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re: Question for those business owners here...
Posted on 3/12/25 at 6:45 pm to CMBears1259
Posted on 3/12/25 at 6:45 pm to CMBears1259
I started a business over 25 years ago (I was 34) with two partners. It was doing the same thing we were doing before for another company. It was a service business, and it ended up way bigger than our wildest dreams.
Posted on 3/12/25 at 6:53 pm to CMBears1259
I began my insurance agency after working for other agents for 4 years.
It was tough in the beginning. I worked nights and weekends at bars to make ends meet. After 3 yrs I hit my stride.
After 7.5 yrs, I sold it.
During that time I began a construction biz with a partner (lost a good amount of money) and an hvac biz that’s employee owned through shares (going strong).
After I sold the agency, I bought territories for kitchen and bathroom remodelers. I’m also beginning a restaurant overseas based on Cajun/New Orleans cuisine. My goal is to perpetually receive mailbox money after getting the companies up and running.
Nobody in my family owned/owns businesses.
It’s stressful, but freedom ain’t easy.
It was tough in the beginning. I worked nights and weekends at bars to make ends meet. After 3 yrs I hit my stride.
After 7.5 yrs, I sold it.
During that time I began a construction biz with a partner (lost a good amount of money) and an hvac biz that’s employee owned through shares (going strong).
After I sold the agency, I bought territories for kitchen and bathroom remodelers. I’m also beginning a restaurant overseas based on Cajun/New Orleans cuisine. My goal is to perpetually receive mailbox money after getting the companies up and running.
Nobody in my family owned/owns businesses.
It’s stressful, but freedom ain’t easy.
Posted on 3/12/25 at 7:45 pm to Rex Feral
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I grew up in it, never wanted to be a part of it, & went elsewhere after college. My dad had a key employee leave and asked me to help. I told him I'd pitch in but only for a couple months. I've been working with him for 25 years now. He's nearly 80 and still comes in every day. I regret nothing.
This closely mirrors my story
Posted on 3/12/25 at 8:05 pm to Rex Feral
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I grew up in it, never wanted to be a part of it, & went elsewhere after college. My dad had a key employee leave and asked me to help. I told him I'd pitch in but only for a couple months. I've been working with him for 25 years now. He's nearly 80 and still comes in every day. I regret nothing.
More or less this, also bought another company we were friends with for 25 years.
Posted on 3/12/25 at 8:06 pm to TigerBait2008
Whatya laughing about baw?
Posted on 3/12/25 at 8:17 pm to TheOcean
Count me as a guy too scared to do it, as much as I’d love to. I’m compensated well where I work now, but couldn’t maintain my family’s lifestyle if I were to give it all away to venture on my own. Salary, benefits, etc are tough to voluntarily walk away from, especially at the company I work for who treats me fairly and honestly.
So my question for those with families, is how did you do it without downgrading your lifestyle so to speak.
So my question for those with families, is how did you do it without downgrading your lifestyle so to speak.
This post was edited on 3/12/25 at 8:20 pm
Posted on 3/12/25 at 8:29 pm to CMBears1259
Born into grew up in it, tried to escape it, got married and had kids and got stuck. Embrace it and it's a little monster now. My father wouldn't approve of some changes but times change. My grandparents wanted me to do something else. But I've built on and continued their legacy.
Posted on 3/12/25 at 8:34 pm to PapaPogey
I started my first (law firm) when I was single and no kids. Would have been 100x tougher with a family. Especially with how much of a shite show insurance is now. Friends who have done it with families usually have a lot saved or a spouse who is able to float the family for six months or more
Posted on 3/12/25 at 8:49 pm to CMBears1259
Work on your written communication skills.
Left a $100K job in 1997 ro start a business that is still thriving. We had seven months' living expenses in the bank and my only partner was my wife.
I was an expert in my field, but I also understood the P&l side of the business.
Prepare for hard times and dig your well before you're thirsty.
