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re: It hurts to say goodbye, reason 349 getting older sucks

Posted on 1/31/23 at 8:32 pm to
Posted by RCDfan1950
United States
Member since Feb 2007
37301 posts
Posted on 1/31/23 at 8:32 pm to
Good for you. Your Grandpa did a good job.

Pain is a 'sacrifice' and witness to the depth of one's love. No love, no pain.

IMO, you will see and live with your Grandpa again. And ya'll will move forward, together. That is 'heaven'.

Posted by LSUintheNW
At your mom’s house
Member since Aug 2009
36551 posts
Posted on 1/31/23 at 8:33 pm to
quote:

We're only on this ride for few rounds.


Live life to the max!

Sorry OP. Good thoughts going your way!
Posted by BrotherEsau
Member since Aug 2011
3564 posts
Posted on 1/31/23 at 8:36 pm to
quote:

Held his hand, said a prayer, talked to him for the last time, kissed him on the forehead and tearfully told him I loved him and had to be going, as they came to start making my dear friend comfortable for the inevitable


While it hurts to say goodbye, this right here, leaving nothing unsaid, is the greatest gift. Nothing hurts more than not getting to say everything. Or more specifically, not saying everything despite the chance.

Hang in there, love will see you through…
Posted by Luke
1113 Chartres Street, NOLA
Member since Nov 2004
13942 posts
Posted on 1/31/23 at 8:38 pm to
Lost one of my best friends last week… buried him on Sunday
Posted by USAFTiger42
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2016
3453 posts
Posted on 1/31/23 at 9:41 pm to
quote:

Sadly, I know way too many of the other kinds & they seem to be invulnerable to anything & everything in life.


You can't kill a cockroach
Posted by JinFL
Duuuval
Member since Oct 2004
4202 posts
Posted on 1/31/23 at 10:58 pm to
quote:

at least death after 55, which is a solid run.



Damn man, that ain't that old.
Posted by Marlo Stanfield
Member since Aug 2008
2190 posts
Posted on 1/31/23 at 11:14 pm to
Lost my father in law yesterday. Loved that man. Its def not easy, and I will think of him often and fondly. Especially when looking at my 12 yr old who was very close to him.

Godspeed Bop.
This post was edited on 1/31/23 at 11:16 pm
Posted by Schmelly
Member since Jan 2014
15216 posts
Posted on 2/1/23 at 7:38 am to
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This post was edited on 2/1/23 at 7:39 am
Posted by DaTruth7
Member since Apr 2020
3924 posts
Posted on 2/1/23 at 7:40 am to
Sorry for your loss. But death of family and friends happens at all ages. Be happy you had them around so long.
Posted by LRB1967
Tennessee
Member since Dec 2020
21274 posts
Posted on 2/1/23 at 7:47 am to
We have hope in the resurrection and eternal life. Someday we will be reunited with our loved ones.
Posted by Old Sarge
Dean of Admissions, LSU
Member since Jan 2012
58122 posts
Posted on 2/1/23 at 10:32 am to
Absolutely

And thanks to everyone that posted well wishes

Just needed to type it out yesterday, maybe a bit selfish on my part, but typing it out unburdened me a little
Posted by ChineseBandit58
Pearland, TX
Member since Aug 2005
46230 posts
Posted on 2/1/23 at 10:55 am to
Prayers sent - been there - done that - too many times to recount.

I have held the hand of too many loved ones on their death bed. Thank God, all went peacefully and primarily with grace and comfort. That is about all you can pray for.

The hard ones are when a pre-teen dies. There is no way to reconcile that with how things ought to be. Thank God I have only had to endure this twice.

I only hope I can perform my last interactions as well as those I have attended.

Expressions of love, words of comfort, and recollections of good times = my recipe.
Posted by GrizzlyAlloy
Member since Aug 2020
2581 posts
Posted on 2/1/23 at 11:50 am to
I got teary eyed on this one. I'm not looking forward to those days.
Posted by Ponchy Tiger
Ponchatoula
Member since Aug 2004
47693 posts
Posted on 2/1/23 at 6:07 pm to
quote:

Hey Ponchy

My dad died in 2007. Every year since, I take 2 days for myself - Father's Day and the anniversary of his death. I never have anything planned out special. Just all to myself.


I am doing that exact same thing. I done told work don't look for next friday because I won't be there.
Posted by Chingon Ag
Member since Nov 2018
3478 posts
Posted on 2/1/23 at 6:22 pm to
quote:

The five best friends I ever had are all dead.


Understand and it sucks. Lost two of my best friends before I graduated high school. Hard to want to get close to others.
Posted by jorconalx
alexandria
Member since Aug 2011
9819 posts
Posted on 2/1/23 at 6:40 pm to
quote:

9 People die every two seconds on this Earth...
All we are is dust in the wind.



so edgy
Posted by redstick13
Lower Saxony
Member since Feb 2007
39851 posts
Posted on 2/1/23 at 6:45 pm to
Unfortunately I’ve had to do this more than the average person. My father, by little brother and my very own son. It sucks and each time takes a little more out of you.
Posted by Mid Iowa Tiger
Undisclosed Secure Location
Member since Feb 2008
21951 posts
Posted on 2/1/23 at 7:37 pm to
It was just the two year anniversary of losing my best friend way to young (50) Sunday. I spent a good portion of the day in tears.

His daughter is my God-daughter (now daughter) and speaking to her Sunday was painful.

We should be texting each other pictures of the grandkids right now instead of me missing him.

Loss is hard but I pray one day we will be hunting and fishing together again.
Posted by TigerCoon
Member since Nov 2005
22028 posts
Posted on 2/1/23 at 7:55 pm to
unnecessarily hilarious
Posted by samson73103
Krypton
Member since Nov 2008
8780 posts
Posted on 2/1/23 at 8:25 pm to
quote:

It beats the alternative

This is what my dad used to say about getting older.
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