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re: My fiancee cheated on me.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 10:47 pm to Hangit
Posted on 11/17/17 at 10:47 pm to Hangit
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One guy came in and said LA code has been changed. He said Medic is not on the hook even though he signed the birth certificate. He provided the numbers.
OP has not provided us with all of the facts. Was Mom still married when baby was born? If not, was the divorce within 300 days of the birth? If so, Husband is presumed to be Dad.
If birth was out of wedlock, did OP sign an affidavit of paternity along with the birth certificate?
There are more facts that anybody would need to know before concluding whether OP is liable for child support and OP apparently is no longer interested in further exploring the issue.
All states are highly interested in finding an obligated father when it comes to child support because if Mom gets any welfare, the state can make Dad pay some support. It would be a real surprise if any state changed the law to make it more EASY for someone to avoid paying child support. That would be against the well-established legal trend.
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 10:48 pm
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Posted on 11/17/17 at 11:01 pm to Champagne
Whatever comes of this I hope the best for the kids but what man starts dating a broad who is knocked up with some other dudes kid?
Posted on 11/17/17 at 11:01 pm to Champagne
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It would be a real surprise if any state changed the law to make it more EASY for someone to avoid paying child support
It would really put some justice in the justice system to change the law requiring somebody to pay when they are unrelated to the child.
A guy finds out he is not the father when the child is two and has to pay for somebody else's child for 16 more years? bullshite. That is so unjust.
Justice would be making her reimburse him for lying to him, tricking him, and conning him out of money.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 11:12 pm to Hangit
The idea really is something that just gives me that "disgusted" feeling in the pit of my stomach. Maybe it stems from the idea that it could happen to me, but it really bothers me that it happens to anybody.
That the government can decide to commandeer a person's ability to make his own way in life in such a direct and dishonest manner in the name of being for the good of another person for which the man should have no responsibility. It's hard enough to get ahead in life without having to pay out that extra probably large portion of your income that must inevitably set behind a man's life goals. Goals that a person only has one life to achieve. It's sickening.
Maybe I'm coming at it wrong, maybe the reality is that this exact sort of thing that I have in mind doesn't happen that often in reality, but this is how it seems to me.
That the government can decide to commandeer a person's ability to make his own way in life in such a direct and dishonest manner in the name of being for the good of another person for which the man should have no responsibility. It's hard enough to get ahead in life without having to pay out that extra probably large portion of your income that must inevitably set behind a man's life goals. Goals that a person only has one life to achieve. It's sickening.
Maybe I'm coming at it wrong, maybe the reality is that this exact sort of thing that I have in mind doesn't happen that often in reality, but this is how it seems to me.
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 11:17 pm
Posted on 11/17/17 at 11:24 pm to GEAUXmedic
Fiancee, you say?
Bud, she did you a favor and you just don't know it yet.
Bud, she did you a favor and you just don't know it yet.
Posted on 11/17/17 at 11:44 pm to GEAUXmedic
Take all her money
Posted on 11/18/17 at 12:31 am to GEAUXmedic
Don't let her frick your, brother. Idk if she can and/or what that mechanism would be. But I hope you will ask someone these questions. No surprises. Best of luck, and I know this will be really tough.
Posted on 11/18/17 at 2:06 am to GEAUXmedic
quote:
My fiancee cheated on me.
think about the guy who was the first one ever to have this happen to him.
Posted on 11/18/17 at 2:40 am to Peazey
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That the government can decide to commandeer a person's ability to make his own way in life in such a direct and dishonest manner in the name of being for the good of another person for which the man should have no responsibility.
If you create a child, you are responsible. Period.
If you marry a woman who creates a child, you are responsible unless you prove it isn’t yours.
If you swear under oath that the child is yours, you are responsible unless you can prove it isn’t yours.
It’s hard for me to see these rules as a government overreach.
Posted on 11/18/17 at 2:47 am to JudgeHolden
Exactly.
Posted on 11/18/17 at 2:56 am to GEAUXmedic
Medic, since it is apparent the relationship is over, is it too soon to ask for her number?
Posted on 11/18/17 at 3:12 am to Rebel
I’ll admit I chuckled. And yes. Too soon.
Posted on 11/18/17 at 3:20 am to GEAUXmedic
Sorry you didn't deliver the D as good as Jody. 
Why the frick would you forgive your fiancee for banging someone else?
Just by reading your OP, I see why it happened.
quote:
And I told her I forgave her,
Why the frick would you forgive your fiancee for banging someone else?
Just by reading your OP, I see why it happened.
Posted on 11/18/17 at 3:27 am to GEAUXmedic
quote:Wait a fricking second here.
I know my daughter isn't biologically mine. She was just pregnant when I met her. But my daughter is my daughter. She's my world and nothing will ever change that.
You got with a chick who was pregnant with another guy's baby when she got with you. You knew about it, still asked her to marry you and have her become your fiancee and now you're surprised she cheated on you?
It's hard to feel sorry for stupid. Let me guess, you were going to be the one to change her, right?
Posted on 11/18/17 at 3:28 am to saint tiger225
He’s pretty much admitted it was a dumbass move. Cut him some slack.
Posted on 11/18/17 at 3:32 am to JudgeHolden
I haven't read the thread, just saw someone quote that and went to his original post.
Stupidity doesn't deserve slack, especially when you bring this to the OT.
Stupidity doesn't deserve slack, especially when you bring this to the OT.
Posted on 11/18/17 at 3:40 am to saint tiger225
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Stupidity doesn't deserve slack, especially when you bring this to the OT.
Ordinarily true. But OP is a very solid poster during hurricanes IIRC. He’s a no bullshite dude. Sounds like he got wrapped up with a bad un.
Posted on 11/18/17 at 4:42 am to JudgeHolden
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It’s hard for me to see these rules as a government overreach.
Because the government can force that servitude even when you can prove the child isn’t yours. That is overreach.
Posted on 11/18/17 at 5:28 am to saint tiger225
quote:Forty pages late, but the OT has finally showed up.
saint tiger225
Posted on 11/18/17 at 5:41 am to lsuwontonwrap
quote:whether you married her or not, the biggest thing is that you have a child together. It’s funny that you say good thing hedidn’t marry her. What does that matter now, lol? The damage is done. He’s forever connected to this woman now.
hite dude. All I can say is be happy you found out before you married her. Start making moves to get your share of time with your kid. Seriously, start calling family lawyers tomorrow.
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