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Posted on 2/11/19 at 8:20 pm
Posted by TDFreak
Coast to Coast - L.A. to Chicago
Member since Dec 2009
9417 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 8:20 pm
OK, so I'm trying to get my kids on the chore regimen and I want to implement an allowance as positive reinforcement. My question to the OT Dads and Moms is what is a typical allowance these days. My kids are middle school age.

I was also considering an extra-credit allowance plan. The base set of chores get a set allowance amount, but if they go above and beyond (vacuum the whole house, pick up dog shite in the yard, etc), they get an extra bonus. What would a good bonus be? $1 for each dog turd? $3 per room?

TIA
Posted by O
Mandeville
Member since Oct 2011
6801 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 8:22 pm to
Allowance? You pay for them survive. Their job is to get good grades and help around the house.
Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
21067 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 8:22 pm to
Set a number for meeting all of their chores. Not on a chore by chore basis. Maintaining the home is part of their responsibility and they shouldn’t see each as an isolated chore on a hierarchy system.
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
68469 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 8:23 pm to
How about save your money and just explain to them that phone isn't free. They have a choice. Chip in or hand it over.
This post was edited on 2/11/19 at 8:24 pm
Posted by 2 Jugs
Saint Amant
Member since Feb 2018
2448 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 8:25 pm to
quote:

allowance




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Posted by tigersownall
Thibodaux
Member since Sep 2011
17199 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 8:27 pm to
Boys? Put them to work in the neighborhood cleaning yards. Make them earn their keep. Learn the true value of a dollar.
Posted by facher08
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2011
6305 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 8:34 pm to
Chores should be an expected responsibility as a member of the family. The acts over and above your normal expectations is what should warrant the allowance.
Posted by Slagathor
Makin' jokes about your teeny tiny
Member since Jul 2007
39015 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 8:35 pm to
What tasks do they do already without being asked to or compensated for?


ETA: Like someone said, maybe try a base of uncompensated chores that must be completed before extra tasks can be done for money
This post was edited on 2/11/19 at 8:36 pm
Posted by Earthmover
Central
Member since Jan 2013
479 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 8:35 pm to
We have a 12 year old. He earns a $10 week salary by doing well in school and doing chores as assigned.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
106012 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 8:36 pm to
Tree fiddy, of course.
Posted by tigersownall
Thibodaux
Member since Sep 2011
17199 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 8:47 pm to
The day I turned 15 I got my first job that Uncle Sam knew about. I loved to work. I used to take a taxi from Kenner to elmwood before I had my car.

Now I’m dying for a day off.

Posted by Clark W Griswold
THE USA
Member since Sep 2012
10947 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 8:50 pm to
Don’t give an allowance.
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
43528 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 8:50 pm to
My dad threatened to throw me out if I didn’t do chores.

Wtf is an allowance
Posted by The Mick
Member since Oct 2010
45189 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:24 pm to
Allowance is good if you make them pay for certain things with their own earned money. It can be small thinks like candy or games. It teaches them value of money and starting foundation of how to budget and not blow money so easily. They’ll learn to save.
Posted by windshieldman
Member since Nov 2012
12818 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:29 pm to
We have 4 kids but really don’t do an allowance. Wife and I go out to eat about 2-3 times a year and older kids will watch younger 2 and if they make sure they are bathed, fed, and put to bed I’ll pay them $10 a piece.
Posted by ScaryClown
Member since Nov 2016
5847 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:34 pm to
Once you pay your kids to do chores they won’t do anything for free. Strongly recommend against it and like someone else said tell them that phone isn’t free.

And shite a $1 a turd at my house with 3 dogs would make me go bankrupt.
This post was edited on 2/11/19 at 9:35 pm
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
45502 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:35 pm to
quote:

$1 for each dog turd?


I’ll do it for $1 a turd.
Posted by Weagle25
THE Football State.
Member since Oct 2011
47648 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:45 pm to
Growing up my allowance for doing the chores was not getting my arse beat.

Seemed to work pretty well.
Posted by Muthsera
Member since Jun 2017
7319 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:46 pm to
quote:

My kids are middle school age.


You waited too long. You should have been encouraging age-appropriate housework as part of their contribution to a functioning family unit from the time they were able to toddle around.

Many young children desire to help but get told "No" until the parents judge them old enough to be useful. Then they have to be mentally broken down and forced to work.
Posted by Ash Williams
South of i-10
Member since May 2009
18563 posts
Posted on 2/11/19 at 9:47 pm to
quote:

Wife and I go out to eat about 2-3 times a year


Holy shite

I love my kids but We have to get away two or three times a month or we get cabin fever.

Ours are all under 7 though
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