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re: If your wedding was at Oak Alley or another plantation you are racist
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:20 am to TulaneLSU
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:20 am to TulaneLSU
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Weddings not in churches or centers of worship, IMO, are below a level of distinction.
Stop being a judgemental prick. We got married in the back garden of a bed and breakfast. Us, the pastor and two witnesses. Are we less married or sanctified because we didn't pay for a huge wedding?
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:22 am to Saint Alfonzo
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Weddings not in churches or centers of worship, IMO, are below a level of distinction.
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Stop being a judgemental prick. We got married in the back garden of a bed and breakfast. Us, the pastor and two witnesses. Are we less married or sanctified because we didn't pay for a huge wedding?
guy doesn't realize that all it takes to make a marriage official is a notary
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:25 am to Cosmo
So if plantations are so much hurtful to black people how come so many of them are employed by the plantation owners?
Same scenario as slavery days but now they get paid...come on!
Same scenario as slavery days but now they get paid...come on!
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:29 am to 777Tiger
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guy doesn't realize that all it takes to make a marriage official is a notary
Right. But a wedding in a strip mall church would somehow be more dignified.
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:30 am to 777Tiger
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guy doesn't realize that all it takes to make a marriage official is a notary
If I ever get married, I have no intentions of getting married at a church. Something like an antebellum home or some other beautiful venue or destination, sure. Not a church and probably not by a pastor.
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:33 am to Lutcher Lad
quote:Weird take.
So if plantations are so much hurtful to black people how come so many of them are employed by the plantation owners?
Same scenario as slavery days but now they get paid...come on!
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:34 am to Cosmo
My white brother in law married his black wife last October on a plantation in Charleston and she's the one who chose the venue. I can't wait to tell them how racist they are at Christmas dinner.
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:34 am to Saint Alfonzo
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Right. But a wedding in a strip mall church would somehow be more dignified.

Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:38 am to Cosmo
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If your wedding was at Oak Alley or another plantation you are racist
Ok, But what if it was just the reception ?? Asking for a ... Myself.
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:38 am to Cosmo
Almost got married at oak alley.
That would have been a bad divorce.
That would have been a bad divorce.
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:40 am to Cosmo
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the violent conditions Black people faced under chattel slavery by promoting plantations as romantic places to marry
wow, didnt realize Natchez was so racist.
This post was edited on 12/5/19 at 10:41 am
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:41 am to Cosmo
Woke people are painfully stupid at times.
No one wants to say it but all they are trying to do is take away everything from white people
No one wants to say it but all they are trying to do is take away everything from white people
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:53 am to Cosmo
Meh I get the appeal to marry on a plantation because most of them are beautiful but always found it odd. I couldn’t personally do it because i respect history & what happened on those grounds.
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:54 am to Cosmo
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If your wedding was at Oak Alley or another plantation you are racist
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The wedding industry
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the decision to glorify plantations as nostalgic sites of celebration
LOL. frick it. It's all in the eyes of the beholder.
I see plantation homes as historic, beautiful, romantic settings. If you're mind is demented, and you think of it as something horrible - frick it and frick you. I don't care. Odds are, if you don't feel the same as me, then you're probably not invited to my event there anyway. So, it's a moot point.
Live and let live. You worry about your 4 corners and I'll worry about mine.
This post was edited on 12/5/19 at 11:10 am
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:56 am to Fat and Happy
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Woke people are painfully stupid at times.
No one wants to say it but all they are trying to do is take away everything from white people
I love irony
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:58 am to Supermoto Tiger
I think this what people refer to as white privilege
It’s ok to love the look of plantations but still respect what happened there. It wasn’t all beautiful by any means.
It’s ok to love the look of plantations but still respect what happened there. It wasn’t all beautiful by any means.
Posted on 12/5/19 at 10:59 am to Supermoto Tiger
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I see plantation homes as historic
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If you're mind is demented, and you think of it as something horrible - frick it and frick you

Posted on 12/5/19 at 11:00 am to whoa
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It wasn’t all beautiful by any means.
wasn't all violence and abuse either, ironically though, middle part of La was known as having some of the most violent and abusive slave owners of that era
Posted on 12/5/19 at 11:04 am to Supermoto Tiger
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So, it's a mute point.
I always think this is gonna get old, but it never does!
Posted on 12/5/19 at 11:08 am to whoa
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I think this what people refer to as white privilege
It’s ok to love the look of plantations but still respect what happened there. It wasn’t all beautiful by any means.
In my world, I don't care about "what people refer to as white privilege". I care about a lot of things - especially abused or neglected animals. But white privilege, racist this - racist that....nah man, that over-used bullshite will never make my list on things to care about.
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