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re: Quick Survey For the Married OTers
Posted on 5/22/18 at 8:22 am to FLObserver
Posted on 5/22/18 at 8:22 am to FLObserver
1st and make 15yrs in December.
If you truly believe the first marriage is destined to fail, then don't get married. Mainly because you are one of two things: extremely selfish, or a terrible judge of character.
Just date people for a really long time, and break up. Don't get married.
If you aren't either one of things I mentioned, then you have to have patience, selflessness, and a lot of maturity. Marriage has taught me to be all those things, even though to a certain extent I was already. But I have grown exponentially in those areas thanks to my wife.
If you truly believe the first marriage is destined to fail, then don't get married. Mainly because you are one of two things: extremely selfish, or a terrible judge of character.
Just date people for a really long time, and break up. Don't get married.
If you aren't either one of things I mentioned, then you have to have patience, selflessness, and a lot of maturity. Marriage has taught me to be all those things, even though to a certain extent I was already. But I have grown exponentially in those areas thanks to my wife.
Posted on 5/22/18 at 8:23 am to NoSaint
Well i guess on the OT first year marriages rule
and yes i agree it is cheaper to keep the first but happier with 2nd wife
and yes i agree it is cheaper to keep the first but happier with 2nd wife
Posted on 5/22/18 at 8:23 am to Evil Little Thing
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Holy hell. Why would someone do that?
It really is amazing. I think she feels like she needs a man to take care of her. I can't believe she's been able to convince the last few suckers to marry her. She's had drug problems off and on her whole life.
It's insane that her and my wife are related
Posted on 5/22/18 at 8:24 am to FLObserver
First and going on four years. Your office sucks.
Posted on 5/22/18 at 8:27 am to FLObserver
2nd one here, 10 years. My first marriage, I was a young dumbass who was thinking with my dick instead of my brain and she liked other dude's dick....
This post was edited on 5/22/18 at 8:30 am
Posted on 5/22/18 at 8:27 am to FLObserver
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I assumed first would be higher.
Why? There are more people that get married once than get married twice.
Let's say 50 out of 100 first marriages end in divorce. Of those 50, 30 remarry. Of that 30, 20 get divorced again.
Which has the higher divorce rate: the first marriage group, or 2nd marriage group?
As for OPs question, my wife and I will mark our 5 year anniversary this June. We started dating in college, 10 years ago this December.
Posted on 5/22/18 at 8:28 am to FLObserver
1st, just celebrated 27 years. It gets better, IF you are BOTH willing to grow.
Posted on 5/22/18 at 8:29 am to FLObserver
1st. Will be ten years this summer.
Posted on 5/22/18 at 8:30 am to FLObserver
To everyone here in successful marriages:
Pics?
Pics?
Posted on 5/22/18 at 8:31 am to Impotent Waffle
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Impotent Waffle
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young dumbass who was thinking with my dick instead of my brain and she liked other dude's dick..
Well, i think we can surmise how the first one ended.
To actually add something here, 1st and 4 years last week. If you aren't able to have patience, compromise, and be honest with your own faults, it will never last.
This post was edited on 5/22/18 at 8:33 am
Posted on 5/22/18 at 8:31 am to FLObserver
1st and 9 years. You just have to make a better choice the first time. Her up bringing, parents, siblings are all indicators. Don’t be a pussy. Play the field until you find the right one. They need to have drive, ambition, and self respect. I mean you want them to be hot but you can give up some hotness if it means they’re a great wife, mother, and not fricking crazy. Trust me it’s worth it.
Posted on 5/22/18 at 8:32 am to FLObserver
1st (11 years).
But we dated over 7 years before that so I should get some partial credit.
But we dated over 7 years before that so I should get some partial credit.
Posted on 5/22/18 at 8:32 am to FLObserver
1st marriage, 5 years in.
None of my friends are divorced
ETA: but not all of them are married either.
None of my friends are divorced
ETA: but not all of them are married either.
This post was edited on 5/22/18 at 8:33 am
Posted on 5/22/18 at 8:38 am to NoSaint
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Second marriages have a higher divorce rate than first marriages. Third is even higher.
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You and your silly statistics
Past statistics have shown that in the U.S. 50% percent of first marriages, 67% of second, and 73% of third marriages end in divorce. Source: Psychology Today
Posted on 5/22/18 at 8:40 am to FLObserver
1st marriage here. 7 years in June
Posted on 5/22/18 at 8:42 am to FLObserver
What idiot would get married again?
Hookers and blow
Hookers and blow
Posted on 5/22/18 at 8:43 am to FLObserver
1st marriage lasted 6 1/2 years. On 2nd marriage now and we're at 6 1/2 years. Crossing my fingers! Hahaha.
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