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re: Men and women CANNOT just be friends

Posted on 3/1/15 at 12:03 pm to
Posted by yurintroubl
Dallas, Tx.
Member since Apr 2008
30164 posts
Posted on 3/1/15 at 12:03 pm to
Iona - You need to come to Dallas for the Byron Nelson one of these years. You will leave happy. Guaranteed.
Posted by SmackoverHawg
Member since Oct 2011
27329 posts
Posted on 3/1/15 at 12:03 pm to
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Maybe not in college days, but I have been friends with my golf partner who is a very attractive woman (no pics)20 years my younger since 2012. We play golf; hang out; go out to dinner; go out drinking (I'm the DD); and just have a lot of laughs. I was at her place last night and we talked about doing a golf road trip together in a double occupancy arrangement.

And you are not attracted to her one little bit? 20 years ain't THAT big of a difference...unless you're like 37 or less.
Posted by boddagetta
Moulton
Member since Mar 2011
9999 posts
Posted on 3/1/15 at 12:03 pm to
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You don't think people can have feelings for more than one person at a time?


Not if they are "happily married" as you claim to be.
Posted by yurintroubl
Dallas, Tx.
Member since Apr 2008
30164 posts
Posted on 3/1/15 at 12:04 pm to
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that's daming with faint praise


That's actually high praise... but I wouldn't expect you to think so.

ETA:

Yer an 80%er like me.
This post was edited on 3/1/15 at 12:05 pm
Posted by lsu480
Downtown Scottsdale
Member since Oct 2007
92876 posts
Posted on 3/1/15 at 12:05 pm to
WRONG! If the guy is not attracted to the chick they can be, who wants to bang a nasty looking broad?
Posted by BoredStateWorker
Member since Feb 2015
132 posts
Posted on 3/1/15 at 12:08 pm to
Eh... From your posts alone it sounds like you both wanna get together.

First clue was her getting you to sign up for a dating site.

Second clue was how you describe her.

Sorry man, you might not want her... But either your heart or your dick does.

When I got married, I cut out all female friends who weren't involved with some of my other friends.

While I would certainly never willingly cheat on my wife, history has shown that I'm a terrible goalie when whiskey and pussy are involved.

No temptation equals me not screwing up the best thing that's ever happened to me because of my shitty morals.

Also, women don't really work as friends with each other either.
Posted by IonaTiger
The Commonwealth Of Virginia
Member since Mar 2006
33053 posts
Posted on 3/1/15 at 12:08 pm to
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You need to come to Dallas for the Byron Nelson one of these years.


I played Los Colinas a number of years ago. Great golf course (and I made par on 17).

quote:

You will leave happy. Guaranteed.


Interest piqued.
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
175806 posts
Posted on 3/1/15 at 12:09 pm to
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Yer an 80%er like me.
whatever IM sophisticated as shite


but being the fancypants of the OT is like being the least fat girl at a fat camp
Posted by WiscyTiger
Bear Lake, WI
Member since Nov 2008
1415 posts
Posted on 3/1/15 at 12:10 pm to
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who wants to bang a nasty looking broad?


Posted by Uncle JackD
Member since Nov 2007
58638 posts
Posted on 3/1/15 at 12:10 pm to
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While I would certainly never willingly cheat on my wife, history has shown that I'm a terrible goalie when whiskey and pussy are involved.

Posted by IonaTiger
The Commonwealth Of Virginia
Member since Mar 2006
33053 posts
Posted on 3/1/15 at 12:11 pm to
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And you are not attracted to her one little bit?


I didn't say that. She is very attractive. Any red blooded American guy would be attracted to her. But we are good friends. She gets hit on by other guys she plays golf with all the time. I want her to know that that will not happen with me. And I see the 20 year gap as a big difference.

Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
260206 posts
Posted on 3/1/15 at 12:14 pm to
Sure they can.
Posted by lsu480
Downtown Scottsdale
Member since Oct 2007
92876 posts
Posted on 3/1/15 at 12:14 pm to
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I thought I could keep my feelings in check for my best friend, a girl. But nope. Not happening.





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I am also happily married, and this friendship is important to me. But because if the marriage, I've gotta cool it, obviously. I had really convinced myself it was fine.








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F'ing sucks.



Posted by rantfan
new iberia la
Member since Nov 2012
14110 posts
Posted on 3/1/15 at 12:15 pm to
Brother in law is gay, when he gets drunk with his girlfriends he magically turns straight. He brags that he's gay and still gets more vagina tha me . I have to remind him with all that vagina he slays once he puts a pecker in his mouth he had just negated it all.
Posted by ThirdDownSyndrom
Pooler where its cooler
Member since Feb 2015
58 posts
Posted on 3/1/15 at 12:17 pm to
Men and women can absolutely be friends. but certain things must occur

A) you must get a good fricking out the way. curiosity about the quality of a woman's vagina will destroy the mental faculties of a man. and invariably she will tire of running from you and making herself attractive for someone she thinks she isnt going to frick . So get it out the way

B) And this the most critical aspect. You CAN NOT frick her in a manner that releases her insanity. Of course you want to let her know you were there, just don't release the kracken. This requires striking the most delicate of balances. Acting like a nasty hog during or after, friendship becomes unlikely. Make too much eye contact during, and youre changing your cell number.

But it is possible, and it can be worth it





Posted by lsu480
Downtown Scottsdale
Member since Oct 2007
92876 posts
Posted on 3/1/15 at 12:17 pm to
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Brother in law is gay, when he gets drunk with his girlfriends he magically turns straight. He brags that he's gay and still gets more vagina tha me . I have to remind him with all that vagina he slays once he puts a pecker in his mouth he had just negated it all.



Marrying into a family with the gay gene is risky, you better cross your fingers if you are going to have kids.
Posted by PBnJ
in your lunchbox
Member since Aug 2009
2642 posts
Posted on 3/1/15 at 12:21 pm to
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pacman1984



You can absolutely have platonic friends of the opposite sex, your outlook is just a blatant sign of your immaturity.
Posted by boddagetta
Moulton
Member since Mar 2011
9999 posts
Posted on 3/1/15 at 12:24 pm to
quote:

Brother in law is gay


That brings up a good question. Can a gay man be "just friends" with other men?
Posted by ThirdDownSyndrom
Pooler where its cooler
Member since Feb 2015
58 posts
Posted on 3/1/15 at 12:32 pm to
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Can a gay man be "just friends" with other men?


Nope. impossibru. Not for an extended period of time

Gays are not bound by the minimal requirements for engagement that we are. Like attraction. Every gay guy alive wants to experience every cock within a 1000 mile perimeter of himself. They are modern day pirates. Lawless. You spend three years cultivating a genuine balance of a fraternal nature, then boom. One night of jose cuervo and you wake up deflowered
Posted by Teddy Ruxpin
Member since Oct 2006
39574 posts
Posted on 3/1/15 at 12:37 pm to
somewhat true but I have gay friends who want nothing to do with me.

My brother is gay so I'm probaby one chemical spill or Cher show away from gene activation my self.
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