Started By
Message

re: Parents of new college students are having some issues

Posted on 8/7/26 at 6:04 am to
Posted by Bard
Definitely NOT an admin
Member since Oct 2008
60081 posts
Posted on 8/7/26 at 6:04 am to
quote:

How in the world are so many people so unprepared for this? And I’m not even saying “they didn’t save.” How is it a week or two before school starts, and the parents have no idea how they are going to pay for it?


Sounds like their kids would be better off in a trade school. Low cost, shorter curriculum, most trade schools have very active placement programs so the grad comes out with a decent job.
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
41517 posts
Posted on 8/7/26 at 6:36 am to
quote:

The issue is most parents these days have overcorrected from complete hands off into an unhealthy codependency.


I think this happens but is pretty rare.

For example I’ve interviewed hundreds of soon to be college grads and not once did I have to deal with a parent.

I think the overbearing parent thing is talked about a lot more than it is seen.
This post was edited on 8/7/26 at 6:38 am
Posted by turnpiketiger
Member since May 2020
12546 posts
Posted on 8/7/26 at 6:48 am to
quote:

I was blown away recently to find out LSU is now 25k a year???? Like wtf


It should be more and admission requirements should be more strict. Trust me it would help a lot
Posted by HouseMom
Member since Jun 2020
1958 posts
Posted on 8/7/26 at 8:28 am to
quote:

I would also try to send them to public school for k through high school. The idea of spending $100k before college seems crazy to me.


People do this for social/business connections, as much as the actual education.
Posted by Dragula
Laguna Seca
Member since Jun 2020
6943 posts
Posted on 8/7/26 at 8:34 am to
quote:

And I’m not even saying “they didn’t save.” How is it a week or two before school starts, and the parents have no idea how they are going to pay for it?



Jaxson's Dad is not going to compromise "Getting the Call" from Rolex and Mom not driving her Range Rover over simple college tuition
Posted by HouseMom
Member since Jun 2020
1958 posts
Posted on 8/7/26 at 8:39 am to
quote:

Jaxson's Dad is not going to compromise "Getting the Call" from Rolex and Mom not driving her Range Rover over simple college tuition


There's some of that, but we also have a ton of dirt poor "first gen" college students. Their parents aren't educated (might not even speak English) and don't make any money for themselves anyway.

The high school counselors push them all to go to college without any real consideration for how the student will pay for it.
Posted by TBoy
Kalamazoo
Member since Dec 2007
29085 posts
Posted on 8/7/26 at 9:20 am to
quote:

I would have moved heaven and earth to give my son the best education he could have gotten.

Exactly how I live my life. My parents paid for all of us to have a four year degree. Beyond that was on us.

I have gotten all of my children through undergrad college debt free. Same deal.

The only difference is that I went to LSU when tuition was less than $1,000. All but one of my kids went to selective private colleges out of state.

But that was my promise to myself. I was going to make that happen even if I had to eat cat food.
Posted by Old Sarge
Dean of Admissions, LSU
Member since Jan 2012
63497 posts
Posted on 8/7/26 at 9:24 am to
I actually just joined a Facebook group for one of the schools that One of my younger kids is attending.

It is crazy, your comment about cost is spot on. one bedroom in an apartment that has four bedrooms is over $12,000 per year, so 48K per year for a four bedroom apartment, I really need to look into who owns the student housing apartments, and invest heavily in them


We can Afford it, we planned for it, but these people taking out loans to pay for that and encouraging their kids to take out student loans to pay for that is insane


This post was edited on 8/7/26 at 9:26 am
Posted by TU Rob
Birmingham
Member since Nov 2008
13554 posts
Posted on 8/7/26 at 9:41 am to
I'm glad my only problem with mine going off to college is trying to rent a cargo van to haul stuff to her dorm. She's got a full scholarship, and I tried to rent a van from Hertz a few days ago. I got a call last night, after they were closed, and they left a message that the online booking system "allowed" me to rent a van from an office that doesn't rent vans. So I went online to Enterprise, and rented a van. Get a call this morning that there is more demand than supply and they may not have a cargo van available for me. I have an enclosed trailer I can use as a backup, but it seems in 2026 than online reservation systems would be more advanced than this. Customer is trying to rent a van from location XYZ and they don't rent those, maybe redirect me to another location before finalizing. Customer wants to rent this vehicle from us, do we have enough available before we finalize?
Posted by Casual
Member since Apr 2026
69 posts
Posted on 8/7/26 at 9:44 am to
quote:

I'm glad my only problem with mine going off to college is trying to rent a cargo van to haul stuff to her dorm. She's got a full scholarship, and I tried to rent a van from Hertz a few days ago. I got a call last night, after they were closed, and they left a message that the online booking system "allowed" me to rent a van from an office that doesn't rent vans. So I went online to Enterprise, and rented a van. Get a call this morning that there is more demand than supply and they may not have a cargo van available for me. I have an enclosed trailer I can use as a backup, but it seems in 2026 than online reservation systems would be more advanced than this. Customer is trying to rent a van from location XYZ and they don't rent those, maybe redirect me to another location before finalizing. Customer wants to rent this vehicle from us, do we have enough available before we finalize?

Posted by SparkyWilson
Member since May 2026
209 posts
Posted on 8/7/26 at 9:54 am to
quote:

No shite Sparky! I entered this thread by responding to that one poster. My comments had absolutely nothing to do with the OP and everything to do with the fact that I agree with his opinion that parents don't owe their kids a college education.


