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re: My trashy cousin is trying to pawn her mistakes off on me

Posted on 5/22/18 at 1:47 pm to
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129037 posts
Posted on 5/22/18 at 1:47 pm to
Just say no and do the world a favor if she fails.

Anyone that needs an entire 2 weeks to study for the NCLEX(nursing boards)...is NOT someone you want taking care of you

I studied for several weeks for mine. Like an hour a day just reviewing the material. While also working a full time job and partying on the weekends with my friends like most 22 year olds.

This post was edited on 5/22/18 at 1:49 pm
Posted by Tigerlaff
FIGHTING out of the Carencro Sonic
Member since Jan 2010
20887 posts
Posted on 5/22/18 at 1:49 pm to
Your cousin is not telling you the whole truth and a little digging on your part could prove it. Ask her the name of the test and look up the dates.

You should not bail out people in these situations. It is of her own making and it will become a habit. You are a broke college kid trying not to end up like her. You don't owe her anything.
Posted by Tiger Prawn
Member since Dec 2016
21964 posts
Posted on 5/22/18 at 2:00 pm to
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No pics. Think of a trashy 140 pound mom of 3 with a bob haircut.


Which Livingston Parish hair salon does she work at?
Posted by gingerkittie
Member since Aug 2013
2675 posts
Posted on 5/22/18 at 2:02 pm to
She sounds like one of those people who have no problem pawning their kids on others and using the mas pawns to get sympathy, free babysitting and of course free money.

Some people are born thinking others were put on this earth to help them

We have a mid 20's (no pics) relative who sees my bf as a ATM, chauffeur, food delivery service etc.

She invites us to the kids birthdays but tells us the bring the BBQ grill, the charcoal, fluid, food,drinks and to get there early enough to cook. Then invites MORE people so we have to buy pizza too.

She has financial emergencies every week that we pay for. But she overdid it this time. BF is working nights 6/12s, He wanted him at the graduation and party afterwards,. Of course he could not make it.

So he got a angry curse filled text sating at least she has good friends who are there for her and her kids is heartbroken because my guy wasn't there and blah,blah,blah. she called me and i explained he needed his sleep and she hung up on me.

Awesome, cuz when you hang up on me i dont ever have to answer your calls again,. and by bitching my guy out, she just screwed herself out of thousands of dollars in help. Good liuck with that,Miss Attitude!

Holy wall of text!!!
TL;DR people are ungrateful
Posted by fareplay
Member since Nov 2012
4934 posts
Posted on 5/22/18 at 2:06 pm to
She is trying to make you the kids unofficial guardian. By law, if the kid spends 2 weeks or more with one individual without that individual notifying authorities, you are the official caretaker.
Posted by JetFuelTyga
Born in desert,raised in lion's den
Member since Feb 2016
1786 posts
Posted on 5/22/18 at 2:16 pm to
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By law, if the kid spends 2 weeks or more with one individual without that individual notifying authorities, you are the official caretaker.






Bamboozle LVL 1000
Posted by PortHudsonPlaya
Houston
Member since Jul 2017
3170 posts
Posted on 5/22/18 at 2:18 pm to
Sounds like your trashy cousin may be the type to disappear or get arrested then you’re stuck with kids to raise.

You sound pretty trashy to for even considering this.
Posted by gingerkittie
Member since Aug 2013
2675 posts
Posted on 5/22/18 at 2:19 pm to
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She is trying to make you the kids unofficial guardian. By law, if the kid spends 2 weeks or more with one individual without that individual notifying authorities, you are the official caretaker.


Curious if she gets foodstamps or child support. I betcha she won't offer any food or money to you for the kids needs.

Thousands of women study for their degrees while tending to kids. If you raise decent respectful children then they won't keep you from studying. I was about to take my son to my college class and to work because he was so very well behaved.
Posted by TigahJay
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2015
10576 posts
Posted on 5/22/18 at 2:20 pm to
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gingerkittie


Another crazy/trashy family story from gingerkittie, big surprise.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134026 posts
Posted on 5/22/18 at 2:21 pm to
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no she goes for unemployed rednecks who wear affliction and american fighter with bedazzled jeans


She needs to upgrade to BBC.

Not mine, but shop around. Have her add that to her "exam study."

Extra credit
Posted by Mr. Hangover
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2003
34517 posts
Posted on 5/22/18 at 2:42 pm to
Everyone in this thread who is saying to cut off this cousin completely is absolutely correct

However, in situations like this it’s hard to not get involved when thinking about the children... I’m not saying that you SHOULD help her out because she’s obviously full of shite, but god damn, it hurts me to think about what type of conditions those children have to deal with
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
63191 posts
Posted on 5/22/18 at 2:44 pm to
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oh I know her plenty well enough that shes lying and is straight trash im just wondering if it would be worth it for the kids


Trashy parents generally raise trashy kids. Add the fact that their guardian is a 21 year old, and here's what will or could happen:

1. They steal from you or your roommates
2. They frick your apartment up
3. They get drunk and die
4. They are put in harms way due to being watched by 21 year old college kids
5. Considering she already asked you for money, you will come out of pocket to feed these gremlins and will be screwed out of more than that $150

There is no positive to this situation. frick all that.
Posted by gingerkittie
Member since Aug 2013
2675 posts
Posted on 5/22/18 at 2:53 pm to
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Another crazy/trashy family story from gingerkittie, big surprise.


Well the topic was about trashy people.

The person I mention is not my family member or even my bf's blood kin. My bf unofficially adopted a few kids and grandkids that are not his blood kin.

Due to them lacking a male figure in their lives, he has stepped in to be there for them, even as their own deadbeat fathers are alive and refuse to do shite for their kids.

Yeah, we are so trashy like that.

Posted by LSU Rules07
Member since Oct 2007
1253 posts
Posted on 5/22/18 at 3:06 pm to
Hello hello she wants a break from the kids. They are a hastle!!! She wants to have fun not be stuck with kids. You won’t save them in two weeks.
Posted by StraightCashHomey21
Aberdeen,NC
Member since Jul 2009
125444 posts
Posted on 5/22/18 at 3:25 pm to
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No pics. Think of a trashy 140 pound mom of 3 with a bob haircut.


well we know she likes to frick
Posted by dj30
New Orleans
Member since Feb 2006
28732 posts
Posted on 5/22/18 at 3:25 pm to
If its truly to study, then do it if you have the time.
Posted by Riseupfromtherubble
You'll Never Walk Alone
Member since Jun 2011
38382 posts
Posted on 5/22/18 at 3:47 pm to
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She's also asked me for 150 dollars


I was taking a shite at my house on my lunch break today when someone knocked on the door. Didn’t get up because I was pooping. They knocked again so I pinched it off and answered the door. Little kid on my porch between 10-12 that I’ve never seen before asked me for $3.50

The son of a bitch knocked on my door and asked me for $3.50. I stood there for a second expecting him to morph into the Loch Ness monster. CSB I know. We were both hit up for money today. At least yours was a family member
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
90848 posts
Posted on 5/22/18 at 5:34 pm to
She isn't studying she just wants to have fun and will use that 150 bucks to go on a bender
Posted by bleeng
The Woodlands
Member since Apr 2013
4077 posts
Posted on 5/22/18 at 6:00 pm to
Before I looked at the name I was thinking this was another Gingerkittie thread-and guess who chimed in later....
Posted by Geauxtiga
No man's land
Member since Jan 2008
34377 posts
Posted on 5/22/18 at 6:01 pm to
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Would you have to take time off work or school to help her out?
If not, why not help her out?
Seems like if she passes she will be able to get a job & support her kids.
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