Left a $100K job in 1997 ro start a business that is still thriving. We had seven months' living expenses in the bank and my only partner was my wife.
I was an expert in my field, but I also understood the P&l side of the business.
Prepare for hard times and dig your well before you're thirsty.
Posted on 3/12/25 at 9:31 pm to PapaPogey
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So my question for those with families, is how did you do it without downgrading your lifestyle so to speak.
I was the only support for a family of six. One of my partners was the only support for his family. We borrowed $200,000 on our three signatures and paid ourselves the same salaries we were used to. Fortunately the money started rolling in before we got to the bottom of that $200,000.
Posted on 3/12/25 at 9:48 pm to More beer please
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Bought an existing business after working in it for a few years
This. Profits still going to SBA for the next few years
Posted on 3/12/25 at 11:58 pm to diat150
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your perspective will change alot once you have people working for you. I can guarantee you that.
While I don’t have personal experience with this, my profession requires that I talk with a lot of business owners and company decision makers that I have a pretty good sense of the kind of headaches I’d be in store for.
Posted on 3/13/25 at 12:57 am to CMBears1259
Get some cash. Nut up. Work your arse off. Hope you don’t die and you’re family doesn’t starve.
Its hard. It’s terrifying
Risk/Reward baby.
Capitalism
Woohoo.
Let’s see what you got
Its hard. It’s terrifying
Risk/Reward baby.
Capitalism
Woohoo.
Let’s see what you got
Posted on 3/13/25 at 1:16 am to CMBears1259
Bought an existing business 6 years ago without knowing shite about business.
Have now bit off more than I can chew by parlaying that into other projects. Franchised the original and franchise is doing well.
Did all of this to work for myself and somehow still find myself working for the man often. I suppose it’s just a matter of perspective.
One thing I have learned is that you can do anything if you are willing to figure it out and keep moving forward.
If I can find a way to prevent the government from stealing from me in every way imaginable growth could actually be on the horizon.
Have now bit off more than I can chew by parlaying that into other projects. Franchised the original and franchise is doing well.
Did all of this to work for myself and somehow still find myself working for the man often. I suppose it’s just a matter of perspective.
One thing I have learned is that you can do anything if you are willing to figure it out and keep moving forward.
If I can find a way to prevent the government from stealing from me in every way imaginable growth could actually be on the horizon.
Posted on 3/13/25 at 5:19 am to CMBears1259
i began my civil engineering firm 10 years ago on my own. There are no engineers in my family, and id worked w/ other firms for appx 6 years before starting. We do have a family history of entrepreneurship however, and i grew up farming and a bit in the real estate industry, which with their unconventional hours and everyday schedule helped to prepare me for entrepreneurship. For me, this is working on it and/or thinking about it every day
looking back, were i more focused on only engineering i couldve been more successful. but im attracted to many things and have various rental properties, tried commercial construction for a short time, and are developing a farm now. i now have 10 employees and are having to build up my team again after having let my first crop of developed talent get recruited out due to not monitoring the market closely enough. Colin Cowherd says it on his radio show often - "people dont leave their jobs, they leave their management", and this has proven very true for me. I just flat out am too intense at times for some people. I have since brought in an EOS implementer to get structure and processes in place for our daily operations and this was a great move for us. ive been greatly humbled, had to own my mistakes and learn from them, and are building it back again
all in all - entrepreneurship was the best decision ive ever made. i dont have a wife and family which made it easier. dont live with the regret though of not trying it if you have the urge. i love business and could talk about this all day. what are your business ideas?
looking back, were i more focused on only engineering i couldve been more successful. but im attracted to many things and have various rental properties, tried commercial construction for a short time, and are developing a farm now. i now have 10 employees and are having to build up my team again after having let my first crop of developed talent get recruited out due to not monitoring the market closely enough. Colin Cowherd says it on his radio show often - "people dont leave their jobs, they leave their management", and this has proven very true for me. I just flat out am too intense at times for some people. I have since brought in an EOS implementer to get structure and processes in place for our daily operations and this was a great move for us. ive been greatly humbled, had to own my mistakes and learn from them, and are building it back again
all in all - entrepreneurship was the best decision ive ever made. i dont have a wife and family which made it easier. dont live with the regret though of not trying it if you have the urge. i love business and could talk about this all day. what are your business ideas?
