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re: Older parents- how have your kids turned out?

Posted on 3/3/23 at 3:11 pm to
Posted by 3nOut
Central Texas, TX
Member since Jan 2013
28929 posts
Posted on 3/3/23 at 3:11 pm to
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and strong marriage (42 years)


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He has 3 children and is 43


Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
63060 posts
Posted on 3/3/23 at 3:15 pm to
OT kids are average, on average.
Posted by SalE
At the beach
Member since Jan 2020
2420 posts
Posted on 3/3/23 at 3:24 pm to
Very good
Posted by genuineLSUtiger
Nashville
Member since Sep 2005
72972 posts
Posted on 3/3/23 at 3:30 pm to
My 25 year old son has been an inspiration and blessing to me. He was always far more mature from the jump than me.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
36716 posts
Posted on 3/3/23 at 4:02 pm to
Seriously. They’re awesome. 30, 25, 22. First two gainfully employed, third graduates in May and is interviewing for jobs

Never gave us any trouble
Were always respectful

Just good kids that are cool to hang out with as adults now.
Posted by Demshoes
Up in here
Member since Aug 2015
10203 posts
Posted on 3/3/23 at 4:10 pm to
My kids are 25 and 22. We've had some extremely rough times (about three years solid) with my son but it's starting to work itself out. Caused much strife in our lives. It's a wild ride with kids.
Posted by Pepe Lepew
Looney tuned .....
Member since Oct 2008
36115 posts
Posted on 3/3/23 at 4:12 pm to
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Older parents- how have you kids turned out?


Speaking better than you…
Posted by OlGrandad
Member since Oct 2009
3500 posts
Posted on 3/3/23 at 4:19 pm to
I could not have picked better husbands for my daughters nor a better wife for my son.

Bonus is great grand kids.

Posted by madamsquirrel
The Snarlington Estate
Member since Jul 2009
48623 posts
Posted on 3/3/23 at 4:30 pm to
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All 4 college grads with good jobs and no drugs. All very kind and polite with delightful SOs that add to our family in a great way.
I feel very, very blessed to be able to say that. Never underestimate the power of prayer.
Posted by lsusteve1
Member since Dec 2004
41931 posts
Posted on 3/3/23 at 4:34 pm to
Both College Grads & great, well adjusted adults.

Couldn't be prouder
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19054 posts
Posted on 3/3/23 at 4:57 pm to
I’d be very proud
Posted by This GUN for HIRE
Member since May 2022
2905 posts
Posted on 3/3/23 at 5:44 pm to
My daughter got a full ride to college and is currently making about $75 per year at 26. My two 18 year old sons will graduate hs with high honors, full rides, honors college. Every school in the SEC offered them. They all attend church regularly, work hard, & don’t listen to today’s crappy music. I’m blessed.
Posted by Cymry Teigr
Member since Sep 2012
2103 posts
Posted on 3/3/23 at 5:52 pm to
Best gauge to see how well you raised your children is to see how they raise their own kids. If they raise them fairly similar to how you did, then obviously you did something right and instilled the right priorities.
Posted by Big Scrub TX
Member since Dec 2013
33446 posts
Posted on 3/3/23 at 5:57 pm to
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They turn out just like you train them.
A naive belief that is just not true.
Posted by geauxpurple
New Orleans
Member since Jul 2014
12377 posts
Posted on 3/3/23 at 5:57 pm to
My parents are no longer with us so I will answer for them.
Terrific.
Posted by Big Scrub TX
Member since Dec 2013
33446 posts
Posted on 3/3/23 at 5:59 pm to
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my parents are west Texas rednecks who raised my sister and i with the same firm hand.

i'm a 39 yo libertarian Christian that moved out at 19 and never went back home. graduated college with no help and no student loan debt. 2 kids, steady income.

my sister is 43, lived at home till she was 27, is a communist lesbian who is still in student debt and is 100 lbs over weight and has type 2 diabetes. she is still dependent on my parents.

same upbringing and training.
It's a fantasy that parents will "mold" their children to be a certain way. Anyone who has ever had children knows their personalities and tendencies are set and obvious from a VERY early age.

Peers exert WAY more influence on a developing child.

To the extent that parents want to exert the most influence, they should attempt to curate the peer groups of their children. (Even this is hard as frick to effectively do).

Posted by 19557LSU
Member since Jan 2018
340 posts
Posted on 3/3/23 at 6:00 pm to
2 boys 2 girls. Doctor, construction management, dental hygienist and nurse. Time will tell how they turn out!
Posted by bamadontcare
Member since Jun 2013
2767 posts
Posted on 3/3/23 at 6:11 pm to
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They turned out kind, empathetic, hard working adults. Now there were definitely bumps along the way. Even a few hills. We didn't think we would survive the teenage years. Advice. Monitor their phone, location and limit device usage with no exceptions. Good luck


This man speaketh wisely.
Posted by Dawgfanman
Member since Jun 2015
22433 posts
Posted on 3/3/23 at 6:19 pm to
All you can do is provide an example to follow, support when needed, discipline when required and hope for the best. People often take credit for their children’s successes but few will claim their failures as their own. They are people, not products. Their successes are theirs as are their failures.
Posted by Richard Grayson
Bestbank
Member since Sep 2022
2149 posts
Posted on 3/3/23 at 6:22 pm to
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My kids are going to turn out fine. The world they are going to be in as adults.....fricked.


It’s depressing to think about the world our kids are inheriting.
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