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re: Men and women CANNOT just be friends

Posted on 3/1/15 at 2:49 pm to
Posted by msflower
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Posted on 3/1/15 at 2:49 pm to
Exactly they can't be friends specially a married man and a single girl. And when the wife questions this "friendship" the man gets defensive and says the wife is jealous and its a bad trate to have and shes ridiculous
Posted by Rouge
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Posted on 3/1/15 at 2:50 pm to
Women are jealous creatures?

I refuse to believe it
Posted by TOKEN
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Posted on 3/1/15 at 2:51 pm to
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He's just a friend


bullshite

I bet either you or him has an ulterior motive
Posted by jmcs68
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Posted on 3/1/15 at 2:53 pm to
:friendzoned:
Posted by Jcorye1
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Posted on 3/1/15 at 2:54 pm to
quote:

So if you walked into their house and they are bent over with it busted open... You wouldn't dive in?



Exactly. I'm not attracted to their personality. I'm not saying I don't have female friends that I would frick, but most of them I'm just not interested in that way.
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 3/1/15 at 2:55 pm to
I'm not looking to be your friend fwiw
Posted by SlowFlowPro
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Posted on 3/1/15 at 2:55 pm to
yeah there is a huge difference in a female you actively try to frick and a female you would frick if you were drunk and she was willing
Posted by Rouge
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Posted on 3/1/15 at 2:56 pm to
quote:

How can we be lovers if we can't be friends / How can we start over when the fighting never ends, baby / How can we make love if we can't make amends / How can we be lovers if we can't be, can't be friends…
Posted by ThirdDownSyndrom
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Posted on 3/1/15 at 2:57 pm to
Friends with a female your not sexing would force you to constantly question why you are subjecting yourself to certain miseries. Like listening to them speak
Posted by jmcs68
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Posted on 3/1/15 at 2:57 pm to
Besties?
Posted by chinhoyang
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Posted on 3/1/15 at 2:58 pm to
Posted by chinhoyang
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Posted on 3/1/15 at 3:00 pm to
Posted by pacman1984
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Posted on 3/1/15 at 3:17 pm to
This topic really hit a nerve. Glad I'm not the only one.

And my friend is not single.
Posted by TigahRag
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Posted on 3/1/15 at 3:20 pm to
I've just had drinks with her, with Mrs Rag present .. She's actually pretty sweet ..

Rouge .. I definitely get what you're saying .. Guys are better friends anyway .. When's the last time a true female friend came through for you in the clutch ..
Posted by Tiger Ryno
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Posted on 3/1/15 at 3:32 pm to
Why would any man with pride ever want to be friends with a woman??
This post was edited on 3/1/15 at 3:33 pm
Posted by mikelbr
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Posted on 3/1/15 at 3:36 pm to
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He's lying otherwise


I have a few friends that are pretty damned hot and unless they were physically throwing themselves on me and there was no escape, I would be like gtfo and go pass out(assuming they would have to be shite faced on booze and blow).

Op, you're wrong. And I'm the resident perv who'll frick anything.
This post was edited on 3/1/15 at 3:37 pm
Posted by Tiger Ryno
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Posted on 3/1/15 at 3:39 pm to
Aren't you bi? What about about your male friends?
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 3/1/15 at 3:39 pm to
quote:

Tiger Ryno
How do you feel about your wife's best guy friends?
Posted by Tiger Ryno
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Posted on 3/1/15 at 3:43 pm to
She doesn't have any baw. I wear the pants.
Posted by Govt Tide
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Posted on 3/1/15 at 6:35 pm to
"They can if the guy is not attracted to the girl"

This. I'm currently dealing with this situation. I'm friends with a woman I did hook up with a couple of times . We are good friends but she has flat out told me she is hoping we can become more. I wish I was attracted to her because she is cool and I do like her as a friend but I simply am not. We're friends but in the back of my mind I get the feeling she's holding out for me. She's currently dating someone yet she wants to come stay with me (she lives about an hour away) for a local event the middle of April to "hang out".

I'm recently went out with another woman who just wanted to be "friends" and we ended up dating and hooking up for 3 months until her 4 year out of state boyfriend finally moved here. This one I was and still am very attracted to but I don't think I can have.

I think the OP's statement is true if the friends have gotten physical with one another. At that point one either the guy or girl or both expect more than friendship even if it's just a friends with benefits situation.

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