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re: If your SON screws the hot FEMALE teacher, do you punish or praise?

Posted on 2/22/21 at 8:10 pm to
Posted by Hester Carries
Member since Sep 2012
22390 posts
Posted on 2/22/21 at 8:10 pm to
I’m not gonna bro out with my son about fricking someone of any age or any scenario.

What type of immature father would be like “way to get puss, my child”

There is a chasm of acceptable positions between praising that behavior and being overly restrictive or prudish.
Posted by squid_hunt
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2021
11272 posts
Posted on 2/22/21 at 8:11 pm to
It depends. Is she into punishment?
Posted by SportsGuyNOLA
New Orleans, LA
Member since May 2014
16943 posts
Posted on 2/22/21 at 8:11 pm to
Praise.

Next question?
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65506 posts
Posted on 2/22/21 at 8:15 pm to
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Praise.

Next question?
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Posted by The Hurricane
Gulf of Mexico
Member since Aug 2011
7944 posts
Posted on 2/22/21 at 8:27 pm to
My track coach in high school was 8-10 years older than me. We have some mutual friends through family and he still gets pissed when I call him by his first name.
Posted by greygoose
Member since Aug 2013
11434 posts
Posted on 2/22/21 at 8:42 pm to
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The fact that you're asking the question of whether you'd celebrate your son being victimized by a mentally ill authority figure is troubling

Let me let you in on a little secret. If a 15, 16. or 17 y/o dude is offered some pussy, he's gonna take it. It doesn't matter if the chick is 15, 16, 17 or 30 y/o. Teenage boys are CONSTANTLY thinking about sex. This is why I have a hard time with a teen age boy being a "victim". Trust me, they aren't being manipulated. Girls, on the other hand, say no a lot. Boys and girls are wired differently. The sex drive for a teenage boy is unmatched.
Posted by antibarner
Member since Oct 2009
23710 posts
Posted on 2/22/21 at 9:11 pm to
I sit him down and talk to him about it. There's consequences for every action and I point out what's happened because of what's gone on here. I just tell him what he did was irresponsible and wrong. Point out as bad as this was, for instance, what if he'd knocked her up? Or what if Hub had tried to kill him? As it is his so called GF is in a lot of trouble was it worth that?

He's not a victim I get that, and I realize all teenage boys are hounds, but they have to try to use the big head to think with instead of the little one all the time. Dipping that wick can be costly boy you need to think before you act.
This post was edited on 2/22/21 at 9:16 pm
Posted by Byrdybyrd05
Member since Nov 2014
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Posted on 2/22/21 at 9:14 pm to
Posted by greygoose
Member since Aug 2013
11434 posts
Posted on 2/22/21 at 9:17 pm to
quote:

I sit him down and talk to him about it. There's consequences for every action and I point out what's happened because of what's gone on here. I just tell him what he did was irresponsible and wrong. Point out as bad as this was, for instance, what if he'd knocked her up? Or what if Hub had tried to kill him? As it is his so called GF is in a lot of trouble was it worth that?

He's not a victim I get that, and I realize all teenage boys are hounds, but they have to try to use the big head to think with instead of the little one all the time
Do you have that same talk when he has a 16 y/o girlfriend? Either way, he's going to pound town if given the chance.
Posted by QJenk
Atl, Ga
Member since Jan 2013
15220 posts
Posted on 2/22/21 at 9:19 pm to
I joke around on here all the time but in real life I would not be ok with my teenage son having sex with a grown woman.

I would not punish nor praise my kid, but we will have a sit down and talk about it.

I would want the woman to be punished and held accountable.
Posted by RockAndRollDetective
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2014
4506 posts
Posted on 2/22/21 at 9:21 pm to
Sloppy seconds?
Posted by antibarner
Member since Oct 2009
23710 posts
Posted on 2/22/21 at 9:23 pm to
I had that talk yes. I'm not stupid I know he's going to do it, I try to at least get him to be responsible. It's all you can do.
Posted by castorinho
13623 posts
Member since Nov 2010
82010 posts
Posted on 2/22/21 at 9:25 pm to
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There is a chasm of acceptable positions
ISWYDT
Posted by Legion of Doom
Old Metry
Member since Jan 2018
4974 posts
Posted on 2/22/21 at 9:35 pm to
If it was that teacher holding the fish, or the one with the threesome in Destrehan, I’d start him a trust fund. But I’d be jealous.
Posted by MSUDawg98
Ravens Flock
Member since Jan 2018
9942 posts
Posted on 2/22/21 at 10:26 pm to
If at 17 my son was nailing a teacher fresh out of college I'd have 0 problems with it (as long a it was done safely.) If she gets knocked up that's on her and if she passes anything along, I'd be all for loss of license and a few months in county jail.

Our "cool" HS teacher/girls basketball coach at school (private/ Catholic) got busted by the mother for screwing his student/player/GOD DAUGHTER during the summer before her senior year. He was 25ish and had wife/baby at home. He lost his license, did 9 months county time, and had a very fast divorce. The girl's bf was a classmate/teammate (we were one year older) and he ghosted her before that even became a thing.
Posted by greygoose
Member since Aug 2013
11434 posts
Posted on 2/22/21 at 10:37 pm to
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I had that talk yes. I'm not stupid I know he's going to do it, I try to at least get him to be responsible. It's all you can do.

Then the question is, does it matter if he's doing it with a 16 y/o or a 25 y/o?
Posted by greygoose
Member since Aug 2013
11434 posts
Posted on 2/22/21 at 10:45 pm to
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I had that talk yes. I'm not stupid I know he's going to do it, I try to at least get him to be responsible. It's all you can do.

From a purely logical sense, considering a teenage boy is going to do it, if ever given the chance, he'd be better off with the older woman since they are more likely to be experienced and on birth control or requiring that it be used. The added benefit would also be that he would be considered a god among his peers.
Posted by Breauxsif
Member since May 2012
22290 posts
Posted on 2/22/21 at 10:51 pm to
Posted by 3nOut
Central Texas, TX
Member since Jan 2013
28805 posts
Posted on 2/22/21 at 10:55 pm to
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I have told both my kids to use email to communicate with their teachers instead of texting


When I worked for a school district a few friends/teachers started adding kids on FB and Instagram and I advised them it was a terrible idea.

None of my friends, but since I left 8 years ago 2 teachers in that district have been arrested and FB chats have been used against them.

No matter how cool you want to be and practical it may seem, it’s a horrible idea.
Posted by lsu777
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2004
30952 posts
Posted on 2/22/21 at 11:17 pm to
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I’m pretty sure my 3rd and 5th graders text their teachers. I don’t see it much different than email




Wtf? First of why the hell does your 3rd grader have a phone? I mean 5th grade shouldn't either, but 3rd?

And yes texting is way different than email.

Maybe it's because my kids go to catholic school, but we as parents get whey the teacher if need be, the kids can email. But I would never let my kids have phones and they are 4th & 2nd.
This post was edited on 2/22/21 at 11:18 pm
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