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Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:37 am to dcbl
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am also thinking about showing his text to members of the board and requesting that his membership be revoked
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:37 am to dcbl
He doesn't owe you anything. Your wife needs to tell him to frick off, then ignore him. If she won't, your problem is with her, not him.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:37 am to dcbl
I suggest you discuss this with your wife and not the OT.
She's the one you'll have to answer to if this goes badly.
She's the one you'll have to answer to if this goes badly.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:37 am to dcbl
So far this is a win for you because nobody has implied they’re having sex with your wife. On the OT that’s unheard of.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:37 am to dcbl
Holy insecurity, Batman
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:38 am to dcbl
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So, I want to confront the guy and cause a scene at the pool, maybe even start a fight (or emasculate him to the point that he has 2 choices, slink away in humiliation or take a swing at me, which is what I really want)
This just shows the story is another OT fantasy.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:38 am to Eat Your Crow
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My wife wants to ignore the situation unless he reaches out again, she hates the idea of this being made public and does not want attention brought to herself
This.
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I want to confront the guy and cause a scene at the pool, maybe even start a fight (or emasculate him to the point that he has 2 choices, slink away in humiliation or take a swing at me, which is what I really want)
Then this if he reaches out again.
In all honesty, this is probably what I will do
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:38 am to dcbl
If you trust your wife, you will have nothing to worry about.
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:39 am to dcbl
Use the term "reach out" one more time and you and I will have a problem
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:39 am to dcbl
So what? Maybe he does give good deep tissue massages......whats the big deal?
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:39 am to dcbl
Have her block the number.
Edit: well this may be a problem if you all see the guy each week.
Edit: well this may be a problem if you all see the guy each week.
This post was edited on 7/18/21 at 9:41 am
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:39 am to dcbl
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So, I want to confront the guy and cause a scene at the pool, maybe even start a fight (or emasculate him to the point that he has 2 choices, slink away in humiliation or take a swing at me, which is what I really want)
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but livid that he did so at a neighborhood community pool for families
So you’re upset he made a pass at your wife at a family community pool but you want to make a soon and fist fight someone at the same community family pool?
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:40 am to dcbl
Take away everything he's bragging about being able to do. You are better at deep tissue massage, got a tree trunk for a wanker, etc etc
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:40 am to dcbl
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how should I handle it?
Just walk right up to him and tell him that you want to know why he was texting your wife about massages?
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:41 am to CaptainsWafer
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The problem is that he’s sending this to and hitting on a married woman, not that he did it at the community pool.
Yes
I agree, however, our pool is very popular (been around since the mid 60’s and has a 3 to 5 year waiting list to get in as a member)
It is 100% “family focused” - one of the rules is no alcohol allowed inside
I am pretty sure that his family would have their membership revoked if I took this to the pool board
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:41 am to dcbl
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am also thinking about showing his text to members of the board and requesting that his membership be revoked
Lmao they would probably laugh at you
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:42 am to dcbl
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So, I want to confront the guy and cause a scene at the pool, maybe even start a fight (or emasculate him to the point that he has 2 choices, slink away in humiliation or take a swing at me, which is what I really want)
Well that’s mighty white trash of you
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:44 am to dcbl
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and has a 3 to 5 year waiting list to get in as a member)
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:44 am to dcbl
Even if your wife ignore the text the guy has now made it awkward for swim lessons. If she tells him something it will still be awkward at swim lessons. I would as the wife tell him it’s inappropriate to send texts like that then switch swim lesson days so I wouldn’t have to see the idiot again.
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