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re: In need of prayers

Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:59 am to
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
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Posted on 7/3/23 at 7:59 am to
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Was the other gal married?


quote:

Yes unfortunately


So this means not only is your family a wreck, here’s is as well. Does she have children as well?
This post was edited on 7/3/23 at 8:00 am
Posted by kciDAtaE
Member since Apr 2017
16745 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 8:01 am to
Wonder if the other woman confessed prior or did OP just blow up her spot as well? All this for 8 months of hand jobs. Is OP in highschool?
Posted by zippyputt
Member since Jul 2005
6503 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 8:01 am to
RandySavage,
I’ve seen several of these up close, and I’m sincerely praying for you and your family. From the ones I’ve witnessed, know that it may be able to save your marriage and family and get beyond this. Admitting the mistakes and counseling is the key. If you can get beyond it for the kids and spare them the heartbreak and trauma that certainly comes from a bitter divorce and fighting. God bless you and your family.

I got to the part where it wasn’t “consummated” and that is certainly interesting. It could help in the long run.
This post was edited on 7/3/23 at 8:10 am
Posted by MoarKilometers
Member since Apr 2015
19846 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 8:04 am to
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My man, you are a legend

He's gonna lose half of 0 Bugattis.
Posted by tankyank13
NOLA
Member since Nov 2012
7935 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 8:04 am to
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I realized i couldn't love her the way she deserved when i could barely stand to look at her because of the guilt. The only chance we have was for a confession and hopefully one day restoration


So, because of your weakness, you hurt your wife even more by telling her? Bringing your failures for her to burden? You are a terribly weak man.
Man the frick up.
Posted by St Augustine
The Pauper of the Surf
Member since Mar 2006
68893 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 8:06 am to
You got it man.

People frick up. It happens every single day. It doesn’t make it right, but it’s reality. I think the main thing is that people are actually contrite for their actual actions and not getting caught.

It will never be the same between you and your wife but I pray that both of y’all find peace at some point whatever the eventual outcome of the marriage is. I also pray that those kids are sheltered from the brunt of the fallout.

I hope it works out for the best for all of you.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
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Posted on 7/3/23 at 8:07 am to
Posted by Bullfrog
Running Through the Wet Grass
Member since Jul 2010
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Posted on 7/3/23 at 8:07 am to
Posted by East Coast Band
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Posted on 7/3/23 at 8:08 am to
Posted by HeadSlash
TEAM LIVE BADASS - St. GEORGE
Member since Aug 2006
53013 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 8:08 am to
Pics of the wife and mistress ?
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
59783 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 8:11 am to
That’s horrible.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
69042 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 8:12 am to
quote:

Wonder if the other woman confessed prior or did OP just blow up her spot as well? All this for 8 months of hand jobs. Is OP in highschool?


Yeah, I’m so confused by all this and have questions that OP has not addressed:

1. What was the nature of this 8 month affair?

2. How can you call it an affair if they never had sex?

3. Is OP pulling a Bill Clinton and claiming oral sex is not sex?

4. Why is this affair going to cost him his job?
Posted by BayouBandit24
Member since Aug 2010
16808 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 8:15 am to
quote:

So, because of your weakness, you hurt your wife even more by telling her?


This. He wants to absolve himself of the guilt by saying he confessed
Posted by GEAUXT
Member since Nov 2007
30130 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 8:17 am to
It is unfathomable to me that a grown man and "father" would be willing to do anything that would potentially harm his children
Posted by theunknownknight
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2005
59185 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 8:18 am to
A lengthy “no sex” affair?

How far did you get?

The batter’s box?

What exactly were you “ending”? DM’s?

Posted by CharlesLSU
Member since Jan 2007
32718 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 8:18 am to
Yep. And, the friend’s family gets blown up as well…….but OP has a clear conscious.

frick this guy

Prayers to the innocent bystanders.
Posted by thelawnwranglers
Member since Sep 2007
40459 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 8:18 am to
So he blew up th mistress laugh as well?

So no sex what did you to do? Got to the movies together?
Posted by Ponchy Tiger
Ponchatoula
Member since Aug 2004
47591 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 8:18 am to
You don't love your wife and just wanted a way out. You didn't have the stones to tell your wife upfront you wanted out so you sabotaged your marriage, hoping now your wife ends it.

This is the only explanation. If you really loved your wife you should have taken this secret to the grave for the sake of your wife and children and for the friendship of your wife and her friend and the friends marriage.
This post was edited on 7/3/23 at 9:13 am
Posted by Bottom9
Arsenal Til I Die
Member since Jul 2010
23945 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 8:20 am to
Well got damn Randy. What supporting Chelsea the past few seasons does to a man. My gracious.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
144590 posts
Posted on 7/3/23 at 8:20 am to
Has pics of the wife and the good friend been posted yet?
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