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re: My fiancee cheated on me.
Posted on 11/18/17 at 5:45 am to saint tiger225
Posted on 11/18/17 at 5:45 am to saint tiger225
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saint tiger225
You are quite the hypocritical piece of shite. How dare you victim shame this poor man. I can't believe you're on here defending a manipulative and abusive fiancee. It's not his fault she's psychotic.
He should be able to date whoever he wants and you shouldn't shame him when there are consequences you a-hole.
Don't you agree?
This post was edited on 11/18/17 at 5:49 am
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Posted on 11/18/17 at 5:48 am to otowntiger
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the biggest thing is that you have a child together.
quote:He is not the biological father.
He’s forever connected to this woman now.
Posted on 11/18/17 at 5:59 am to Breesus
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How dare you victim shame this poor man. I can't believe you're on here defending a manipulative and abusive fiancee.
She only abused deez
Posted on 11/18/17 at 6:03 am to GEAUXmedic
Beat her boyfriends arse.
Posted on 11/18/17 at 6:07 am to GEAUXmedic
Tell her sincerely GTFO
Posted on 11/18/17 at 6:16 am to Mo Jeaux
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Because the government can force that servitude even when you can prove the child isn’t yours. That is overreach.
Is that actually true?
Posted on 11/18/17 at 6:18 am to JudgeHolden
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Is that actually true?
100% yes and it happens more than you'd care to think about.
Posted on 11/18/17 at 6:20 am to Breesus
If it is, then I’d agree. It’s been a hell of a long time since I took family Law, but I thought you could challenge paternity even for kids born in your marriage.
Posted on 11/18/17 at 6:58 am to Breesus
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100% yes and it happens more than you'd care to think about.
This would never happen to me. There are enough ways around child support that shitty Dad's use everyday. No way in hell would I be forced to support a child that is not mine.
Posted on 11/18/17 at 7:00 am to GEAUXmedic
You shouldn't have been shacking with a skeezer and getting her pregnant.
Posted on 11/18/17 at 7:03 am to GEAUXmedic
quote:this thread will go on for 40 more pages until you update the OP and title with this.
This thread has evolved into a pretty long and entertaining discussion.
Either way, it's settled, we're split, shes moving out, it's over.
Posted on 11/18/17 at 7:05 am to GEAUXmedic
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Again, I've read every post and I get it. But let me make it clear as I believe I said it once. I'm not staying with her, were not gonna be roommates for the sake of the child, etc. The trust is gone, staying together does nothing but bad. I agree, I put myself in this situation, and the hard truths need to be heard. There are lessons to be learned here and I agree, I need to reevaluate myself, my self-esteem. I didn't post here for sympathy, I posted to vent and yeah, to get the hard truths, even if I don't agree with everything said here... It is all from shared experiences and knowledge so I will take it all into consideration. Thanks.
I tried to tell the fools you were venting but they will go on for 40 more pages.Posted on 11/18/17 at 7:09 am to cajunangelle
Why’s are you repeating yourself?
Posted on 11/18/17 at 7:42 am to FelicianaTigerfan
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Bitches ain’t shite but hoes and tricks. They all have it somewhere in them. Just because they haven’t discovered it, doesn’t mean you have to ignore it
this sounds like a miserable person
Posted on 11/18/17 at 9:01 am to olgoi khorkhoi
OP got great advice here:
1) see a lawyer about any paternity obligations arising out of signing the birth certificate admitting that you are the father of the child
2) see a psychologist/psychiatrist to deal with the personal mental health issues that might be in his head.
1) see a lawyer about any paternity obligations arising out of signing the birth certificate admitting that you are the father of the child
2) see a psychologist/psychiatrist to deal with the personal mental health issues that might be in his head.
Posted on 11/18/17 at 9:19 am to JudgeHolden
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Is that actually true?
Yes, and if you read the line of responses I was participating in you would see that it was the exact situation that I was talking about. If you assume responsibility for a child that later turns out not to be yours then you are still responsible for that child "for the good of the child."
Posted on 11/18/17 at 9:33 am to Peazey
I get that. I’m talking about legally under Louisiana law. I get that there is a presumption of paternity under Louisiana law. That’s been true since I was in law school. But I thought you could rebut the presumption. Let me dust off my Civil Code.
Posted on 11/18/17 at 9:36 am to Hangit
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One guy came in and said LA code has been changed. He said Medic is not on the hook even though he signed the birth certificate. He provided the numbers.
That’s what the young bucks in my office told me. And they are sharp AF.
Posted on 11/18/17 at 9:38 am to Number2
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Law in Louisiana has changed. Signing birth certificate is not enough. For him to be presumed to be the father, he would need to marry her and then acknowledge the child by authentic act. Art 195 of the civil code used to allow for the signing of the birth certificate, but that has been removed.
This sounds right. And if you marry her and acknowledge the child by authentic act, I’m not crying tears over you when you have to support a child.
This post was edited on 11/18/17 at 9:39 am
Posted on 11/18/17 at 9:40 am to JudgeHolden
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Let me dust off my Civil Code.
Thanks very much and take your time. We are curious about the answer to the question.
Hypothetical La. fact scenario: Mom is single and pregnant. Bio father is dead. Nice Guy (NG) falls in love with Mom and signs birth cert when Baby is born. NG admits to state of La. that he is Bio Dad of Baby.
Three years later Mom has a change of heart and dumps NG. Mom shacks up with Biker Dude and goes after Nice Guy for child support. Mom is in the office of La. Child Support Enforcement and shows them the birth cert where NG signed off as the Bio Dad of Baby.
What are Nice Guy's rights when La. goes after him for child support?
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