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re: My gf has gained weight and I am no longer attracted to her and wish to break up
Posted on 5/8/19 at 2:19 pm to Cheese Grits
Posted on 5/8/19 at 2:19 pm to Cheese Grits
please dude. if I had a "thyroid issue" ... I'd get help long before I had gained 80 fn pounds of lard.
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Posted on 5/8/19 at 2:24 pm to Mr Perfect
Probably not.
Lots of stress and excessive adrenaline from the 2 years previous. 7 deaths in 2 years and the first few months when you are sleeping 20 hours a day you think it is just depression from all the loss. Did not catch it till my annual checkup about 6 months after the last 2 deaths.
If you are just trolling, you are the idiot.
If you are just that insensitive, you are just an a-hole.
Lots of stress and excessive adrenaline from the 2 years previous. 7 deaths in 2 years and the first few months when you are sleeping 20 hours a day you think it is just depression from all the loss. Did not catch it till my annual checkup about 6 months after the last 2 deaths.
If you are just trolling, you are the idiot.
If you are just that insensitive, you are just an a-hole.
Posted on 5/8/19 at 2:25 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
quote:
My gf has gained weight and I am no longer attracted to her and wish to break up
You can't breakup with your sister
Posted on 5/8/19 at 2:27 pm to Cheese Grits
not trolling dude. sounds like you had some shite going on which sucks fr.
but that depression prob caused you to over eat and be lazier than normal.
blaming it all on your thyroid is weak
but that depression prob caused you to over eat and be lazier than normal.
blaming it all on your thyroid is weak
Posted on 5/8/19 at 2:27 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
Start having ing baby items delivered to the house and talk to her about naming the baby etc etc
Posted on 5/8/19 at 2:38 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
I was there in highschool. Her and I broke up, I don't regret.
You'll always have old memories to fap to.
You'll always have old memories to fap to.
This post was edited on 5/8/19 at 2:39 pm
Posted on 5/8/19 at 2:46 pm to Mr Perfect
Actually was probably eating less because I was sleeping all the time.
You can eat 500 calories but if you have no metabolism it has no where to go and becomes weight. As you get older even if you eat less you sleep more because you do not have the energy of your youth.
Getting old is not for sissies. Throw in a burned out thyroid and it is even worse.
If you are young get the hell off the computer / phone while you can still enjoy it because time catches up with all of us on the way to the dirt nap.
I am not blaming it all on my thyroid, that is what multiple doctors have told me and they are way smarter than I am when it comes to this stuff. I am not a victim, I am a survivor. Learn how to spot the difference so when something similar happens to you it will be easier to deal with as you will understand it. Until that time happens you will at least have more empathy for your fellow humans who have been through some tough stuff and come out the other side.
You can eat 500 calories but if you have no metabolism it has no where to go and becomes weight. As you get older even if you eat less you sleep more because you do not have the energy of your youth.
Getting old is not for sissies. Throw in a burned out thyroid and it is even worse.
If you are young get the hell off the computer / phone while you can still enjoy it because time catches up with all of us on the way to the dirt nap.
I am not blaming it all on my thyroid, that is what multiple doctors have told me and they are way smarter than I am when it comes to this stuff. I am not a victim, I am a survivor. Learn how to spot the difference so when something similar happens to you it will be easier to deal with as you will understand it. Until that time happens you will at least have more empathy for your fellow humans who have been through some tough stuff and come out the other side.
Posted on 5/8/19 at 2:48 pm to SEClint
Just put her on 1,200 calorie diet and ask her to lose 50 lbs in the next 2 months
Posted on 5/8/19 at 3:07 pm to ibldprplgld
quote:
If it's a case of poor diet and no working out and no desire to fix it, then that's where I say goodbye.
Yep. No quarrel here.
Posted on 5/8/19 at 3:18 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
My roommates GF has gained a lot of weight in the last year, and I don't know why he's stayed with her. She literally baked a 3 layer cake last week just because she was craving cake. No shite you were fatty.
He's in decent shape and is in the gym 3-4 times a week.
He's in decent shape and is in the gym 3-4 times a week.
This post was edited on 5/8/19 at 3:19 pm
Posted on 5/8/19 at 4:30 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
Look at old pictures of you together at a bar, restaurant, etc. Go to the same places and take the same pictures again.
Print them out and lay them side by side on the coffee table or cable reel, whatever you have. Be looking at them when she walks in and say "Daaaaaaammmnnn! I'm surprised you don't tip the trailer over, like Guam! Stay centered!!"
Then let nature take it's course.
Print them out and lay them side by side on the coffee table or cable reel, whatever you have. Be looking at them when she walks in and say "Daaaaaaammmnnn! I'm surprised you don't tip the trailer over, like Guam! Stay centered!!"
Then let nature take it's course.
Posted on 5/8/19 at 4:32 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
Be prepared for her to get in the best shape of her life after you drop her. 
Then she’ll upgrade and you’ll be left with your hands.
Then she’ll upgrade and you’ll be left with your hands.
Posted on 5/8/19 at 4:42 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
quote:
She’s gained over 40 pounds in 6 months
and your response is to dump her instead of trying to figure out why she has suddenly let go of herself like this and help her overcome it?
you sound like a really shitty partner.
This post was edited on 5/8/19 at 4:43 pm
Posted on 5/8/19 at 4:51 pm to jchamil
quote:
What legit medical reasons are there for gaining so much weight? I'm genuinely curious. I also wonder what the actual percentage is for fat people who are only fat because of a medical reason. I would guess about 1%
I've no idea I'm not an MD. But if there was an underlying medical condition that would be a different scenario from she's lazy and a human vacuum.
Posted on 5/8/19 at 5:02 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
Cut her some slack. She is probably gaining weight because she is sick of living in your mom's basement with you, your blow up doll and computer.
Posted on 5/8/19 at 5:08 pm to jchamil
quote:My wife spent 7 weeks in the hospital. At the start of week 3 they put her on 80 mg of Prednisone per day. It made her gain 50 lbs. in two weeks. as they cut her dose down, she gained 30 more in the next two weeks.
What legit medical reasons are there for gaining so much weight?
She's getting better now though.
Posted on 5/8/19 at 5:54 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
Move on while she is still a “gf” - quickly.
Posted on 5/8/19 at 5:59 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
Be honest but nice. Explain to her that she is gaining weight in an unhealthy manner and it’s becoming not only unattractive but you worry about her well being. Tell her she needs to do something and you’d be willing to work out with her or diet with her so she isn’t alone.
She will get upset at first, but if she cares about you she will come around. If not, then dump her. The whole “love me no matter what” thing is bullshite. Attraction is part of a relationship and certain standards should be expected.
She will get upset at first, but if she cares about you she will come around. If not, then dump her. The whole “love me no matter what” thing is bullshite. Attraction is part of a relationship and certain standards should be expected.
Posted on 5/8/19 at 6:01 pm to Bonkers119
quote:
My roommates GF has gained a lot of weight in the last year, and I don't know why he's stayed with her.
Because her pussy and blowjobs have gotten exponentially better.
Posted on 5/8/19 at 6:21 pm to Hawgnsincebirth55
Stop being a pussy and tell her, if she's receptive to it and adapts a healthier life-style, then ride it out.
If she gets angry and refuses to change, then simply tell her you are struggling with attraction to her and that it's a deal breaker.
It isn't that hard.
If she gets angry and refuses to change, then simply tell her you are struggling with attraction to her and that it's a deal breaker.
It isn't that hard.
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