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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:29 am to kisatchie53
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:29 am to kisatchie53
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Suck his dick to show him you’re the boss

Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:31 am to dcbl

This is how I picture everything while reading through this thread.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:31 am to dcbl
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if I take this to the pool board in an official capacity
Why would you involve other people? Just send him a screen shot and let him know he can frick around and find out.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:31 am to efrad
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Serious question, how does me being angry that a man made a move on my wife equate to insecurity?
I read this thread aloud to my wife. She said the most alpha thing you could do is nothing at all... It means the dude made a swing and a miss and you won the ball game without lifting a finger.
Getting angry and making a scene implies this guy is a real threat and you need to do so in order to keep your wife in line.
yes, I know in my heart that this is the wisest course of action...
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:33 am to Ignignot
quote:I mean is this surprising in the least?
So so so fricked up for this rando dude to use autism AND children as a means to get his rocks off.
A hard dick can make a man say and do a bunch of shite
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:34 am to Odysseus32
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The fact that you have that going on and your main worry is this guy is gonna frick your wife
Lol, I’m not worried about my wife, she came to me with this
I’m pissed at this guy and I am also assuming that my wife is not the only one he has made a pass at
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:35 am to dcbl
Your wife telling him the message is inappropriate is more of a slap in the face to him than you kicking the shite out of him or going to the pool board to get his membership revoked
The pool board? Lolz.
The pool board? Lolz.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:35 am to dcbl
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this is honestly the best advice given in this thread, thx!
It's weird that you need someone to say the common sense part out loud.
"Just tell the guy you don't appreciate it."
"Holy shite, that's brilliant!"
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:35 am to dcbl
Ok it real simple then. Go up to the guy and tell him not to text your wife again.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:36 am to dcbl
Have your wife ask if he can give a couples massage to you both
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:37 am to dcbl
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if I take this to the pool board in an official capacity, his family will very likely have their membership revoked
Why frick things up for the rest of his family because he’s an idiot?
Block him. If he tries to confront her about it, address it with him. Go on about your business.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:39 am to BluegrassBelle
Please post a screenshot of the text message.
Was your wife in a bikini at the time?
I'd personally reply back with cock pic and tell him to never text my wife again or he's going to have problems.
Was your wife in a bikini at the time?
I'd personally reply back with cock pic and tell him to never text my wife again or he's going to have problems.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:39 am to dcbl
Your wife should tell him (via the text) that his deep tissue comment was inappropriate and she finds it creepy.
He will apologize and it will be over.
The problem is your wife is trying to “be kind” to someone who is acting inappropriate. This only encourages more inappropriate behavior.
She can end it with a quickness if she tells him (very directly) that those kind of comments are pathetic.
He will apologize and it will be over.
The problem is your wife is trying to “be kind” to someone who is acting inappropriate. This only encourages more inappropriate behavior.
She can end it with a quickness if she tells him (very directly) that those kind of comments are pathetic.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:39 am to dcbl
Show up to his house at the scheduled play date time and request the deep tissue massage?
Never know. You might find a masseuse and a friend in all of this.
Never know. You might find a masseuse and a friend in all of this.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:39 am to dcbl
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dcbl
The chances of you recovering from this thread as a respected poster took a downturn fwiw.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:40 am to SouthernStyled
quote:Deep tissue massage his face brah.
man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?
Its a shame you need advice, girly-man.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:43 am to dcbl
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I will speak with my buddy who is on the board though...
You’ve got a problem with another man, and you go to another man in secret to resolve it for you.
Dude. Reject passivity.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:47 am to dcbl
Tell your wife text him back and agree to the massage. When he shows up, you walk out in a towel and send her to the store…problem solved. Just don’t Constanza the situation.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:49 am to broadhead
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I'd personally reply back with cock pic and tell him to never text my wife again or he's going to have problems.
This could potentially backfire if dude is rockin a PeeJ-size dick and sends a pic back. Then it’s checkmate.
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