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dcbl
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man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?
We are members of a community pool

We signed our 11 year old autistic daughter up for swim lessons, she was placed with another little girl that is 3 or 4 years younger

The father approached my wife (no pics) after swim lessons, talked about how his brother has autism & suggested getting the girls together for a play date

So, my wife texted him and told him to reach out & we would set it up

Before she got home, he sends her a very long text, he let her know that he was really good at “deep tissue massages” & “joked” that it “may be inappropriate” for him to tell her that

So, I want to confront the guy and cause a scene at the pool, maybe even start a fight (or emasculate him to the point that he has 2 choices, slink away in humiliation or take a swing at me, which is what I really want)

My wife wants to ignore the situation unless he reaches out again, she hates the idea of this being made public and does not want attention brought to herself

So yeah, I’m flattered that someone thinks my wife looks good enough to hit on, but livid that he did so at a neighborhood community pool for families

I am also thinking about showing his text to members of the board and requesting that his membership be revoked

So, what would the OT do in this situation?


WestCoastAg
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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?
You've come to the right place


TigerBait1971
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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?
frick his wife


kisatchie53
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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?
Suck his dick to show him you’re the boss


BuckyCheese
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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?
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told him to reach out


Annoying


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VolsOut4Harambe
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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?
This will be a thread.

PIIHB
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WaWaWeeWa
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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?
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I am also thinking about showing his text to members of the board and requesting that his membership be revoked


for what?

The guy may be a douche but what rules did he violate? Your wife gave him her number.


tgrbaitn08
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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?
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he sends her a very long text,


well?? What else did the"very long text say"?


or you making all this up?


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Eat Your Crow
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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?
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My wife wants to ignore the situation unless he reaches out again, she hates the idea of this being made public and does not want attention brought to herself

This.
quote:

I want to confront the guy and cause a scene at the pool, maybe even start a fight (or emasculate him to the point that he has 2 choices, slink away in humiliation or take a swing at me, which is what I really want)

Then this if he reaches out again.


DabosDynasty
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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?
You should definitely drown him in the community pool.

Also, pics? Of the wife, not the drowning.


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CaptainsWafer
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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?
The problem is that he’s sending this to and hitting on a married woman, not that he did it at the community pool.



HoustonGumbeauxGuy
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bah humbug
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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?
Sounds like your wife was up front with you about it and has it handled. Either trust her or learn how to give even better massages.


Mingo Was His NameO
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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?
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So, I want to confront the guy and cause a scene at the pool, maybe even start a fight (or emasculate him to the point that he has 2 choices, slink away in humiliation or take a swing at me, which is what I really want)



Why? The dude is clearly a creepy loser. Go about your day, unless of course, you are afraid your wife is going to bone said creppy loser.


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GatorReb
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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?
Have your wife text him the address to the closest Sonic and have him meet “her” there.


Hangover Haven
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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?
Funny story... My mom and dad were helping some friends with a catering event back in the 70's.. It was some big political party for the state. Well Edwin Edwards was there and starting hitting on my mother where she just laughed at him and said, my husband is right next to me. Edwards just said, "so"... My dad just laughed at him as well
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saturday
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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?
You aren't going to do shite.


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SUB
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geauxtigahs87
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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?
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Before she got home, he sends her a very long text, he let her know that he was really good at “deep tissue massages”

Set up a couples massage for you and your wife

Then have your wife no-show

Then hit on him while he's massaging you


Jcrew
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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?
This has potential. I suggest you shite on his car hood to assert your dominance.


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