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re: Prayers needed….any words of encouragement or advice.

Posted on 6/12/22 at 7:51 pm to
Posted by 87PurpleandGold
Arkansas
Member since Sep 2016
502 posts
Posted on 6/12/22 at 7:51 pm to
Praying for you man. I cannot imagine. Please get involved with a local church; especially where they off grief counseling. When a loved passes that suddenly, it is even more traumatic than you realize. Same goes for those Littles ones too. Work out that grief. DO NOT bottle it up. Blocked emotions eventually cause disease. You need a group praying for you and helping you work out the grief. Will continue to pray for your family. Those little ones will ESPECIALLY look up to now that their Momma is gone.
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
176139 posts
Posted on 6/12/22 at 7:52 pm to
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redstick13

hugs bro
Posted by sanantoniosleauxgeaux
Texas
Member since May 2015
295 posts
Posted on 6/12/22 at 7:59 pm to
God bless you sir. So sorry for your loss. I had to bury my first born son and went through many of the emotions you’re feeling. I learned over time and through prayer and seeking that it is perfectly normal and expected to ask God questions, just don’t let it take you to the point where you question God’s love.

Prayers for you and for your children. Seek the counsel of someone in your area and rely on the love of family and friends as you focus on your children.
Posted by jimmy the leg
Member since Aug 2007
34346 posts
Posted on 6/12/22 at 8:04 pm to
Man, I am very sorry for your loss. Life simply makes no sense sometimes. I would hope that get some grief counseling (and soon). However,

quote:

we have 3 kids including 2 little girls.


is your immediate focus.

I hope you have relatives and friends that can help you with what you face.

Prayers for you and your family amigo.
Posted by Bayouboogaloocrew
Dixie
Member since Jul 2013
3146 posts
Posted on 6/12/22 at 8:06 pm to
Wow man…can’t imagine. Prayers going up for you and your girls
Posted by tigahfromtheham
On your left
Member since Jun 2005
5801 posts
Posted on 6/12/22 at 8:08 pm to
Wow. I’m very sorry to hear that. I’ll keep you and your family in my prayers.

Been two years since I lost mine and I can confirm, you and the children will be ok. It’s gonna hurt like hell for a long time, maybe forever, I don’t know. Honor her every day by letting her spirit shine through you. Show your children how to overcome adversity, you got this sir.
Posted by DeltaTigerDelta
Member since Jan 2017
11340 posts
Posted on 6/12/22 at 8:08 pm to
Sorry this has happened to you. You sound like a man of strong faith. Lean on that faith.
Posted by Turf Taint
New Orleans
Member since Jun 2021
6010 posts
Posted on 6/12/22 at 8:15 pm to
I am so very sorry for you and your family’s loss. May she RIP and you find strength to hold your family tight and make sense of this. You will get through this.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
39221 posts
Posted on 6/12/22 at 8:18 pm to
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I am deeply sorry for your loss. You will have many people surround you to help you make decisions. Make changes slowly, and avail yourself and your kids to any counseling help you need. If you have a church, lean on the people there to help you and encourage you.

I have no wisdom to share other than God bless you and your family during this time.



All of this, from me too, but I just have one small thing to add. Make sure that you, and those babies, get plenty to eat. A few years back, my wife almost passed, and spent 7 weeks in Shands. In dealing with the trauma, for me and my small daughter, we learned quickly that mealtime comes and goes, and can be forgotten.

Also, let the people in your orbit come around, and spend a little time with you and your little ones. They will bring food, some will bring wisdom, and most are there to bring comfort.

My best to you, and yours.
Posted by Wiseguy
Member since Mar 2020
3404 posts
Posted on 6/12/22 at 8:18 pm to
Damn, man. I am so sorry to read this. I can’t begin to imagine what you are going through right now.

That said, I don’t know if you are in the BR area (based on username I’m guessing not) but if you are I would love to buy you a drink sometime when you just need to get away and vent or blow some steam off.
Posted by 850SaintsGator
Pensacola
Member since Sep 2021
2273 posts
Posted on 6/12/22 at 8:18 pm to
shite man! Prayers offered up man
Posted by PhillyTiger90
Member since Dec 2015
10717 posts
Posted on 6/12/22 at 8:18 pm to
Very sorry man

No words to even describe it
Posted by Indefatigable
Member since Jan 2019
26640 posts
Posted on 6/12/22 at 8:20 pm to
There aren’t enough words to express my condolences for you, man. Be strong for those kiddos, and let your beautiful wife’s legacy guide you in raising them.

Don’t forget to let yourself heal. Lean on family and friends.
This post was edited on 6/12/22 at 8:21 pm
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
114038 posts
Posted on 6/12/22 at 8:27 pm to
This is heartbreaking. The only thing I can say right now is that you have 3 children who needs you right now and that's more important than anything else.

Life throws us curveballs. Some worse than others, but I think the best thing for you right now is mourn your wife properly. Let family and friends help you. Take as long as you need to mourn and then the only thing you can do is move forward. But the kids need you as much as you need them.
Posted by OTIS2
NoLA
Member since Jul 2008
50185 posts
Posted on 6/12/22 at 8:29 pm to
Prayers for your family.
Posted by Hoova1202004
Member since Jun 2022
48 posts
Posted on 6/12/22 at 8:29 pm to
I appreciate that, I will take you up on that offer one day. I am on the north shore.
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
176139 posts
Posted on 6/12/22 at 8:31 pm to
well said Chris,
Posted by SteelerBravesDawg
Member since Sep 2020
35044 posts
Posted on 6/12/22 at 8:32 pm to
Done.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
35425 posts
Posted on 6/12/22 at 8:35 pm to
Definitely get some help when the time is right. I don’t even know where to start. Just take it one day at a time and be there for your kids. I know they must be devastated. I’d be lost as well. You will get through it though.
Posted by BigJman
Member since May 2021
493 posts
Posted on 6/12/22 at 8:36 pm to
Praying for you brother
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