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re: Paging married folks. Is Marriage really the end of sex ?
Posted on 7/28/23 at 12:25 pm to LeeVanCleef
Posted on 7/28/23 at 12:25 pm to LeeVanCleef
Just passed the ten-year anniversary milestone.
The frequency has slowed down, but we aren’t 20 year olds anymore. The quality is light-years better, as we are now just so much more comfortable with each-other, and have had time to fine-tune our skills for each other.
It’s also important to read the room, and understand when it’s quicky-time vs. all-out head-to-toe love making time.
The frequency has slowed down, but we aren’t 20 year olds anymore. The quality is light-years better, as we are now just so much more comfortable with each-other, and have had time to fine-tune our skills for each other.
It’s also important to read the room, and understand when it’s quicky-time vs. all-out head-to-toe love making time.
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Posted on 7/28/23 at 12:26 pm to Nguyener
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Nguyener
Paging married folks. Is Marriage really the end of sex ?
These threads are always stupid and depressing.
You get out of marriage what you put into it. Choose wisely, study her parents, and don’t get lazy and you’ll be rewarded.
I'm supposed to watch her parents frick?
Posted on 7/28/23 at 12:46 pm to pankReb
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I'm supposed to watch her parents frick?
It's kinda weird the first time, but after a while everyone gets used to it.
Posted on 7/28/23 at 12:51 pm to LeeVanCleef
No. You have to understand that marriage is a constant negotiation. And you are negotiating with someone who has the upper hand over you (i.e. control of the sex life.) You should approach the negotiation non-verbally. Pick up slack for her whether it be around the house or with your kids. Let the manly ego go and the sex will come. I have been happily married for 13 years and the sex is still great and often.
Posted on 7/28/23 at 12:54 pm to Hurricane Tiger 2010
yep, after 27 years a good fried bologna sandwich sometimes seems better anyway
Posted on 7/28/23 at 1:04 pm to Hurricane Tiger 2010
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No. You have to understand that marriage is a constant negotiation. And you are negotiating with someone who has the upper hand over you (i.e. control of the sex life.) You should approach the negotiation non-verbally. Pick up slack for her whether it be around the house or with your kids. Let the manly ego go and the sex will come. I have been happily married for 13 years and the sex is still great and often.
transactional sex, huh? sounds awesome.
Posted on 7/28/23 at 1:06 pm to LeeVanCleef
Yes, yes it is.
Posted on 7/28/23 at 7:50 pm to Sam Quint
Says the virgin Aggie
Posted on 7/28/23 at 9:15 pm to LeeVanCleef
110%……yes.
Posted on 7/28/23 at 10:19 pm to LeeVanCleef
No. It is not true at all. Not even close. We’re in our 50s and very active (and with each other, go figure!).
But if she has a rough menopause you may see a reduction in sex because she is tired. Menopause can cause women to get insufficient sleep. Everything in their life is off because of it.
If that happens, send her to a practitioner who knows bio identical hormone replacement. She’ll feel better and the sex will return with a vengeance.
But if she has a rough menopause you may see a reduction in sex because she is tired. Menopause can cause women to get insufficient sleep. Everything in their life is off because of it.
If that happens, send her to a practitioner who knows bio identical hormone replacement. She’ll feel better and the sex will return with a vengeance.
Posted on 7/29/23 at 7:27 am to Snuffleupagus
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Says the virgin Aggie
Good one
Posted on 7/29/23 at 7:43 am to Sam Quint
Marriage has been great for me, and again, it’s all about marrying the right person. As far as sex, which we have been together 35 years, and still fairly healthy, most people think we are late 30’s, lol. I categorize everything by our decades, and while our 20’s were great, the 40’s and 50’s have been the best. 30’s were the worst, and if we were headed for divorce, it would have been then; just the stress of raising kids… But, we got through the 30’s and wife kicked it up a gear. Instead of me chasing her in our 20’s, that has reversed. Still in 50’s and sex is amazing. I think it’s just that all the stress of getting over raising kids, financially sound and some issues where she thinks her looks are declining and she needs that feeling of physical touch and reassurance…but her motor never freaking stops…
Posted on 7/29/23 at 7:51 am to LeeVanCleef
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Is Marriage really the end of sex ?
Never been married.
In my experience, married women love sex.
Posted on 7/29/23 at 8:18 am to LeeVanCleef
You forgot a few things:
Once he gets a gut, stops being romantic and starts farting in front of her, her libido drops...
Once he gets a gut, stops being romantic and starts farting in front of her, her libido drops...
Posted on 7/29/23 at 8:30 am to Sam Quint
quote:And they’d be correct.
i've been married for over a decade, and it has only been very recently that people (family / friends) outside of my home are starting to suspect that something aint quite right with my wife.
She married an Aggie.
Duh. Water is wet.
The non-Aggie world is like-
Posted on 7/29/23 at 8:39 am to CamdenTiger
Been together a long time. It was always relatively close in libido with me being slightly higher. As she’s hit those 30’s, she’s slightly overtaken me in libido these days. Typically we are 3-4x a week.
Posted on 7/29/23 at 8:43 am to LeeVanCleef
No, been married 18 yrs, 3 kids, and both in our 40’s. I would say you will need to work to keep it going, make sure you are still “dating” and getting nights to your set once you have kids. We have been able to take some long weekends and trips together without the kids which also helps.
Posted on 7/29/23 at 8:44 am to LeeVanCleef
The responses up in here are crazy.
Yes, we have less sex. Probably once a week or once every other week. But not because she isn’t interested. We don’t have fricking time. She is gone by 6 AM for her job (nurse) so I’m waking up the kids getting them ready for school. She is picking them up at 3:30 and starting dinner because I’m usually come home late for work. It’s fricking exhausting. But the moment we get them both to sleep early and aren’t killed by the workday/weekend keeping up with 2 and 4 year old, it’s on.
Saying that, how many men in here aren’t getting their wives off too? Imma be honest, if I was having sex and never got my rocks off, I would stop doing it too.
Yes, we have less sex. Probably once a week or once every other week. But not because she isn’t interested. We don’t have fricking time. She is gone by 6 AM for her job (nurse) so I’m waking up the kids getting them ready for school. She is picking them up at 3:30 and starting dinner because I’m usually come home late for work. It’s fricking exhausting. But the moment we get them both to sleep early and aren’t killed by the workday/weekend keeping up with 2 and 4 year old, it’s on.
Saying that, how many men in here aren’t getting their wives off too? Imma be honest, if I was having sex and never got my rocks off, I would stop doing it too.
Posted on 7/29/23 at 9:21 am to LeeVanCleef
It most certainly shouldn’t crash, especially if you don’t have kids. Now when you add kids, especially multiple, you can expect your time between to double on average. If you were doing it every 2 days well get comfortable with every 4 days.
The wife tells me that some of her friends only have sex with their husbands once per month. That is mind boggling and I have no idea how guys put up with that if it’s actually true
The wife tells me that some of her friends only have sex with their husbands once per month. That is mind boggling and I have no idea how guys put up with that if it’s actually true
Posted on 7/29/23 at 9:40 am to LeeVanCleef
Nah. Both in our early 40’s. Been together over 23 years. Three kids, 16, 12, and 7. Twice a week is the minimum and frequently more (this past week has been more…..this morning, even). But as folks have said, you have to be present in the relationship and you should always be chasing her like you did when you were dating. That may be more difficult if your wife isn’t attractive (let’s be honest here, it matters). And once kids are present, you have to do some strategic planning and find your spots which means you need to be able to discuss it with each other. You won’t get as many spontaneous moments, but you can still get everything you both need if you work at it.
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