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re: Paging married folks. Is Marriage really the end of sex ?

Posted on 7/27/23 at 1:32 pm to
Posted by omegaman66
greenwell springs
Member since Oct 2007
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Posted on 7/27/23 at 1:32 pm to
No.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
150397 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 1:35 pm to
quote:

But women don’t understand what rejecting sex does to a man’s psyche…
you sound like a snowflake



Ty Cobb only batted .366
Posted by donRANDOMnumbers
Hub City
Member since Nov 2006
17457 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 1:40 pm to
Yes... ended the day i got married
Posted by Gus007
TN
Member since Jul 2018
14724 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 1:45 pm to
I was told, there are no Frigid women, just clumsy men.
As a man speaking, it was true that my sexual desire diminished over time. However, in my experience, my wife was always ready when I was ready. She was just as hot until she reached Menopause. Still, she was always ready to please. I can't recall ever a time that she said no.
Great Times, where did they go.
Posted by Sam Quint
Member since Sep 2022
8908 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 1:49 pm to
for me, yes. sex in my marriage is infrequent and, quite frankly, not worth the effort when it DOES happen. but i'm smart enough to realize that there isnt a one size fits all answer to this question. just be careful who you marry because the little tiny red flags that you can easily ignore early on (or maybe not even see) can end up being full blown batshit crazy personality disorders that were just pretty well hidden.

i was pretty bitter and angry about marriage as an institution for a little while, and i've even made some pretty nasty comments on this board about marriage (and married women). but the more i deal with my OWN shitty marriage the more i'm coming to terms with the fact that not EVERY marriage is like that and not EVERY woman is emotionally unstable (even if it seems like it sometimes).

i think just generally despising all marriage and bashing the institution at large was my way of working through some anger at the unfairness i was feeling at other people seeming to be truly happy while i am not (at least in terms of my marriage - the rest of my life is pretty damn enjoyable). i suspect that is the case with many guys on this thread and on this board.

anyways, tl;dr - when it comes to marriage in general, YMMV
This post was edited on 7/27/23 at 1:51 pm
Posted by arktiger28
Member since Aug 2005
5413 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 1:58 pm to
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It's funny how the guys who say that the OP is true just reply with a calm "Yeah, for the most part"

But most of the guys disputing the OP are angry.
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What is funny is that you asked a question and seem to have little desire to engage with the answers. You show up every few pages to say why marriage sex has to suck and seem to have little desire for an alternative view. Live your life of one-night stands, more power to you. But if you are having so much fun why are you so concerned with the sex life of married men?
Posted by UAinSOUTHAL
Mobile,AL
Member since Dec 2012
5301 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 2:13 pm to
No been together for 22 years are we still go at 4-5 times a week but we also like each other and enjoy each others company.
Posted by mule74
Watersound Beach
Member since Nov 2004
12863 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 2:17 pm to
Some pathetic guys in this board, or they married poorly. My wife and I have a great sex life. We are both turning 40 this year.

Do we frick like we did at 25? No. But I also don’t want to.
Posted by Beauw
Blanchard
Member since Sep 2007
4235 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 2:28 pm to
No, absolutely not.
Posted by SalE
At the beach
Member since Jan 2020
3131 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 2:49 pm to
Marry a younger girl...yes.
Posted by Quatrepot
Member since Jun 2023
4154 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 3:05 pm to
If you learn how to stimulate that clit to orgasm they’ll always be willing
Posted by LeeVanCleef
Member since Jul 2023
88 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 3:09 pm to
quote:

quote:

What is funny is that you asked a question and seem to have little desire to engage with the answers
. You show up every few pages to say why marriage sex has to suck and seem to have little desire for an alternative view. Live your life of one-night stands, more power to you. But if you are having so much fun why are you so concerned with the sex life of married men?


Lighten up Francis.

I asked questions.
I read answers.

That was the point of me asking the questions, to receive and read the answers.

There are a couple of hundred responses, am I supposed to respond to all of them?
Posted by arktiger28
Member since Aug 2005
5413 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 4:00 pm to
quote:

There are a couple of hundred responses, am I supposed to respond to all of them?


I mean you can at least engage the alternative viewpoint a bit and not just say over and over again how being married is like eating the same food over and over. Variety certainly has its appeal but I still don't think it beats the sex that comes out of a long-term healthy marriage.
Posted by runningdad85
Member since Mar 2013
340 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 4:13 pm to
Posted by DifferentTigah
InaHouse
Member since Jan 2023
13 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 4:18 pm to
Unlimited sex is not the point of marriage. If that’s all you are looking for then you will not be satisfied in a marriage.

However if you live a marriage out correctly and with respect for your wife and her cycles, practice nfp, neither the man or woman will loose interest in sex. I’ve lived marriage over 10 years now and I can testify to the huge difference nfp can make in a marriage for the better.
Posted by BigPerm30
Member since Aug 2011
32065 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 4:20 pm to
quote:

Unlimited sex is not the point of marriage. If that’s all you are looking for then you will not be satisfied in a marriage.

However if you live a marriage out correctly and with respect for your wife and her cycles, practice nfp, neither the man or woman will loose interest in sex. I’ve lived marriage over 10 years now and I can testify to the huge difference nfp can make in a marriage for the better.


This guy fricking sucks.
Posted by DifferentTigah
InaHouse
Member since Jan 2023
13 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 4:26 pm to
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This guy fricking sucks


?? Guess you will never know the joy of marriage like I do brother
Posted by EZE Tiger Fan
Member since Jul 2004
55454 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 4:29 pm to
quote:

But women don’t understand what rejecting sex does to a man’s psyche…


No, you are dead wrong.

Women absolutely know what it does to a man's psyche, which is why they do it. They are conditioning you to be controlled. My ex wife did it all the time. Come to find out, she was bragging about it with her friends and family. Her miserable friends would literally get off (with her) when she would tell them about it.

"Ha ha, good for you girl! Let him know you're in charge. That's prime real estate. Don't just give it away. Put him in his place, girl!"

As soon as you are in a situation like that, get out as fast as you can.
Posted by Sam Quint
Member since Sep 2022
8908 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 4:29 pm to
wtf is nfp
Posted by Monsieur le Duc
Château de Chantilly
Member since Aug 2014
709 posts
Posted on 7/27/23 at 4:31 pm to
quote:

wtf is nfp


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