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Is it actually possible for most single women to raise their sons to respect women?
Posted on 5/6/26 at 7:58 am
Posted on 5/6/26 at 7:58 am
I sometimes hear women talking about how they’re going to raise their sons to be great men and respect women in every way.
However, I really believe that boys generally learn “how to treat a woman” from their fathers. They generally learn how to “be treated by a woman” from their mothers. Men learn better from other men in other words.
I know there’s exceptions, but I think this is the general rule. I’m sure someone will point out one time when they knew a single mom who raised a fantastic son and claim that it proves me wrong. I get that, but I believe that to be the exception and not the rule.
I think we’ve seen over the last 60 years why having a good father in a kid’s life is very important.
However, I really believe that boys generally learn “how to treat a woman” from their fathers. They generally learn how to “be treated by a woman” from their mothers. Men learn better from other men in other words.
I know there’s exceptions, but I think this is the general rule. I’m sure someone will point out one time when they knew a single mom who raised a fantastic son and claim that it proves me wrong. I get that, but I believe that to be the exception and not the rule.
I think we’ve seen over the last 60 years why having a good father in a kid’s life is very important.
This post was edited on 5/6/26 at 7:59 am
Posted on 5/6/26 at 8:01 am to cbree88
The average child from a single parent is behind in nearly every measurable category compared to an average child from a 2 parent household.
Posted on 5/6/26 at 8:03 am to cbree88
A mother cannot take on the role of a father any more than a father can take on the role of a mother. Yes, they can do the best they can. But it’s impossible for one to take the place of the other.
Posted on 5/6/26 at 8:04 am to cbree88
Can you imagine being raised by a single mom and respecting women after that?
“Mom’s banging another loser tonight, so empowering.”
“Mom’s banging another loser tonight, so empowering.”
Posted on 5/6/26 at 8:05 am to cbree88
You need a man (father) to teach a son how to be a man. A single mom will most likely make him weak and passive.
Posted on 5/6/26 at 8:05 am to beerJeep
Trump should set up some sort of Sparta thing where the single mom kids are raised by the military
Posted on 5/6/26 at 8:06 am to cbree88
A woman can't teach a boy how to be a man.
Posted on 5/6/26 at 8:07 am to cbree88
It takes a village to raise a child right. You need the layabout welfare queen mothers, the absentee fathers, and the grannies that provide the childcare.
Posted on 5/6/26 at 8:09 am to Darth_Vader
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A mother cannot take on the role of a father any more than a father can take on the role of a mother. Yes, they can do the best they can. But it’s impossible for one to take the place of the other.
This here, my mom passed away when I was 6 years old and my brother was 13. Our Dad raised us by himself and did a great job. But just speaking for myself I know I would be different if I had been raised with a mother and father.
Posted on 5/6/26 at 8:10 am to Darth_Vader
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A mother cannot take on the role of a father
When you combine mother (empathy and caring heavy) and father (disciplinarian heavy) into one being, it basically confuses kids who don't know what side of their mom they are going to get at any given moment.
But, the foundation for any of this is being a respectable mom to begin with. Crashing out over your latte being too hot or your EBT being denied for Oreos is not that.
Posted on 5/6/26 at 8:12 am to cbree88
I dont see how women could consistently raise respectable young men, and my wife agrees with me.
Children, especially boys, need guidance from both parents.
Children, especially boys, need guidance from both parents.
Posted on 5/6/26 at 8:16 am to cbree88
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Is it actually possible for most single women to raise their sons to respect women?
Children need a father as much if not more than a mother in their formative years.
A child raised without a father engaged in their lives will not grow to their full potential.
I can think of a culture where the majority are raised with no father figure around ( or worse, a terrible male human being as influencer) and it's an undeniable disaster of morality and human decency. Abject failure on every level.
Posted on 5/6/26 at 8:17 am to cbree88
70% of 12-13% of a population of about 330 million gives us a pretty good sample size, I’d say.
Posted on 5/6/26 at 8:27 am to beerJeep
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The average child from a single parent is behind in nearly every measurable category compared to an average child from a 2 parent household.
This. I was solo with my 3 kids. Luckily, grandma and a few neighbor moms filled in on the mom part when needed.
Posted on 5/6/26 at 8:28 am to cbree88
I was raised by a single immigrant mother. I don’t recommend it.
Posted on 5/6/26 at 8:33 am to cbree88
It is possible. But most likely he learns how to treat women like whoars because of how he sees his mom act.
Posted on 5/6/26 at 8:35 am to cbree88
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Is it actually possible for most single women to raise their sons to respect women
Can a woman alone raise a son to be a good man?
NO!
If he has other male influences like an uncle, grandpa, etc. he may very well turn out to be a good man. Absent other good male role models, he will struggle to learn how to be a good husband/father, etc.
A large step further than you are going, but in the same direction…
The devils battlefield for the 60+ years has been an attack on the nuclear family.
Over and over in the bible Jesus is presented as the bridegroom and the Church as the bride. Jesus died for his bride.
Marriage between man and wife, is meant to be the same.
As marriage has increasingly been viewed as a social construct, rather than a religious vocation, it is this seen as nothing more than a contract which can be broken when 1 party decides it no longer suits them. Marriage becomes expendable.
This becomes a cycle because kids brought up with divorced parents see this as normal. Men don’t learn how to be husbands and “die to themselves”. Women don’t learn how to be wives.
As a married man, I know that my children are watching. My son watches how I treat my wife, and this will be his example for how he will treat women as an adult.
My daughter watches how I treat my wife, and this will be her example for what to expect from a man, hopefully, she will settle for nothing less.
Men, If you want to change the future, start being the type of man that you want your daughter to marry. Women, if you want to change the world, start being the woman you want your son to marry.
Ephesians 5 beginning with verse 21 explains marriage quite succinctly.
Posted on 5/6/26 at 8:36 am to Tim
Fathers raise Men
Mothers raise Boys
Mothers raise Boys
Posted on 5/6/26 at 8:37 am to cbree88
You know who hates women more than even misogynists? Other women.
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