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re: My fiancee cheated on me.

Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:04 pm to
Posted by MontyFranklyn
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Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:04 pm to
I really hope you don't get fricked with that child support, man.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83545 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:05 pm to
quote:

Either way, it's settled, we're split, shes moving out, it's over.


now learn from this shite and choose better women
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171036 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:06 pm to
Get your name off that BC Lawyer up if you need to.

Good luck going forward, man.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124039 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:06 pm to
quote:



If you think about it, this bitch really pulled off a really good long con troll.

Meet good guy while pregnant
Convince good guy you are a victim and you need love
Good guy shacks up with you and plans marriage with you
Give birth to child and get good guy to sign as father
Go back to slutty ways while good guy takes care of child
Wait until the law says good guy is on the hook for the kid
Tell good guy that you have been cheating
?????
Profit(from child support)




Probably been fricking around on him the whole time thinking “just how stupid is he?”
Posted by CaptainsWafer
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Member since Feb 2006
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Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:07 pm to
What page are the pics on?
Posted by tigerskin
Member since Nov 2004
40109 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:07 pm to
Best of luck to you. You sound like a good dude and don’t let her actions affect your self worth. You will make it through this.
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171036 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:07 pm to
Nudes are on Reddit.
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:08 pm to
she does have a nice lil tush on her.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
58580 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:08 pm to
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Probably been fricking around on him the whole time thinking “just how stupid is he?”


Yep. As someone else (maybe it was you) in this thread mentioned, she obviously doesn't respect him, and when a woman doesn't respect you, it means she holds you in contempt and you disgust her.
Posted by MontyFranklyn
T-Town
Member since Jan 2012
23830 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:10 pm to
what? what thread?
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32710 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:12 pm to
quote:

Either way, it's settled, we're split, shes moving out, it's over.

You two love birds will find your way back to each other eventually.

Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171036 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:14 pm to
Google r/spacedicks. Weird name I know, but it's there.
Posted by NoHoTiger
So many to kill, so little time
Member since Nov 2006
45734 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:14 pm to
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GEAUXmedic

Dump her. Agree to coparent your child together and to always do what's right for her, but end the relationship.

Speaking as a fiancee who was cheated on, it's not going to get better, and that trust will never be there again.
Posted by Aristo
Colorado
Member since Jan 2007
13292 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:14 pm to
Two things, get full custody since she is not fit to be a parent and make her pay you child support. Well, three things, take the money you were going to spend on the wedding and put it toward your daughter's college fund.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32710 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:16 pm to
quote:

Speaking as a fiancee who was cheated on, it's not going to get better, and that trust will never be there again.

So he has to look forward to being a 40 something single old crone too?

You are going to put him on suicide watch with anecdotes like that.
Posted by StealthCalais11
Lurker since 2007
Member since Aug 2011
12449 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:22 pm to
Try to reinitiate the conversation & get her to admit to cheating again while secretly recording it. Then you'll at least have some proof of infidelity for whenever she inevitably tries to frick you in court.
Posted by go_tigres
Member since Sep 2013
5153 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:24 pm to
Man, that sucks.

It's going to be hard, but your convo with her should go something like - "look, our romantic relationship is over, but we have a daughter together. For her sake, I'm going to swallow my pride and not get angry. We have to work out what's best for her." You need to think of how you want to handle visitation and deliver those terms. FYI: I have every other weekend and at least once during the week and 50/50 on holidays. I work from home a lot, so during the summer their with me mostly.

Then, get into the gym, find a softball team, something to get that anger out. At least for me, the anger was debilitating. Then I got back to the gym, and I was "that guy" that cursed the weights.
Posted by Scruffy
Kansas City
Member since Jul 2011
72051 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:26 pm to
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OP got suckered into supporting another man's baby because the biological baby daddy bailed out completely. She used him for a place to live and someone to financially support her and her kid. If OP wants to continue to be used and fricked over by this woman, that's on him.
Damn. This story went insane in a heartbeat.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83545 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:26 pm to
can OP update thread to show that the kid isn't his please
Posted by Champagne
Already Conquered USA.
Member since Oct 2007
48295 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:27 pm to
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This thread has evolved into a pretty long and entertaining discussion. Either way, it's settled, we're split, shes moving out, it's over.


And you are on the hook to pay child support because you signed an Affidavit saying that you are the child's biological father and you signed the child's birth certificate.

So, even if Mom never asks you for child support, the state of La. Child Support Enforcement will get you for child support if Mom ever gets any welfare.
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