My fiancee cheated on me.

shite dude. All I can say is be happy you found out before you married her. Start making moves to get your share of time with your kid. Seriously, start calling family lawyers tomorrow.

Women suck

This sucks. How old is your daughter?

Post history checks out.

Not gonna troll you at all, bro. That absolutely sucks. The absolute best advice I can give you is DOCUMENT EVERYTHING!!!!

That sounds shady but do it. You don’t want to be on the hook for a cheater and your kids. Sorry you invested so much time with a whore, but here’s the bright side; Tinder is a thing, instagram is a thing, snapchat is a thing, etc. you will be free to crush young puss literally anytime you want.

Make the best possible decision next time around. Stable, career woman. Someone who has had success, not just a whore who coasted off your accomplishments. Good luck

ETA: Move on. Don’t dwell on it. That’s hard to envision but I can personally tell you that I’ve been where you’re at 10 years ago, and I celebrated my first kid this past year. Things get better, and I couldn’t be happier.

Prayers sent. Sorry she's your baby mama. But, and I can't stress this enough, you need to cut ties with her now not later. Seriously. She's revealed her moral compass, and there's really no way you'll ever be sure she's got it properly calibrated.

Don't make her your enemy--you are sharing a child after all--but don't let the child dictate your own romantic life.

Oh, and pics or GTFO.

Damn, sorry to hear this man. At least you found out before you married her. Id be calling a family lawyer tomorrow morning. Sorry to hear..

It's early, but I'm really proud of you frickers.

Good luck, medic.

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while I'm home with our daughter

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Well, shite.... I don’t have kids so I don’t know how to identify 100% with you... but some people just suck.

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And I told her I forgave her, but I'm not sure why.

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It’s because you share flesh and blood that you created together, plus great memories you are reluctant to give up. You can retract this forgiveness.

I would tell you to go on some sort of retreat for 2 weeks to get your head in order, but the kid with her makes that a little tricky. Call your parents, siblings, and friends though for support, and definitely get a therapist.

If you need anything else to talk about omlandshark@gmail.com

EDIT: and as others have suggested call up an attorney as well. At least she won’t be getting half your shite, so that’s a big bright side.

I'll give you the best advice my mother ever gave me when I went thru a divorce:

The woman you married is NOT the woman you're divorcing.


I know you said you're not married yet, but you have a kid together so the thought still applies. She is no longer the woman you fell in love with, she's a completely different person and she WILL frick you over in a heartbeat. All the sweet nice things she did for you in the past don't mean a damned thing now. Don't fall into the trap of thinking she still has your best interests in mind.