But why? Why contribute to the derailment of the original topic just because some other yahoo couldn't grasp it?
Posted by SparkyWilson
Member since May 2026
209 posts
Posted on 8/7/26 at 9:59 am to
quote:

There's some of that, but we also have a ton of dirt poor "first gen" college students. Their parents aren't educated (might not even speak English) and don't make any money for themselves anyway.

The high school counselors push them all to go to college without any real consideration for how the student will pay for it.


Very true. We see this in several facet of life's finances. The uneducated don't know any better and those who stand to make money off of that could not care less what it does to them.

I absolutely hate the idea of saving people from themselves, but this out-of-control freight train of student loans needs to be stopped. If student loans were given the same scrutiny and underwriting that mortgages and business loans are, we'd be in a lot better shape. Only issue is the universities will never want that since it will significantly curtail their revenue.
Posted by Byron Bojangles III
Member since Nov 2012
52755 posts
Posted on 8/7/26 at 10:05 am to
quote:

There's some of that, but we also have a ton of dirt poor "first gen" college students. Their parents aren't educated (might not even speak English) and don't make any money for themselves anyway.

The high school counselors push them all to go to college without any real consideration for how the student will pay for it.
people always talk about how "parents aren't educated" well maybe if college was free we'd have more educated people in the world. shocking thought i know.
Posted by upstate
Member since Nov 2015
725 posts
Posted on 8/7/26 at 10:19 am to
quote:

I was blown away recently to find out LSU is now 25k a year


That's cheap when you compare it to top tier schools.


it is cheap but it's also a huge issue.

Parents sending their kids to school this year would have given birth during the housing crisis or near there, which resulted in a recession from 07-09. I entered the workforce then and times werent great for a younger worker trying to find their way.

Then we dealt with the Obama years with financial programs intended to revive the economy, then COVID followed by the two highest inflation years since 40 years prior... all while wages havent adjusted.

In state estimated costs at Auburn this year at almost 40K all in. that is 4x the estimate of when I went to school in 2002.

There are many valid points in this thread. College isnt for everyone. Parents should try to help their kids with college and save. Kids can help pay for their own, etc.

I think it is also fair to say that parents now also have a more difficult task of paying for the current college costs based on economic factors of the past 20 years, and it frankly isnt always because they have shiny new cars and mortgages that they cannot afford.

College needs a correction, badly, or something in the environment will need to change because the costs are only rising and in the coming years it will create a larger and larger burden on anyone that wants to participate.
Posted by bluedragon
Birmingham
Member since May 2020
9962 posts
Posted on 8/7/26 at 10:20 am to
We lucked out. Months before we went, our great uncle was placed in a nursing home, that left a three bedroom two bath house, last painted exterior in 1942. Grandfather decided “We get the house, the three of you are going to update the kitchen and two baths. Then paint the house. All done before the end of the summer. Six years of school without a rent or searching for housing. All added Master’s.

The only challenge was getting Sears to come up with a primer and paint to end the thirst that wood house had for moisture. That house has been passed down for generations now. We learned cook and grocery shop each week and ate better than the students on a meal plan. Two blocks off campus was a gift as well.
Posted by sidewalkside
rent free in yo head
Member since Sep 2021
4771 posts
Posted on 8/7/26 at 10:21 am to
quote:

Lies. Tuition is 12,800 for fall and spring
yes because everyone knows LSU students do not eat, do not need housing do not need text books or anything else for the 4 years they are there. They simply pay tuition only.
Posted by LSU1SLU
Member since Mar 2013
8228 posts
Posted on 8/7/26 at 10:22 am to
quote:

All a kid needs is a freaking 2.5 GPA in Louisiana to cover 100% of tuition. If you can't muster that, you should be going to a trade school or community college.


I am sorry what?? How old are you bro. That wasnt even the case for me in 09
Posted by TU Rob
Birmingham
Member since Nov 2008
13554 posts
Posted on 8/7/26 at 10:51 am to
quote:




Exactly, and this is the second time this year I've had issues, and now it involves three different rental agencies. I used Budget when I went on a trip out west earlier this summer. 12 passenger van rental, made the reservation a month out for a week. We arrive at the airport after 9PM and they don't have a van. They gave us a minivan for the night, and got us the 12 passenger van there the next day, but even that was a hassle loading and unloading luggage and supplies. Now Hertz and Enterprise have done the same thing, but at least I got a call ahead of time from both of them to let me know.
Posted by Tvilletiger
PVB
Member since Oct 2015
6027 posts
Posted on 8/7/26 at 1:33 pm to
Nope it does not. They have huge fitness center, a few pools and one with the big movie screen. Absolute rip off. I am so pissed
Posted by bubblehead26
Temecula
Member since Apr 2012
378 posts
Posted on 8/7/26 at 3:44 pm to
people like to talk down on california, myself included, but my daughter will likely be attending a local community college 2 miles from my house, and her associates degree will guarantee admission to any california state university and will also include a gpa boost. oh, and it's completely tuition free. granted, it's all military connected, still a huge chunk of money that i don't have to spend. and we're close enough to all of the schools that she can stay living at home and focus on school
Jump to page
Page First 9 10 11 12
Jump to page
first pageprev pagePage 11 of 12Next pagelast page

Back to top
logoFollow TigerDroppings for LSU Football News
Follow us on X, Facebook and Instagram to get the latest updates on LSU Football and Recruiting.

FacebookXInstagram