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re: My fiancee cheated on me.

Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:29 pm to
Posted by Jimmy2shoes
The South
Member since Mar 2014
11004 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:29 pm to
Damn dude thats horrible!
Better to find out now...
Lawyer up
Posted by Scruffy
Kansas City
Member since Jul 2011
72169 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:29 pm to
quote:

And you are on the hook to pay child support because you signed an Affidavit saying that you are the child's biological father and you signed the child's birth certificate.
This is absolutely insane.

Why would any male do this?
Posted by MontyFranklyn
T-Town
Member since Jan 2012
23832 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:29 pm to
I keep getting something about it being quarantined
Posted by Champagne
Already Conquered USA.
Member since Oct 2007
48459 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:29 pm to
quote:

Now get your paternity removed.


I think he had only one year to do that. Now it's too late.
Posted by Tiger Prawn
Member since Dec 2016
21955 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:29 pm to
quote:

Two things, get full custody since she is not fit to be a parent and make her pay you child support


You realize how difficult it is for a father to get full custody unless you have significant proof that the mother is a drug addict, abusing the child or severely neglecting the child? Now factor in that the child in question isnt really OP’s child...he started dating the mom after she was already knocked up by some dead beat who bailed and for whatever reason allowed a woman who he had only dated for a few months to put his name on the birth certificate for a child that wasnt his
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 1:31 pm
Posted by Champagne
Already Conquered USA.
Member since Oct 2007
48459 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:30 pm to
quote:

This is absolutely insane. Why would any male do this?


Ask OP.

I did a very brief search on La law and found that before you are allowed to sign the birth cert you must sign an Affidavit admitting Paternity.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
261363 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:30 pm to
quote:

Why would any male do this?


Maybe he loves the kid and don't mind providing?
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83618 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:31 pm to
quote:

Maybe he loves the kid and don't mind providing?


He signed the birth certificate before he ever met the kid and had only known the mother for a few months

Posted by 50_Tiger
Dallas TX
Member since Jan 2016
40143 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:33 pm to
Oh lawd so it is true this bitch can come at him for straight cash homie?
Posted by Azkiger
Member since Nov 2016
21742 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:33 pm to
quote:

She was just pregnant when I met her.


Did you start dating her while she was pregnant?
Posted by NoHoTiger
So many to kill, so little time
Member since Nov 2006
45747 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:33 pm to
quote:

So he has to look forward to being a 40 something single old crone too?

You say this like it's a bad thing.
quote:

You are going to put him on suicide watch with anecdotes like that.

my bad...
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:34 pm to
yes, she's got him. He needs to be strategic. Play nice all the while in the background get all his legal ducks in a row. Then he can go nuclear.
Posted by 50_Tiger
Dallas TX
Member since Jan 2016
40143 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:36 pm to
quote:

yes, she's got him. He needs to be strategic. Play nice all the while in the background get all his legal ducks in a row. Then he can go nuclear.


People make fun of red pillers but I promise you we aren't making these kinds of mistakes .

frick being an indentured servant.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
261363 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:37 pm to
quote:

He signed the birth certificate before he ever met the kid and had only known the mother for a few months


Gotcha
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83618 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:38 pm to
quote:

People make fun of red pillers but I promise you we aren't making these kinds of mistakes


OP considers himself a "red piller"

Red pillers are exactly who I would expect to make these types of mistakes
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 1:39 pm
Posted by 50_Tiger
Dallas TX
Member since Jan 2016
40143 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:39 pm to
quote:

OP considers himself a "red piller"

Red pillers are exactly who I would expect to make these types of mistakes



Dafuq?

Hell no!

I was literally called selfish last night, no way in hell my arse putting my John Hancock on a Birth Certificate for a kid that is certified 100% not mine
Posted by Breesus
House of the Rising Sun
Member since Jan 2010
66982 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:43 pm to
quote:

I'm guessing you've never been a dad.


I'm a dad. I said the same advice.

It's not his daughter. It's not even his adopted daughter. It's the daughter of some skank he banged.

OP is also an actual dad. He has a biological son that he has custody of.

His feelings and life are irrelevant. He needs to do what's right for his son. And that to cut this crazy bitch and her bastard love child out of his life.

He has a son. From a previous marriage.

And his decision as a single father was to begin dating and move in with an already pregnant woman who was already pregnant by another man when they met. Roll that situation around in your head. What the hell kind of things is he teaching his son?

Go back to being a single dad and focus your life on your son.
This post was edited on 11/17/17 at 1:50 pm
Posted by Chisholm
Member since Nov 2017
94 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:43 pm to
At the bottom of all of this, she did it for a reason.

Evaluate yourself and ask what it could be.

Alpha males always have it. Ask yourself how you lost it?
Posted by rocket31
Member since Jan 2008
41819 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:46 pm to
quote:

OP considers himself a "red piller"

Red pillers are exactly who I would expect to make these types of mistakes
...
redpill is almost unanimously against any form of marriage or the legal signing away of your freedom
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
47446 posts
Posted on 11/17/17 at 1:48 pm to
quote:

He has a son. From a previous marriage.


Has he said how old the son is? I'm wondering if the son thinks of the little girl as a sister and how losing her may work?
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