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re: People that use their kids as an excuse for not completing work obligations

Posted on 6/3/22 at 1:51 pm to
Posted by LT
The City of St. George
Member since May 2008
5153 posts
Posted on 6/3/22 at 1:51 pm to
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Well, if your family is more important than completing your work obligations you won't have a job or a family to provide for because you spouse will leave your broke arse.



Family is 1000 times more important. My kid gets sick I'm out the door. Never had an issue with loser boss/coworkers over sick kids.

Suck a 8====D incel!
Posted by CrimsonJazz
Member since Dec 2014
1011 posts
Posted on 6/3/22 at 1:52 pm to
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I use my kid (will be plural here in a few months) as a way to get out of going to social events that I have no desire to go to.


My youngest just graduated HS and I'm still trying to pull shite like this. I've got to get more creative or my life is going to be hell going forward because my old excuse just doesn't work anymore.
Posted by Funky Tide 8
Bayou Chico
Member since Feb 2009
54825 posts
Posted on 6/3/22 at 1:55 pm to
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And if you are working past 2 on a Friday, you are doing something terribly, terribly wrong.



The OT, folks.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
29579 posts
Posted on 6/3/22 at 1:56 pm to
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Family is 1000 times more important


No shite, no one argues different
Posted by Crowknowsbest
Member since May 2012
26506 posts
Posted on 6/3/22 at 1:57 pm to
It is annoying when coworkers with kids will unload their obligations on those without kids and act like that is somehow fair.

I don’t have kids but don’t mind picking up the slack of someone who wants to go watch their kid’s soccer game, but it’s nice if they at least acknowledge the fact that I’m making a sacrifice on their behalf.
Posted by RandySavage
Member since May 2012
33467 posts
Posted on 6/3/22 at 1:57 pm to
People who use work obligations as an excuse for not parenting their kids are the worst.
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10399 posts
Posted on 6/3/22 at 1:58 pm to
Much more to life than work.
Posted by Rhio
Lake Charles
Member since Dec 2013
1378 posts
Posted on 6/3/22 at 1:59 pm to
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Well, if your family is more important than completing your work obligations you won't have a job or a family to provide for because you spouse will leave your broke arse. I'm sure the person that we let go is going to have an easier time providing for their child now that they don't have to worry about pesky salary.



Family is more important than anything else in the world. Can't make accomodations for my sick kid, I'm out the door and you are short an employee.

New employees are hard to come by these days, with the government basically showing everybody that they don't owe their lives to a job, so good luck at trying to find one.
Posted by Ralph_Wiggum
Sugarland
Member since Jul 2005
10852 posts
Posted on 6/3/22 at 2:00 pm to
People do use that excuse, but from my experience it's usually something serious like an illness and not "I have to take my kid to soccer practice". Though some abuse the situation I find it in the minority

Now what is used as an excuse all the time is "I can't have meetings at that day or time because of my kids".
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10399 posts
Posted on 6/3/22 at 2:01 pm to
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I do think women like to blame shite on their children
How many times have you been pregnant, delivered a baby, dealt with postpartum issues, been a mother, worked full time, been a wife?
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
29579 posts
Posted on 6/3/22 at 2:01 pm to
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How many times have you been pregnant, delivered a baby, dealt with postpartum issues, been a mother, worked full time, been a wife?


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by tigergirl10


Same amount of times as you, Walt
This post was edited on 6/3/22 at 2:02 pm
Posted by Chef Curry
Member since Mar 2019
2434 posts
Posted on 6/3/22 at 2:02 pm to
frick work. I’ll prioritize my family every time because the vast majority of companies don’t give a frick about their people.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
29579 posts
Posted on 6/3/22 at 2:03 pm to
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frick work. I’ll prioritize my family every time because the vast majority of companies don’t give a frick about their people.


You're free to take your time off for that reason.

When I take time off to go do what I want don't bother me because you don't think what I'm doing is as worthy
Posted by LT
The City of St. George
Member since May 2008
5153 posts
Posted on 6/3/22 at 2:06 pm to
Do you think anyone cares what you do with your vacation? Serious question.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
29579 posts
Posted on 6/3/22 at 2:09 pm to
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Do you think anyone cares what you do with your vacation? Serious question.


I think there are plenty of people that deem your vacation isn't as important as their kids so their time off trumps yours.

As a concept, I agree, but it's not up to them to determine when I can take my time off to accommodate your schedule.

And yes, I think that happens all the time. People want their coworkers without kids to pick up their slack or acquiesce to their schedules all the damn time.
Posted by Giantkiller
the internet.
Member since Sep 2007
23343 posts
Posted on 6/3/22 at 2:10 pm to
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Barstools


Well, I guess you just put yourself on the "People I Don't Wanna Work For" list.
Posted by Korkstand
Member since Nov 2003
28997 posts
Posted on 6/3/22 at 2:11 pm to
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No one asked you to have a kid.
Did they ask them *not* to? Or would that have put your employer at a disadvantage in the hiring process?
Posted by Crowknowsbest
Member since May 2012
26506 posts
Posted on 6/3/22 at 2:13 pm to
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And yes, I think that happens all the time. People want their coworkers without kids to pick up their slack or acquiesce to their schedules all the damn time.

Very common in my experience.
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
90567 posts
Posted on 6/3/22 at 2:14 pm to
People with kids think their work schedule, time off, etc trumps people without kids schedules in every workplace. Cindy left today at 2pm because her kid blah blah blah.

Well tomorrow I think I am going to leave at 2pm. Why? I want to go have some beers at Hooters and watch the game. Same excuse as far as I am concerned
Posted by LT
The City of St. George
Member since May 2008
5153 posts
Posted on 6/3/22 at 2:14 pm to
I'm genuinely curious here... when I leave to go get a sick kid or watch their honor roll ceremony- my work is there waiting for me. In my position, there isn't any pawning stuff off.


What field are yall in where if someone leaves early you have to catch all their work immediately that day then and there?
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