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re: Kids today need to learn how to entertain themselves/deal with boredom

Posted on 9/15/19 at 2:39 pm to
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
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Posted on 9/15/19 at 2:39 pm to
Posted by wheelr
Member since Jul 2012
5147 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 2:43 pm to
My friend told me the other day his ex was mad because he was letting his son ride his bike alone in the neighborhood.

Back in the day my friends and I were riding miles and miles to Pack n Paddle to go scope out the new bikes. I don't remember anything bad happening. If anything it promoted independence and it was a healthy activity.
Posted by Ash Williams
South of i-10
Member since May 2009
18146 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 2:45 pm to
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he had nothing to entertain him at a nice restaurant


No children’s menus to color?
Posted by GetCocky11
Calgary, AB
Member since Oct 2012
51272 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 2:49 pm to
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5 year old kid. Dude wouldn't stop throwing a tantrum at the table because he was bored and he had nothing to entertain him at a nice restaurant.


Don't take a 5 year old to a nice restaurant. Problem solved.
Posted by HollyWoodCole
CA
Member since Nov 2017
1255 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 2:51 pm to
I remember when my parents bought a car in the 80’s and it took for whatever seemed to be hours.

I kept asking if we could leave.

Kids today are much the same, we just look at it differently as adults now.

And I’m not opposed to yelling at clouds or getting off my lawn.
Posted by RLDSC FAN
Rancho Cucamonga, CA
Member since Nov 2008
51578 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 2:52 pm to
Yes, but adults as well. It's a messed up generation
Posted by rantfan
new iberia la
Member since Nov 2012
14110 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 3:01 pm to
Self entertainment doesn't happen until the age of 12.
Posted by Pussykat
South Louisiana
Member since Oct 2016
3889 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 3:25 pm to
News flash: 30 years ago kids couldn’t entertain themselves in a nice restaurant.
Posted by Sus-Scrofa
Member since Feb 2013
8146 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 3:53 pm to
Kids nowadays don’t get the experience of being bored with their mouth shut in a church pew for a few hours every week.

Take or leave the preaching, sitting there drawing on the bulletin every Sunday was a life lesson in itself.

Now kids don’t go or have some version of daycare disguised as Sunday School.
Posted by Philzilla2k
Member since Oct 2017
11070 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 3:57 pm to
Thanks professor
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
56271 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 4:03 pm to
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Self entertainment doesn't happen until the age of 12.


No one is talking about being entertained. We are talking bout being miserable, but quiet.

Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47497 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 4:07 pm to
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Well, I use the general "we". I have no kids. You. It's you people


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their 5 year old kid. Dude wouldn't stop throwing a tantrum at the table because he was bored and he had nothing to entertain him at a nice restaurant


You're so clueless. And before you quote your mama about how great of a kid you were at 5, every kid is different and every kid has a breakdown.

It'll stop around 8-10 yrs old when they can process "be good now and you'll get a reward later or an arse whipping if you keep this bullshite up."

I have 4 kids. 2 would do this at 4 or
5yrs, 2 wouldn't.
This post was edited on 9/15/19 at 4:09 pm
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43030 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 4:08 pm to
We always behaved in public because our parents would beat the shite out of us if we didn't
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
67079 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 4:09 pm to
I think Bender had some sage advice for this very predicament: LINK
Posted by olgoi khorkhoi
priapism survivor
Member since May 2011
14852 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 4:19 pm to
We don't own a TV or gaming system, and my kids are always thinking up games and entertaining themselves. If we go out, they are either talking with each other or whatever adults will pay attention to them.

No TV/video games was my wife's idea and she was right. Night and day difference when we got rid of them.
Posted by baybeefeetz
Member since Sep 2009
31635 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 4:21 pm to
I had boredom all the time, too. I whined like a little a-hole, too, though.
Posted by Jon Ham
Member since Jun 2011
28587 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 4:47 pm to
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Kids nowadays don’t get the experience of being bored with their mouth shut in a church pew for a few hours every week.


This practice is so underrated. If you grow up doing that every single week, that means you’ve basically practiced mediation for that long. I would bet everything I have that kids who had that experience have a leg up emotionally and intellectually on those who didn’t.
Posted by cajunangelle
Member since Oct 2012
146714 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 5:58 pm to
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This is definitely true, but I think it's true with adults now as well. Look around when you're out, everyone on phones because they can't just sit.


What is the youngest age nowadays that a kid gets an iPad? iphone?
Posted by Breadstick Gun
Colorado Springs, CO
Member since Apr 2009
10171 posts
Posted on 9/15/19 at 6:44 pm to
My wife tells my kids all the time that boredom is good for them and their brain. She’s pretty smart so I believe her
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