re: Quick Survey For the Married OTers

1st and 9 years. You just have to make a better choice the first time. Her up bringing, parents, siblings are all indicators. Don’t be a pussy. Play the field until you find the right one. They need to have drive, ambition, and self respect. I mean you want them to be hot but you can give up some hotness if it means they’re a great wife, mother, and not fricking crazy. Trust me it’s worth it.
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Pretty much
The one time you should be selfish and not settle is when you’re wife hunting. You’re not going to fix their problems.
Got daddy issues? Run like the wind

1st for both of us, 12 years.

We were both in our late 30's when we married, so I think that helps. Getting married young doesn't work out often.

on my 2nd coming up on 8 years - actually, 8 happy years. First lasted nearly 10 years, 4 or so happy.

As far as the possibility of divorce going up after every consecutive marriage, my father just ended his 7th.

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I think your correlation to still being married is going to be more based on age at marriage then which number marriage it is.

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This, hence my previous post.

Celebrated 14 years last week. We dated for 4 years before we got engaged and were engaged for over a year as well. We’ve been together 19 years in all. 1st marriage.

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1st and 9 years. You just have to make a better choice the first time. Her up bringing, parents, siblings are all indicators. Don’t be a pussy. Play the field until you find the right one. They need to have drive, ambition, and self respect. I mean you want them to be hot but you can give up some hotness if it means they’re a great wife, mother, and not fricking crazy. Trust me it’s worth it.

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Dudes could avoid thousands of divorces a year by simply avoiding social media obsessed women and refusing steadfastly to date any girl who has ever taken a duck face selfie

1st..30 years.

Married way up.

1st for both of us. We’re still hanging in there after three weeks!

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on my 2nd coming up on 8 years - actually, 8 happy years. First lasted nearly 10 years, 4 or so happy.

As far as the possibility of divorce going up after every consecutive marriage, my father just ended his 7th.

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statistically, you have a higher chance of getting divorced if youre a product of divorced parents.

Blame your fateher for your first marriage failing.

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How many baws on here are still on there 1st and how many are on their 2nd or more??

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First marriage, four year wedding anniversary is in June. I know it isn't ten years, but I have a good feeling it will stick.