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re: Mothers vs. daughters...holy shite

Posted on 10/17/19 at 9:51 am to
Posted by ctiger69
Member since May 2005
31030 posts
Posted on 10/17/19 at 9:51 am to
Head phones and video games is your friend.
Posted by ZappBrannigan
Member since Jun 2015
7692 posts
Posted on 10/17/19 at 9:52 am to
17 and getting fussed at for tiktok?

Unless she's putting tits out there then she's old enough to not be computer baby monitored if her grades are holding up.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
61711 posts
Posted on 10/17/19 at 9:53 am to
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Head phones and video games is your friend.


I thought he was a man. Yeah, hide in a video game instead of being a man leading your household.

Too many of those guys already. The good news is that the family never knows they are gone....they never did shite anyway.
Posted by CivilTiger83
Member since Dec 2017
2525 posts
Posted on 10/17/19 at 9:54 am to
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Reading bedtime stories is awesome.


It sure is. Right now our 18 month old goes over and picks up books and brings them to me at night. She loves to be read to before bedtime and tries out new words.

Our other two girls who are elementary school age enjoy hearing tales of three little girls who fly on unicorns to new island adventures.

There is plenty of wailing and gnashing of teeth in the evening, but that time is the best.
Posted by Bedhog
Denham Springs
Member since Apr 2019
3741 posts
Posted on 10/17/19 at 9:55 am to
I live in my home with 2 teenage girls and a woman. It's not bad here at all. Probably because the woman and I aren't wild dramatic people and the teens know that and know they can't push our buttons and get a reaction.
Posted by stapuffmarshy
lower 9
Member since Apr 2010
17507 posts
Posted on 10/17/19 at 9:57 am to
I'm just here for some pics


Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
61711 posts
Posted on 10/17/19 at 9:59 am to
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Probably because the woman and I aren't wild dramatic people and the teens know that and know they can't push our buttons and get a reaction.
Slow and steady win the race in parenting. Too many parents think that you can change a behavior with little effort...you gotta be steady with them without flying off the handle all the time.

I have two buttons, being rude is first and being unaware of how your actions affect others is the second. Other than that I don't go nuts with my daughter (when she was young, she is 22 now), or my two boys.

I still have a lot to learn.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
40256 posts
Posted on 10/17/19 at 10:00 am to
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Prepare yourself because when your first duaghter leaves for college, your wife will turn on you. Been there. Bat shite crazy.


In what way??
Posted by Bedhog
Denham Springs
Member since Apr 2019
3741 posts
Posted on 10/17/19 at 10:03 am to
once they get past the age of 14 you really can't teach them anything else that they will pay any attention to except respect. To earn respect is to give it. That's really all I expect from these teens. Help with chores, make good grades,talk and act with respect. That's it.
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 10/17/19 at 10:04 am to
My wife picks unnecessary fights with our teenage daughter all the time, then gets mad at me that I don't intervene and take her side. Drives me insane. It'd be one thing if our daughter was a bad kid with a bad attitude, but she's one the most kind hearted kids I've ever been around.

Now, sometimes our daughter gets an attitude and talks back and deserves the admonishment, but many times she does not.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
61711 posts
Posted on 10/17/19 at 10:04 am to
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In what way??
Unstable women usually want to exert their authority somehow, and when their kids leave they turn to the man...when that doesn't work they surround themselves with yes women and then find a man that doesnt give a shite what she says as long as she gets naked.

All the while the man at home gets all kinds of hell, the more she does that puts herself first and the marriage las, the more of a bitch she becomes...provoking a fight at every single turn.

Or so I have been told.
This post was edited on 10/17/19 at 10:09 am
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
61711 posts
Posted on 10/17/19 at 10:05 am to
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, but she's one the most kind hearted kids I've ever been around.

Now, sometimes our daughter gets an attitude and talks back and deserves the admonishment, but many times she does not.


Sounds like most kids, kids just need raised..not reprogrammed every day.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
40256 posts
Posted on 10/17/19 at 10:05 am to
Well our last just left this fall and things are good so far — just realllllyyy quiet.
Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 10/17/19 at 10:05 am to
Reading through this thread, my only takeaway is that the people who say they never fight with their teenage child are obviously either ignoring them completely or just giving them whatever they ask for.

Smooth sailing now = bumpy ride later. Seen it happen too many times for you to convince me otherwise.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
93541 posts
Posted on 10/17/19 at 10:05 am to
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once they get past the age of 14 you really can't teach them anything else


lucked out with our daughter, she was the perfect kid and now the perfect young lady, the boys were heathens, she was like an extra parent helping out with them
Posted by Bedhog
Denham Springs
Member since Apr 2019
3741 posts
Posted on 10/17/19 at 10:06 am to
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they surround themselves with yes women
The worst.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
61711 posts
Posted on 10/17/19 at 10:06 am to
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once they get past the age of 14 you really can't teach them anything else that they will pay any attention to except respect. To earn respect is to give it. That's really all I expect from these teens. Help with chores, make good grades,talk and act with respect. That's it.




That is the result of 13 years of trying to get it right.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
61711 posts
Posted on 10/17/19 at 10:08 am to
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they surround themselves with yes women
The worst.

And they all do it. And as soon as one of em gets the guts to divorce.....the other ones are soon to follow. You can see the pattern repeat in every clique.

Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
135032 posts
Posted on 10/17/19 at 10:08 am to
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Head phones and video games is your friend


That’s your enemy. They will get lost in the sweet poison and draw inward. Better they be reading books or playing music or drawing, something that engages them in active creativity instead of escaping into a ready made world.

I like video games as much as the next guy but having your life engrossed in them is no way to grow up
Posted by Bedhog
Denham Springs
Member since Apr 2019
3741 posts
Posted on 10/17/19 at 10:10 am to
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And they all do it. And as soon as one of em gets the guts to divorce.....the other ones are soon to follow. You can see the pattern repeat in every clique.

i agree man. Happened to me But I'm better now, so is our daughter. Daughter don't even want to see her mother anymore and I understand.
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