Regarding the Trans Society

Out of curiosity today I watched a video on the news app on my phone titled “what it’s like to walk through the world while trans”. It was about these three transgender males/females (not sure what gender they were becoming) complaining about the stares they got on the street, and how they were “disrespected” by other men for questioning their masculinity and whatnot. Anyway, the question I’m trying to get to here is that, though I’m sorry their having their own inner struggles, why do transgender people always try to inflict their struggles on others? Rather than just changing their genders without causing any commotion, they have to blame society for depriving them of their “privileges” and say that society offends them by not accepting their ways. Honestly, I would have no problem with that community if they privately went about their business, but the mindset that they have with regards to inflicting their problems on others and blaming everyone but themselves for their issues is disgusting to me. Am I correct for feeling this way?