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re: Parents attendance at youth vs high school sports, away games are cool to miss?

Posted on 4/30/21 at 9:06 am to
Posted by Niamey Vice
Member since Apr 2021
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Posted on 4/30/21 at 9:06 am to
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Nah.

Just either a shitty troll or shitty person.

Probably both.

Aren’t we all a little bit of both at times?
Posted by Vood
Member since Dec 2007
8600 posts
Posted on 4/30/21 at 9:07 am to
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Depends on how much I like the sport. I really like baseball so I’ll drive a good ways to watch my son play. If he decides to take up soccer I’m not going unless it’s 5 minutes away and in an indoor climate controlled facility with high speed wifi so I can watch real sports on my phone.




This has to be a joke. You mean watching other people is more important than being there to support your child? It means more to them than they let on.

Soccer is actually a very exciting sport to watch vs baseball. At any moment a break away can happen and a scoring opportunity can present itself. You get to see great defense and great offense on these breaks.

Baseball is one of the more boring sports to watch. I watched both my sons play through high school and it was a snooze fest more times than not.
This post was edited on 4/30/21 at 9:14 am
Posted by burdman
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2007
22733 posts
Posted on 4/30/21 at 9:08 am to
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Truthfully, I didn’t give a frick if they were ever there. I played sports for myself.


Pretty much this. Parents went to most of my games growing up but I didn't expect them to travel multiple hours to catch a random game on a Tuesday or anything.
Posted by Mid Iowa Tiger
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Posted on 4/30/21 at 9:09 am to
I try to attend all of my kid's games where ever they are. My parents went to a total of maybe 6 of my games throughout everything I did - T-ball - high school. I guess because of that experience I want my kids to have the feeling of being supported.

I used to ride my bike to my t-ball, little league, and high school baseball games (until I bought my first truck) all my football games I rode with a neighbor and teammate until I was driving. I quit basketball in the 5th grade because it was too early to be able to ride my bike to the Boy's Club and get there on time.

Those experiences sucked so I guess I now go overboard. I am the dad that is overly involved - scoreboard operations, coaching, building the set for the musical, line judge for volleyball, etc. My kids are only going to be around me for so long, then I can do other things.
Posted by Rick9Plus
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2020
2501 posts
Posted on 4/30/21 at 9:10 am to
When my parents (boomers) were kids, their parents didn’t go to anything. Their sports were “kid stuff”, and parents rarely went to games and never practices. My dad said a lot of their pre-high school baseball practices were led by their team captain and didn’t even have an adult present.

When i was a kid (border of gen X/millenial), my parents maybe went to a few games/meets per year, never practices.

With my kids, I go to home games when i can, but sometimes i’m working if it’s before 5 on a weekday. They are high school and college age now. It seems like with each younger generation, parents become more present with everything. Not making judgment, just an observation.
Posted by vistajay
Member since Oct 2012
2900 posts
Posted on 4/30/21 at 9:10 am to
It's always sad to see how few parents show up for some teams playing away, especially if the game conflicts with LSU football.
Posted by Hamma1122
Member since Sep 2016
22324 posts
Posted on 4/30/21 at 9:10 am to
Mine came to all my games. Regardless of distance
Posted by Salmon
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Member since Feb 2008
86242 posts
Posted on 4/30/21 at 9:11 am to
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My dad loathed little league baseball. Not that he missed any games. I think he cried the day I said frick fall ball, I am playing football


My sister played softball for like 2 years and my Dad hated going to all those games so much.

He was definitely happy when she finally gave it up her Junior year. But he never complained in front of my sister.

I did though. Because I was the younger brother and that was my job.
Posted by Niamey Vice
Member since Apr 2021
23 posts
Posted on 4/30/21 at 9:11 am to
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Soccer is actually a very exciting sport to watch vs baseball. At any moment a break away can happen and a scoring opportunity can present itself. You get to see great defense and great offense on these breaks.

Baseball is one of the more boring sports to watch. I watched both my sons please through high school and it was a snooze fest more times than not.
Like I said, if I liked soccer I’d be more inclined to drive hours to watch him play. But I’m a good father so I steered my son away from that ridiculous commie sport.
Posted by tgrmeat
Member since Sep 2020
5794 posts
Posted on 4/30/21 at 9:11 am to
Now that my son has graduated, I'd give a testicle to drive 2 hours to watch him play again.
Posted by CHEDBALLZ
South Central LA
Member since Dec 2009
23252 posts
Posted on 4/30/21 at 9:12 am to
My parents came to all of my games.

I dont care if my kid is playing 1st grade Chess in Dry Prong, or HS Baseball Playoffs at home ..... I'm going support him.
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41694 posts
Posted on 4/30/21 at 9:14 am to
I doubt he’ll run track again. They have some pretty special kids in the 100 and 200 this year...so yea, this is once in a while team. They won South State for this first time since 2004...my son wasn’t born until 2006. He made it all the way to South State in the individual 400m as an 8th grader...so that was cool.
Posted by Vood
Member since Dec 2007
8600 posts
Posted on 4/30/21 at 9:15 am to
You showed your cards too early. You went all in before the flop with a pair of Jacks.
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But I’m a good father so I steered my son away from that ridiculous commie sport.


This post was edited on 4/30/21 at 9:17 am
Posted by Dire Wolf
bawcomville
Member since Sep 2008
40364 posts
Posted on 4/30/21 at 9:15 am to
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I don't think my parents came to my T&F meets either


I didn’t want to be at any of my t&f events.
Posted by AtlantaLSUfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2009
27242 posts
Posted on 4/30/21 at 9:15 am to
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Miss it now.

Mine is only starting middle school and I’m already dreading this day. I enjoy it so much watching him play.
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41694 posts
Posted on 4/30/21 at 9:16 am to
Understood. These next 4 years are going to be insane. We only have one child, so this is it. My contribution to his athletics is pretty much over, he’s got coaches for that now. He’s ready though. It will be interesting to see how far he can take it.
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
86242 posts
Posted on 4/30/21 at 9:17 am to
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I didn’t want to be at any of my t&f events.





the worst

you just sit around for seemingly hours and then all of sudden you got to run as hard and fast as you can after you just ate 2 orders of nachos
Posted by Geaux23
Member since Sep 2012
5980 posts
Posted on 4/30/21 at 9:18 am to
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We try to have at least one of us at all of them, but sometimes it's just not possible. As long as they see the effort and you make it to some, the kids don't really care.



the kids care. go to their games. one day youll miss it
Posted by bubbz
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2006
23122 posts
Posted on 4/30/21 at 9:19 am to
Don’t worry, my dad never came to one of my baseball games when I grew up.
Posted by Vood
Member since Dec 2007
8600 posts
Posted on 4/30/21 at 9:19 am to
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Understood. These next 4 years are going to be insane. We only have one child, so this is it. My contribution to his athletics is pretty much over, he’s got coaches for that now. He’s ready though. It will be interesting to see how far he can take it.



If you just didn't know and was just asking a real question then, the answer is all of the parents of my sons high school teams went to as much as humanly possible.
It was difficult at times but I would give anything to see my sons play just 1 more game.


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