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Let's Talk About Stay-at-Home Spouses

Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:24 am
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
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Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:24 am
But first let's look at our word of the day brought to you by Dictionary.com.

pauper
[paw-per]
noun
a person without any means of support, especially a destitute person who depends on aid from public welfare funds or charity.


As many of know, your boy Pecker is a something of a feminist. I believe men and women should receive equal opportunities, equal respect, equal treatment, and equal responsibilities.

With that said, let's talk about husbands who don't work. And lets start with a list of primary reasons husbands don't work:

1) because their wives work

Now let's look at a list of secondary reasons:

1) because they have small children at home to care for
2) because the extra income isn't needed

If you have a small kid at home then i'm not talking about you. I think it's important to the development of a child that one parent stay home during a child's early, formative years.

Maybe it’s a generational thing, but unless a man is at home taking care of small children, I think it’s unacceptable to not be working. Even if you don’t need the extra income, why don’t you at least attempt to contribute. It blows my mind that there are men who spend their young adult years looking for a wealthy woman to marry so they can one day quit work and chill at home all day. They dream of sleeping till noon then going to yoga class, then going shopping, then lounging around the pool the rest of the day. It's sad. What purpose do they serve in life, other than being a leach on the arse of their wives? The good thing is that there aren't a lot of men like this. If there were, I'd have a difficult time looking at them as equals, and treating them with respect.

Now let's talk about stay-at-home wives...
This post was edited on 4/10/18 at 8:30 am
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
43551 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:24 am to
SAHD's are well SAD!
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:26 am to
well who else is going to take care of all the stay at home moms?
Posted by BigPerm30
Member since Aug 2011
32443 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:27 am to
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It blows my mind that there are men who spend their young adult years looking for a wealthy woman to marry so they can one day quit work and chill at home all day.


This is my fantasy. Then I could creep around all day and Jody some bitches.
Posted by SpeckledTiger
Denham Springs
Member since Jul 2010
1482 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:27 am to
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Maybe it’s a generational thing, but unless a man is at home taking care of small children, I think it’s unacceptable to not be working. Even if you don’t need the extra income, why don’t you at least attempt to contribute.


I think the same thing of women. Unless you are in the highest tax bracket, shite can go south very quickly. Even if you "retire" at 40, at least spend 15-20 good years building up your savings.
Posted by Cousin Key
Member since Dec 2017
995 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:27 am to
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The good thing is that there aren't a lot of men like this.


So what was the point of starting a thread about this then?
Posted by bigrob385series
B. Aura
Member since May 2014
2636 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:27 am to
you should really take up a hobby or something.
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
86731 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:28 am to
quote:

I think it’s unacceptable to not be working. Even if you don’t need the extra income, why don’t you at least attempt to contribute.


A person does not have to have a traditional job or career to contribute to the household.
Posted by cubsfan5150
NWA
Member since Nov 2007
18956 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:29 am to
Let's not
Posted by Areddishfish
The Wild West
Member since Oct 2015
6538 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:30 am to
quote:

With that said, let's talk about husbands who don't work. And lets start with a list of primary reasons husbands don't work:

1) because their wives work


If my wife was making bank and I could stay home, I absolutely would. All I would have to worry about would be working out and hobbies while plenty of income was still coming in. That's the dream. But, only a dream.
Posted by fjlee90
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2016
8521 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:30 am to
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It blows my mind that there are men who spend their young adult years looking for a wealthy woman to marry


Does not compute.
Posted by terriblegreen
Spokane, LA
Member since Aug 2011
12458 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:30 am to
What do you care what other people do?
Posted by BulldogXero
Member since Oct 2011
10379 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:31 am to
quote:

Maybe it’s a generational thing, but unless a man is at home taking care of small children, I think it’s unacceptable to not be working. Even if you don’t need the extra income, why don’t you at least attempt to contribute. It blows my mind that there are men who spend their young adult years looking for a wealthy woman to marry so they can one day quit work and chill at home all day. They dream of sleeping till noon then going to yoga class, then going shopping, then lounging around the pool the rest of the day. It's sad. What purpose do they serve in life, other than being a leach on the arse of their wives? The good thing is that there aren't a lot of men like this. If there were, I'd have a difficult time looking at them as equals, and treating them with respect.



I'm not looking for that life, but if I had that life, I wouldn't be complaining.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:32 am to
quote:

A person does not have to have a traditional job or career to contribute to the household.


Unless you’re at home taking care of children, how are you contributing to the home?

Let me guess. You do the dishes, clean, cook dinner? Maybe water the flowers?

If your job in life is just to wait for me to get home from busting my arse, you better be waiting with a blowjob, a massage, a mud facial, and you better have a flawless body.
This post was edited on 4/10/18 at 8:37 am
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
60158 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:32 am to
I always chuckle when dudes on here say they "work from home"

We get it dude, you're a mr mom

Sorry your wife wears the pants
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
52893 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:33 am to
I would love to be a stay at home dad. I don't care about the stigma sign me the frick up
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:34 am to
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I would love to be a stay at home dad. I don't care about the stigma sign me the frick up



A stay at home dad with no children at home?
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
86731 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:34 am to
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Let me guess. You do the dishes, clean, cook dinner? Maybe water the flowers?



are these not contributions?

Posted by TDcline
American Gardens building 11th flor
Member since Aug 2015
9504 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:34 am to
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
33054 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:36 am to
quote:

you have a small kid at home then i'm not talking about you. I think it's important to the development of a child that one parent stay home during a child's early, formative years.


Meh, I still prefer the dual income. We threw the little pussy shite in a daycare so the Mrs can go back to making bank.
This post was edited on 4/10/18 at 8:37 am
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