewery last night with my gf, and a girl I used to hook up with in college was there. I chose not to say hello to her or anything.
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Alabama Fan
Kinda strange you and your sister wouldn't say hello to your cousin in a restaurant but hey, you do you.
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Good move? What do you do in this situation?
Honest answer though, unless I ended up next to them in line or something, I wouldn't go out of my way across the resturant. Maybe just a smile and wave if our eyes met.
This post was edited on 11/17/22 at 10:21 am
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:19 am to Funky Tide 8
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she also chose not to say hello.
You should frick her boyfriend… that will show her
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:20 am to Bubb
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She probably didn't even see you.
She definitely saw me. She was in the beer line right by our table and looked at me. I was looking in a different direction when she walked up and didn't notice her, but when I noticed her, she looked away.
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:21 am to Funky Tide 8
I’ll smile, and she’ll wave. We’ll pretend it’s okay. The charade, it won’t last. When he’s gone, I won’t come back.
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:21 am to Funky Tide 8
With chicks, best to let ex come over and say hello. In that scenario, your present GF wouldn't have anything to bitch about.
Problem seems to be you are thinking about it.
Problem seems to be you are thinking about it.
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:21 am to Funky Tide 8
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girl I used to hook up with in college was there. I chose not to say hello to her or anything. She was with her assumed bf, and she also chose not to say hello.
The alpha thing to do here is to strike up a conversation with the boyfriend, get the boyfriend loosened up, and then proceed to have secks with him, while in the act telling him this is what I used to do to her regularly. While she watches.
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:24 am to rltiger
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Problem seems to be you are thinking about it.
I'm only thinking about it because it just naturally feels wrong for me to ignore someone I know. But at the end of the day, who gives a shite.
This post was edited on 11/17/22 at 2:02 pm
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:25 am to Funky Tide 8
You're not married, so it doesn't really married.
If married, don't make eye contact and act oblivious to the situation.
If married, don't make eye contact and act oblivious to the situation.
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:25 am to Funky Tide 8
Who is more attractive your SO or the ex?
This post was edited on 11/17/22 at 10:26 am
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:25 am to stelly1025
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Who is more attractive your SO or the ex?
S.O.
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:27 am to Funky Tide 8
We need pics to compare
Posted on 11/17/22 at 10:29 am to Funky Tide 8
One night I was at the Houston livestock show with my then girlfriend, and ran into three ex-girlfriends. One is easy to pass off, but an entire history was a challenge.

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