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re: Parents: master bedroom rules
Posted on 11/1/19 at 2:13 pm to CAD703X
Posted on 11/1/19 at 2:13 pm to CAD703X
quote:
I have a 4yo.
Anyone who says they don't let him jump into mom and dad's bed occasionally when he wakes up crying is a liar.
He's my last so I'm less militant with him.
I read this as 40yo.
I was like:
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Posted on 11/1/19 at 2:14 pm to crazyatthecamp
Our almost 3 year old has only slept in our bed a handful of times when he was sick or when we were out of town. I think our 8 month old has only slept in our bed on my wife's chest for an hour here and there to get him back to sleep when he is teething, I guess he hasn't really gotten old enough for this to be an issue with him yet
Posted on 11/1/19 at 2:14 pm to crazyatthecamp
quote:Yes
Is your master bedroom off limits?
Posted on 11/1/19 at 2:14 pm to crazyatthecamp
Let the boy watch. He has to learn. The way I learned from my father.
Posted on 11/1/19 at 2:15 pm to rowbear1922
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Do you like having sex with your wife? No - Let the kids sleep in the bed Yes - Do not let your kids sleep in the bed
Know how I know you're not married (yes, I know you said so in your post)...
Not all sex between married couples happen at bedtime.
I don't think I've had sex later than 6pm in 10 years. Bedtime is for sleeping. Sex in the middle of the day is awesome.
This post was edited on 11/1/19 at 2:16 pm
Posted on 11/1/19 at 2:17 pm to KirkLazarus
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Let the boy watch. He has to learn. The way I learned from my father.
This man speaks the truth. It's how I learned that mothers like their hair pulled and their necks firmly - but not too firmly - choked.
This post was edited on 11/1/19 at 2:17 pm
Posted on 11/1/19 at 2:17 pm to crazyatthecamp
I have a bunch of Eastern Euro friends that now live in the states. Kids sleeping in parents bed late into childhood is a real thing. (Doesn’t happen in my family)
The other is breast feeding late into childhood. When a child is old enough to walk up to mom and say he/she is hungry I think it’s time to stop. One of my friends kids basically asked to my wife to breast feed him. He’s old enough to know she has boobs but not old enough to understand not every woman with boobs is a source of food for him.
But yes, I don’t think kids should be sleeping in their parents bed, but I suspect it happens quite a bit.
The other is breast feeding late into childhood. When a child is old enough to walk up to mom and say he/she is hungry I think it’s time to stop. One of my friends kids basically asked to my wife to breast feed him. He’s old enough to know she has boobs but not old enough to understand not every woman with boobs is a source of food for him.
But yes, I don’t think kids should be sleeping in their parents bed, but I suspect it happens quite a bit.
Posted on 11/1/19 at 2:18 pm to crazyatthecamp
quote:
your master bedroom off limits? Do you have a rule for the kids?
Yes.
No kids allowed in there.
Posted on 11/1/19 at 2:18 pm to i am dan
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Know how I know you're not married (yes, I know you said so in your post)...
Not all sex between married couples happen at bedtime.
I don't think I've had sex later than 6pm in 10 years. Bedtime is for sleeping. Sex in the middle of the day is awesome.
Better be in the middle of the day when the little frick trophies aren't there.
I'd be nervous if they slept in my bed often that they would get too comfortable and just walk into the room anytime they wanted.
Posted on 11/1/19 at 2:18 pm to upgrayedd
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Show em how they were made when they try to get in your marital bed. Problem solved.
This post was edited on 11/1/19 at 2:21 pm
Posted on 11/1/19 at 2:20 pm to rowbear1922
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Better be in the middle of the day when the little frick trophies aren't there. I'd be nervous if they slept in my bed often that they would get too comfortable and just walk into the room anytime they wanted.
Naptime and doorlocks.
Our son, 16, has known for a while now that why our door is locked sometime between 1pm and 5pm on Saturdays.
This post was edited on 11/1/19 at 2:25 pm
Posted on 11/1/19 at 2:21 pm to brass2mouth
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No kids allowed in there.
I'll let my kid go in our room and watch TV sometimes. She's almost 13 though. No other kids allowed in my bedroom.
Posted on 11/1/19 at 2:21 pm to Sao
I get my life advice from Ashley Schaeffer
Posted on 11/1/19 at 2:22 pm to rowbear1922
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I'm not married nor due I have kids, but....
Broski, you aren’t getting any younger....
Posted on 11/1/19 at 2:22 pm to i am dan
quote:
Naptime and doorlocks.
Our son is old enough now that he knows why our door is locked sometime between 1pm and 5pm on Saturdays
On Saturdays, my parents would just tell me to leave the house and don't come home until the street lights came on...took a while until I figured out why
Posted on 11/1/19 at 2:22 pm to crazyatthecamp
Kids spending too much time in parents bed seems way too common now. When I was a kid, sure I would sneak into my parents bed if I had a nightmare or something but I slept in my own bed 95% of the time.
Parents I know now pretty much wasted money on bedroom furniture b/c their kids sleep in their bed 7 days a week. It's crazy. One girl I went to high school with calls it "co-sleeping"
What I think it really boils down to are that parents are too lazy to tell their kids no and train them to sleep in their own beds most of the time.
much of the latest generations issues will be b/c of lazy parenting.
Parents I know now pretty much wasted money on bedroom furniture b/c their kids sleep in their bed 7 days a week. It's crazy. One girl I went to high school with calls it "co-sleeping"
What I think it really boils down to are that parents are too lazy to tell their kids no and train them to sleep in their own beds most of the time.
much of the latest generations issues will be b/c of lazy parenting.
Posted on 11/1/19 at 2:23 pm to Breauxsif
My oldest 2 share a room and my wife was very worried about them never falling asleep when we first did it. I’m convinced have the two of them together helps them sleep. They almost never wake us up from nightmares or need to sleep with us. Really only when they are sick and then rarely even. We have a spare bedroom and try to take the sick kid in there to quarantine them.
So yes I’m completely against it, not really for sex purposes as much as just basic boundaries and increasing everyone’s quality of sleep.
Given that, I know multiple parents that let either babies sleep which is dangerous or kids waaaaaayyy too old to still routinely sleep with them.
So yes I’m completely against it, not really for sex purposes as much as just basic boundaries and increasing everyone’s quality of sleep.
Given that, I know multiple parents that let either babies sleep which is dangerous or kids waaaaaayyy too old to still routinely sleep with them.
This post was edited on 11/1/19 at 2:24 pm
Posted on 11/1/19 at 2:23 pm to GeorgeTheGreek
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Broski, you aren’t getting any younger....
Well aware. I don't really have much interest in either currently. Maybe closer to 40 I'll get one then 9 months later the other.
Posted on 11/1/19 at 2:24 pm to KirkLazarus
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Let the boy watch. He has to learn. The way I learned from my father.
And the way he learned from his father.
Posted on 11/1/19 at 2:25 pm to crazyatthecamp
Only if they’re sick and need me throughout the night... otherwise, they keep that arse in their bedrooms. I’ve got enough distractions during the day that cock block, definitely don’t need that at night.
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