Posted on 3/13/25 at 5:42 am to CMBears1259
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Posted on 3/13/25 at 7:31 am to CMBears1259
I started a business in 1993 after getting laid off (basically fired) as a general manager to make way for a friend of the owner who drove that business into bankruptcy in less than 3 years. I was sick and tired of people making decisions that I had no say in that impacted my ability to earn a living. I started that business with NO money and no commercial credit at all. I had good personal credit but no business credit at all. I had one good, solid industry contact. I milked that one contact like it was a sacred cow....anything they needed I was their man. It worked. I landed a sizeable contract with them and never looked back. I sold that business in 2006.
I learned some shite during this period. First off if you are going to be successful working for yourself you most likely have never had a shittier boss. This may not be so for most people but I was far harder and demanding of myself than anyone I had ever worked for was. I also learned that making a profit is nice but cash flow is the secret, Profits will eventually come IF you can afford to pay the bills on time long enough. Seriously, cash is the life blood of a business. Vendors love a customer who pays but does so after accruing a chunk of interest every month. Managing cash flow was my biggest job....and I never got to be good at it, still ain't. It is an art that is best mastered if you want to be successful. The biggest thing I learned is that a small business is akin to a baby....it never leaves your mind, demands almost every minute of your attention and you will never love or be prouder of anything in your life.
I would not do it on that scale again. I am now a 1 person consultant so I am technically in a business I own but it is more like a job than a business. I did it, proved to myself that I could and got out before I committed the rest of my life to it....I do not know that I would have made it more than another 5 years or so without becoming burnt out. It was by far the most rewarding period of my working life but it seems like far more work and effort than I would want to expend today. If I were still working for other people though and at the mercy of their whims I would do it again and again and again until I succeeded or went tits up trying.
I learned some shite during this period. First off if you are going to be successful working for yourself you most likely have never had a shittier boss. This may not be so for most people but I was far harder and demanding of myself than anyone I had ever worked for was. I also learned that making a profit is nice but cash flow is the secret, Profits will eventually come IF you can afford to pay the bills on time long enough. Seriously, cash is the life blood of a business. Vendors love a customer who pays but does so after accruing a chunk of interest every month. Managing cash flow was my biggest job....and I never got to be good at it, still ain't. It is an art that is best mastered if you want to be successful. The biggest thing I learned is that a small business is akin to a baby....it never leaves your mind, demands almost every minute of your attention and you will never love or be prouder of anything in your life.
I would not do it on that scale again. I am now a 1 person consultant so I am technically in a business I own but it is more like a job than a business. I did it, proved to myself that I could and got out before I committed the rest of my life to it....I do not know that I would have made it more than another 5 years or so without becoming burnt out. It was by far the most rewarding period of my working life but it seems like far more work and effort than I would want to expend today. If I were still working for other people though and at the mercy of their whims I would do it again and again and again until I succeeded or went tits up trying.
Posted on 3/13/25 at 8:39 am to cgrand
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father and I started it together in 2006.
he retired and I bought him out.
Selling it in two weeks
Similar to my story but it was 2010 and sold it last year. Bought into a franchise in an industry I've never worked before. Incredible support from the franchisor which is crucial to any franchise. Working on opening the first store. Planning to have at least 4 locations, maybe more.
The goal for most owners is to work on their business (growth goals, profitability) as opposed to working in it (daily operations). It takes time, sweat and maybe some blood to get there but life is good when you do. Until that point you're really just another employee with tons more responsibilities than when you just had a job.
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