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re: My fiancee cheated on me.

Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:40 pm to
Posted by Old Sarge
Dean of Admissions, LSU
Member since Jan 2012
55230 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:40 pm to
That sucks, I’ve been there, 20 Years ago with my ex-wife, I know exactly how you feel. You’ll get over it but it does indeed suck
Posted by LSUgirl4
Member since Sep 2009
39501 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:40 pm to
my post will probably get lost amongst the other more boisterous posts.

there is no such thing as unrequited love.
that's called idolization.
know your worth.


eta: i know you will still love her for a long time after this all settles. just know your worth is all i'm saying.
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 12:48 pm
Posted by baldona
Florida
Member since Feb 2016
20424 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:41 pm to
quote:

So he should stop loving someone who hasn't done anything wrong because they don't share the same DNA?


Goodness, get over this. NO ONE, is telling the OP to stop loving this girl. No one is telling the OP to stop trying to provide for the girl.

EVERYONE is saying to do everything in his power to not have to do that because the legal system is making him.

Just because he is not legally forced into child support, doesn't mean he has to stop providing for the kid. Or stop loving the kid, or stop trying to see the kid.
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
16464 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:41 pm to
quote:

I'm not a lawyer, but no way you would be forced into child support without some sort of custody right?


That's exactly when you pay child support, when the mother has custody.
Posted by CptBengal
BR Baby
Member since Dec 2007
71661 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:46 pm to
quote:

Goodness, get over this. NO ONE, is telling the OP to stop loving this girl. No one is telling the OP to stop trying to provide for the girl.


I am.

wtf is wrong with you.
Posted by georgia
445
Member since Jan 2007
9095 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:46 pm to
quote:

NO ONE, is telling the OP to stop loving this girl. No one is telling the OP to stop trying to provide for the girl.


thats exactly what free is saying, and why I was responding to him. I get why he says it though, the situation he went through changed his judgement and being the devil's advocate when talking to him is usually cause for good discussion. We good, but thanks for the input.
Posted by baldona
Florida
Member since Feb 2016
20424 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:47 pm to
quote:


My fiancee cheated on me.
quote:
I'm not a lawyer, but no way you would be forced into child support without some sort of custody right?


That's exactly when you pay child support, when the mother has custody.


No shite, but not full custody. I'm saying if he has to pay some child support, he should have some sort of visitation rights right?

But this is exactly why the OP needs to think with his brain and not his heart here. This "fiance" has everything she needs to royally frick him since he is not the paternal father.
Posted by GeorgeTheGreek
Sparta, Greece
Member since Mar 2008
66419 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:47 pm to
I'm adding Grauxmedic to my 2018 Celebrity Death Watch.
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:49 pm to
quote:

I'm adding Grauxmedic to my 2018 Celebrity Death Watch.



imma add him to my bounce back watch list for 2018. He will get his mind right. Get back on track. Get him some strange then find the right one to settle down with if that's the direction he wants to go.
Posted by GEAUXmedic
Premium Member
Member since Nov 2011
41598 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:52 pm to
This thread has evolved into a pretty long and entertaining discussion.

Either way, it's settled, we're split, shes moving out, it's over.
Posted by Clark W Griswold
THE USA
Member since Sep 2012
10509 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:52 pm to
Sorry so many of you got upset about the other thread. Very sensitive people in here. I've actually been in the exact same situation as the OP and it does suck but a year later things were fine again and your life moves on. You gotta do what's best for you and your kid and make your kid know she is your priority. Not sure her age as I'm not reading all this shite but if she is really young it won't be as hard on her. Maybe on you but not her. I doubt you can ever trust the mom again but at some point you'll be able to move past what she did and possibly be great parents together and be friends because of it.
Posted by kcon70
Houston, TX
Member since Sep 2016
2695 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:52 pm to
It’s a real shite situation and I’m sorry you’re having to go through it. The truth is, you will get through. Pray a lot, stay active, stay connected.
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:53 pm to
quote:

Either way, it's settled, we're split, shes moving out, it's over.



fuccccckin riiight!
Posted by RealityTiger
Geismar, LA
Member since Jan 2010
20443 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:56 pm to
I would hope that some of the younger and more inexperienced (life experience) posters reading this entire thread were paying attention:

1. Don’t ever sign your name on a birth certificate of a baby that isn’t yours.
2. You really gotta watch women out there. Their popular mantra is “men are pigs”, but women are too. They just have the ability to pull that shite off on the slick by wagging that pussy in your face. They know how men think.
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 12:58 pm
Posted by CptBengal
BR Baby
Member since Dec 2007
71661 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:57 pm to
quote:

Either way, it's settled, we're split, shes moving out, it's over.




Well done!

Now get your paternity removed.
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
120229 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:57 pm to
Proud of you baw
Posted by RealityTiger
Geismar, LA
Member since Jan 2010
20443 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:58 pm to
Good job!
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124039 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 12:58 pm to
quote:

Either way, it's settled, we're split, shes moving out, it's over.


Get your name off the BC ASAP. Talk to a lawyer and see what your next move should be

You are moving in the right direction
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 1:02 pm
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
202780 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:02 pm to
Smart move... good luck.
Posted by MontyFranklyn
T-Town
Member since Jan 2012
23830 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:03 pm to
If you think about it, this bitch really pulled off a really good long con troll.

Meet good guy while pregnant
Convince good guy you are a victim and you need love
Good guy shacks up with you and plans marriage with you
Give birth to child and get good guy to sign as father
Go back to slutty ways while good guy takes care of child
Wait until the law says good guy is on the hook for the kid
Tell good guy that you have been cheating
?????
Profit(from child support)
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