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re: Let's Talk About Stay-at-Home Spouses

Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:36 am to
Posted by Pecker
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Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:36 am to
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are these not contributions?



No. Those are chores you give to children to keep them busy. These are not the contributions of an adult who wants to be respected as a worthwhile contributor to a marriage.
Posted by Salmon
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Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:37 am to
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No. Those are chores you give to children to keep them busy. These are not the contributions of an adult who wants to be respected as a worthwhile contributor to a marriage.


Your insecurity is showing again.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
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Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:38 am to
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Let me guess. You do the dishes, clean, cook dinner? Maybe water the flowers?


are these not contributions?

Not ones that justify not working.
Posted by Pecker
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Member since May 2015
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Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:38 am to
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Meh, I still prefer the dual income. We threw the little pussy shite in a daycare so the Mrs can go back to making bank.


I see nothing wrong with this
Posted by Packer
IE, California
Member since May 2017
8699 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:38 am to
I understand the SAHM with young kids who aren't in school, but once they are school age WTF do they do all day when the kids are out of the house?

And at saying that they contribute by cooking, cleaning, etc. My wife does that too, plus she has a job.
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11638 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:39 am to
My ex took a couple years off to figure out what he wanted to do. He ended up severely depressed & stayed drunk or in bed all the time. It destroyed our marriage. People need purpose & routine.
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
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Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:39 am to
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A stay at home dad with no children at home?

Dad kind of implies children
Posted by Pecker
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Member since May 2015
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Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:39 am to
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Your insecurity is showing again.


I get it. This is your go-to line when you say something stupid like “isn’t watering flowers a contribution to a marriage.”
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
33054 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:40 am to
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WTF do they do all day when the kids are out of the house?

Troll Facebook for BBC and complain how their husbands don't treat them like a princess anymore.
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
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Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:40 am to
Men who don't have a natural inclination or desire to achieve more or become greater than are not men at all.

Posted by StringedInstruments
Member since Oct 2013
21082 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:40 am to
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I understand the SAHM with young kids who aren't in school, but once they are school age WTF do they do all day when the kids are out of the house?


Hopefully tending to the house, staying in shape, and doing a part time job.

In my ideal world, my wife would still be able to pick the kids up at 3pm and take them home or to practice/lessons. Have dinner ready.

I wouldn't want my kids staying in aftercare at school.
Posted by Salmon
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Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:41 am to
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I get it. This is your go-to line when you say something stupid like “isn’t watering flowers a contribution to a marriage.”


It is my go-to because all of your threads reek of insecurity.

Posted by Pecker
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Member since May 2015
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Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:42 am to
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Men who don't have a natural inclination or desire to achieve more or become greater than are not men at all.


I agree. This thread isn’t about men though. It’s about the fact that we wouldn’t accept that behavior from men, so why do we accept it from women while also listening to how they aren’t being treated as equals.
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
52894 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:43 am to
I'm planning on semi-retiring around 35 to take care of the upcoming little Sun God so the wife can run her businesses. I've saved up a lot of dough though so it's not like I will only depend on her. Counting down the days
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
33054 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:44 am to
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It is my go-to because all of your threads reek of insecurity.

I don't get that at all from his threads. That's why I don't get the pecker haters on here. His threads create dialogue, express his opinions without taking himself too seriously, and often are quite entertaining.

I think you are just projecting.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:44 am to
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It is my go-to because all of your threads reek of insecurity.


Tell me more about watering flowers
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
60162 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:44 am to
There are orphans and shite that get rich. Your kids not gonna remember you staying at home and fingerpainting instead of working if they're less than 5 years old
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
43551 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:45 am to
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so why do we accept it from women while also listening to how they aren’t being treated as equals.



To be fair, culture dictates they have to do the heavy lifting in terms of childbirth. Now how much their spouse values that typically determine the path forward.

Posted by Salmon
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Member since Feb 2008
86732 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:45 am to
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I don't get that at all from his threads. That's why I don't get the pecker haters on here.


I don't hate Pecker. I generally enjoy his threads.

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I think you are just projecting.


Me and my wife both work. None of this applies to my life. I'm not sure what I'm projecting.
This post was edited on 4/10/18 at 8:49 am
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
172004 posts
Posted on 4/10/18 at 8:46 am to
I would have to do something. Like start a business or something. Staying at home is fun for a day or so, but then you get bored, restless, and eventually just depressed.

If my wife made enough for me not to work, I would go all in on a business idea we’ve been kicking around for a couple years.
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