re: Mothers vs. daughters...holy shite

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I have a friend who has no close female friends and she has said more than once that she just doesn't want the drama because women are bitches.

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I don't trust this kind of woman either. they're usually slutty and don't want to be called out for their behavior, and are way more likely to be caught fricking a married man.

Well balanced women know how to get along with other women.

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Daughter could have daddy issues and turn to porn.

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Never have understood that connection.

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she's a teenager

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when you say teenager, like 18 or 19? asking for a friend.

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I am not going to take my daughter's side in a disagreement

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I don't see it like this. Call a spade a spade. If your wife is overreacting, pull her to the side and tell her so.. If your daughter is posting some scandalous shite on social media, take your wife's side.. It's not that complicated.

Also, to the point of being miserable in a marriage with a wife and kids.. I can tell you for certain that even with all of the chaos, fighting, and turmoil, my life is happier and has more meaning to it than it ever did while I was flying solo. Wouldn't trade it for anything in the world.. including getting to do whatever I wanted, whenever I felt like it.

My mother is the reason I moved several states away for school and then didn’t go back

When she starts being a bitch I just have to hang up now

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There's a reason why parents usually have better relationships with their opposite sex children and tend to show more favoritism for them over children of their own sex.

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that's a biological imperative. Men are harder on their sons because they feel the pressure to turn them into men, women spoil their sons because they don't have this rattling around in their heads, and vice versa, men spoil their daughters because they don't carry the pressure of making sure that she is a woman that other women can be proud of. It's why single parenting a child of the opposite sex can go wrong so easily. The cliched " have to be both parents" actually needs to exist, but not in a brag about it on fathers day way, but in a very real let me make sure that I'm being rational enough to ignore my instincts and hold myself accountable for making sure that my kid grows up to be an adult that other adults don't have to recover from or make excuses for way. That's a shite load of responsibility that MOST parents, married or not do not take seriously enough.

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Men are harder on their sons because they feel the pressure to turn them into men, women spoil their sons because they don't have this rattling around in their heads,

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I hear this criticism a lot. “You’re so much harder on your boy.”

That’s because the world is going to be harder on the boy. (Not that it’s not hard on girls too, especially in this degenerate era, but it’s a much different kind of pressure).

Not only are you trying to teach your boy how to be a man, you are fighting against all the feminization that is being foisted upon our sons. Telling them they are toxic. That being a boy is somehow inherently bad. It’s a struggle to drown all that noise out and establish their code in them.

Girls...well, IMHO raising a girl is like trying to teach them to strike with an iron fist with a velvet glove. To be sweet as honey while still being able to assert themselves and not being taken advantage of. Play to your strengths. Read the room.

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Prepare yourself because when your first duaghter leaves for college, your wife will turn on you. Been there. Bat shite crazy.

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Why would this happen?

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, you are fighting against all the feminization that is being foisted upon our sons. Telling them they are toxic. That being a boy is somehow inherently bad. It’s a struggle to drown all that noise out and establish their code in them

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Where are boys being exposed to this? We read about it, but my son and I don't experience it. I send him to private school and he does boy stuff in his free time.