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re: man hitting on my wife at our community pool - how should I handle it?

Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:45 am to
Posted by Vinny V
Kenna Brah
Member since Jun 2011
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Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:45 am to
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one of the rules is no alcohol allowed inside

I am pretty sure that his family would have their membership revoked if I took this to the pool board


How are these two things connected in anyway? “Sorry we have to revoke your membership. Your dad was hitting on another woman” lmao
This post was edited on 7/18/21 at 9:46 am
Posted by Sus-Scrofa
Member since Feb 2013
8122 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:45 am to
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So, my wife texted him and told him to reach out & we would set it up


Hmmmmmmm
Posted by Flashback
reading the chicken bones
Member since Apr 2008
8299 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:46 am to
He just wanted to make your wife feel better, jeez.
Posted by Roaad
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Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:46 am to
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If you trust your wife, you will have nothing to worry about.

I generally feel obligated to protect my wife from slimy assholes. . .especially aggressive ones.

I maybe old fashioned, though.

I would probably holler loudly at him across the pool. "Hey man. . .just wanted to let you know my wife said she isn't interested. Cool?"

Then await his response.
Posted by cattus
Member since Jan 2009
13414 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:47 am to
Congratulations for your wife on the new orbiter.
Posted by Antonio Moss
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2006
48294 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:47 am to
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It is 100% “family focused” - one of the rules is no alcohol allowed inside



That sounds terrible. Why would anyone pay for that?

quote:

I am pretty sure that his family would have their membership revoked if I took this to the pool board


You sound super insecure
Posted by dcbl
Good guys wear white hats.
Member since Sep 2013
29645 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:48 am to
quote:

quote:
So, my wife texted him and told him to reach out & we would set it up


Hmmmmmmm


my girl is a little awkward and does not make friends or communicate easily, my wife was excited about the idea of plugging our girl in with a friend

That is another part of my issue, this man was playing on her insecurities about our child
Posted by Flashback
reading the chicken bones
Member since Apr 2008
8299 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:48 am to
We need pics of the wife, btw.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
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Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:48 am to
quote:

my girl is a little awkward
sounds like she gets it honestly from her father
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32702 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:50 am to
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That is another part of my issue, this man was playing on her insecurities about our child

Yeah... She is the insecure one
Posted by tWildcat
Verona, KY
Member since Oct 2014
19293 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:51 am to
Also,I feel like if I were married I wouldn’t want my wife giving another man her number. I would’ve give him my number instead of her giving him hers.
Posted by Flashback
reading the chicken bones
Member since Apr 2008
8299 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:52 am to
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sounds like she gets it honestly from her father


He came here for advice..., not for u to judge him, a-hole.
Posted by SECSolomonGrundy
Slaughter Swamp
Member since Jun 2012
15843 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:52 am to
Dude sounds like he needs his arse beat. But you've got to handle it properly so you don't come out looking like the a-hole. I like your idea of punking him out. Another way would be to publicly shame him. My neighborhood has a facebook group. Let all the other neighbors know how much of an arse the guy is.
Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
8362 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:52 am to
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We need pics of the wife, btw.


This. We gotta see if we dealing with a couple of giant M&M’s trying to figure out how to eat one another. No fatties on the OT.
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10307 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:53 am to
Why did your wife give out her contact info to a stranger?
Posted by Big Jim Slade
Member since Oct 2016
4915 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:53 am to
Text him that you’d be interested in one of his “deep tissue massages”.
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:54 am to
What else did the text say? You said he sent her a long arse text.......need more context.
Posted by gadknot
Reality
Member since Jul 2005
37306 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:54 am to
quote:

my wife was excited about the idea of plugging our girl in with a friend



Keep going......... mmmm
Posted by tigafan4life
Member since Dec 2006
48915 posts
Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:54 am to
Because she saw an opportunity for her special needs daughter to make a friend.
Posted by Roaad
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Posted on 7/18/21 at 9:54 am to
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Also,I feel like if I were married I wouldn’t want my wife giving another man her number. I would’ve give him my number instead of her giving him hers.

That's. . .a bit controlling.
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