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re: My wife wants me to get a vasectomy…

Posted on 10/29/21 at 11:25 pm to
Posted by Shamoan
Member since Feb 2019
9200 posts
Posted on 10/29/21 at 11:25 pm to
She does, but BC is 99-98% effective (via the pill). All those accidents you hear about are likely BC failures.
Posted by llfshoals
Member since Nov 2010
15421 posts
Posted on 10/29/21 at 11:25 pm to
You’re a pussy son. Just go ahead and divorce her now, you’re obviously planning it already.

How easy are those to unsnip? Easy

What you probably don’t realize is birth control reduces a woman’s sex drive.

Once you test out, no more wrappers, no more pills. You have no clue what you’re missing.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
63009 posts
Posted on 10/29/21 at 11:27 pm to
Never slap God in the face like that. I'm done having kids but I ain't fricking with what he gave me. Just one man's opinion. Also 3 kids ain't shite.
Posted by Rosco P Coletrain
Hazzard County
Member since Sep 2009
1131 posts
Posted on 10/29/21 at 11:28 pm to
If she’s on BC and tries to sell you that getting off of it will increase her sex drive... don’t buy it! You can tell her you confirmed it through me that it’s bullshite.

I though it was gonna make things better and I could just go around spraying her guts any time I wanted. Doctor assured me there would be no volume, taste, texture difference.... I’ll admit idk if that’s true or not because it still all goes down the shower drain but I legit think women do it as some sort of evil plan to take away our main natural purpose.
Posted by Misnomer
Member since Apr 2020
3446 posts
Posted on 10/29/21 at 11:31 pm to
There are way too many forms of easy, effective birth control for her to coerce you into getting a vasectomy unwillingly.
Posted by Shamoan
Member since Feb 2019
9200 posts
Posted on 10/29/21 at 11:37 pm to
I’m 10,000% in the “tell her to frick off” camp. I’m old enough where it doesn’t even affect me that much. She thinks she has leverage. She is mistaken. She’s not willing to go celibate.
Posted by Teddy Ruxpin
Member since Oct 2006
39581 posts
Posted on 10/29/21 at 11:39 pm to
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We just had our third. There’s a legitimate chance I won’t get laid until I get snipped.


I'm a third child. Just had my second child a couple weeks ago. No more. Huge hypocrite here.
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10310 posts
Posted on 10/29/21 at 11:42 pm to
quote:

Tell her to tie her tubes.
That’s a major surgery that requires hospitalization. A vasectomy is a quick 20 minute office procedure.
Posted by Big Jim Slade
Member since Oct 2016
4932 posts
Posted on 10/29/21 at 11:45 pm to
Just get the vasectomy. If necessary for a new bride, you can get it reversed ….I’ve seen the highway billboards.
Posted by Misnomer
Member since Apr 2020
3446 posts
Posted on 10/29/21 at 11:46 pm to
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That’s a major surgery that requires hospitalization. A vasectomy is a quick 20 minute office procedure.


Did you miss the part where OP said she refused to have a tubal ligation during a planned c-section, and is shortly after started asking him to undergo the snip, which is not without risks?
Posted by B2 Bomber
Member since Sep 2016
299 posts
Posted on 10/29/21 at 11:55 pm to
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This post was edited on 11/5/21 at 2:08 pm
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47498 posts
Posted on 10/29/21 at 11:57 pm to
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i was first in my group to get one. It wasn’t pleasant


Mine was fine and appropriate after 4 kids. I got hopped up on lortabs and went to Bulldog in BR a few hours after mine.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47498 posts
Posted on 10/29/21 at 11:58 pm to
quote:

That’s a major surgery that requires hospitalization


You missed the part where she was in the middle of a c-section when he suggested it. . :
Posted by EA6B
TX
Member since Dec 2012
14754 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 12:43 am to
quote:

Did you miss the part where OP said she refused to have a tubal ligation during a planned c-section, and is shortly after started asking him to undergo the snip, which is not without risks?


There are long term complications that can occur from her having her tubes tied regardless of when it’s done. Vasectomy has no side effects, everything works the same, it is no more uncomfortable than getting minor dental work.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47498 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 12:56 am to
quote:

everything works the same


The 'load' is less gritty and lower volume. But otherwise yes.
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
164137 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 1:38 am to
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Doctor assured me there would be no taste difference

Very cosmopolitan
Posted by Tiger in Texas
Houston, Texas
Member since Sep 2004
20874 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 1:52 am to
Just be a real man and get the vasectomy done- if you already have 3 kids that's more than enough anyway!
Best thing I ever did, no more baby worries!!
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
39291 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 4:01 am to
30 years ago, after we had our fourth and last, our insurance would not cover a tube-tie during her C-section, so I had a vasectomy. It was a simple procedure and way better than she having to go through another operation.

Thirty years later if I have a contemporary who has had more sex than me I'd like to shake his hand (after he washes, the dirty bugger).
Posted by Dalosaqy
I can't quite re
Member since Dec 2007
12306 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 4:08 am to
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She doesn’t get to make choices like that about your body

Hmmm...
Posted by HoustonChick86
Catalina Wine Mixer
Member since Dec 2009
57301 posts
Posted on 10/30/21 at 5:29 am to
My husband went to a consult for one and had it scheduled until my doctor advised me not to get off birth control, so he cancelled. He never seemed to think it was a big deal.
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