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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?

Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:06 am to
Posted by Ignignot
Member since Mar 2009
18823 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:06 am to
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speak with my buddy who is on the board though


Good call honestly, if you can pull some political shite to sink him privately fricking do it
Posted by DevilDagNS
Member since Dec 2017
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Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:06 am to
Is he married? If so, find out his wife's contact info and send him a screen shot of what you will send her if he ever so much as looks in your wife's direction again.

I would say frick it just send it to her but there are kids involved so I believe a warning is appropriate before blowing up their whole world.
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
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Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:08 am to
Really???? Let it go dude…..
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32712 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:09 am to
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Our girl asked my wife @what is wrong with my brain” a few days ago, my wife told our little girl that nothing was wrong & that she is perfect the way God made her, then spent half the afternoon teary and depressed

We do everything we can to plug our girl in with “typical kids” as often as we can and on the surface, this looked like a great opportunity
all this is a non sequitur.

The issue is you are super insecure and threatened by the creep at the pool.

He hits on your wife? Laugh hysterically with her about it and block his number.
quote:

I don’t fault her at all, but moving forward, she won’t be giving out her number to any more fathers...

Just to be safe, you probably shouldn't let her wear a bathing suit to the pool anymore either.
Posted by dcbl
Good guys wear white hats.
Member since Sep 2013
29685 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:09 am to
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Is he married? If so, find out his wife's contact info and send him a screen shot of what you will send her if he ever so much as looks in your wife's direction again.

if I take this to the pool board in an official capacity, his family will very likely have their membership revoked

My wife would rather I not do that, but only out of compassion for his little girl
Posted by LSU Coyote
Member since Sep 2007
53390 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:09 am to
You won't kick his arse uncle PeeJie?

I thought a bad ads like you would show that guy what is up
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32712 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:10 am to
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if I take this to the pool board in an official capacity, his family will very likely have their membership revoked

Neighborhood Karen alert...
Posted by supadave3
Houston, TX
Member since Dec 2005
30262 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:10 am to
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Does he know that she's married?


Yes, 100%


Then contact the guy and try to come from a non-combative but firm stance. Tell him flatly that you don't want things to escalate and that your preference would be that we never have to speak of this incident again, ever.

But, that your wife is happily married and plans are to continue that way.

Hit him with a Les Miles 'Have a great day' and let it be.

He decides what the next move will be. But your kids cannot play together, he made this too awkward now.

Sucks for the kids, but daddy fricked that up.
This post was edited on 7/18/21 at 10:16 am
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
63026 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:11 am to
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My wife would rather I not do that, but only becuase she wants to frick him without my drama
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
202942 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:11 am to
It all depends if it goes any farther…. But I’ll know when and how to send the message to him…..
Posted by dcbl
Good guys wear white hats.
Member since Sep 2013
29685 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:11 am to
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The issue is you are super insecure and threatened by the creep at the pool.


Serious question, how does me being angry that a man made a move on my wife equate to insecurity?

Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
202942 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:12 am to
Ok why does it bother to the point that you started a thread on here about it????
Posted by T_don
Abbeville
Member since Dec 2019
300 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:12 am to
During swim lessons *away from cameras of course* put anchovies under the hood of his car..
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
164137 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:13 am to
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So, my wife texted him

Sorry bro they’ve already fricked
Posted by dcbl
Good guys wear white hats.
Member since Sep 2013
29685 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:14 am to
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contact the guy and try to come from a non-combative but firm stance. Tell him flatly that you don't want things to escalate and that you're preference would be that we never have to speak of this incident again, ever.

But, that your wife is happily married and plans are to continue that way.

Hit him with a Les Miles 'Have a great day' and let it be.

He decides what the next move will be.


this is honestly the best advice given in this thread, thx!

Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:14 am to
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Serious question, how does me being angry that a man made a move on my wife equate to insecurity?



what else did the long text say?

and hgow did he make a move? She gave him her number...he texted her, mentioned something about he's good at giving massages. Maybe she told him she was stressed out or maybe he noticed her rubbing her shoulders


Did he say anything else inappropriate to her while they were at the pool?
Posted by Antonio Moss
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2006
48313 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:14 am to
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Serious question, how does me being angry that a man made a move on my wife equate to insecurity?


Because your emotional response seems to indicate that you believe there is a possibility that your wife would cheat afforded an opportunity.

Posted by Duckhammer_77
TD Platinum member
Member since Nov 2016
2685 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:14 am to
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how should I handle it?

If you have to ask, it's too late.
Posted by dcbl
Good guys wear white hats.
Member since Sep 2013
29685 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:15 am to
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Ok why does it bother to the point that you started a thread on here about it????


Honest answer -

I’m a hothead, my 1st thought was to confront the guy in public

I’m trying to calm down and walk myself back before I do something I will wind up regretting
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 10:16 am to
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I’m trying to calm down and walk myself back before I do something I will wind up regretting



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