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Posted on 6/5/17 at 12:49 pm to RLDSC FAN
Life is tough, but so are you 
If you ever need someone to talk to, or someone to vent to, I'm all ears.
<--td@live.com
If you ever need someone to talk to, or someone to vent to, I'm all ears.
<--td@live.com
Posted on 6/5/17 at 12:50 pm to RLDSC FAN
Have you seen the gif of the guy hitting the ping pong ball with his tallywhacker? That's good for a laugh.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 12:51 pm to RLDSC FAN
The quickest way to get over a woman is to get under another one.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 12:52 pm to baybeefeetz
any pics of the ex wife in the thread? otherwise, i am not reading through it
Posted on 6/5/17 at 12:53 pm to RLDSC FAN
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Man, you are at the prime stage of your life. If you are in a decent career path and in decent shape you'll be swimming in pussy in no time.
You can offer 2 things a guy in his 20's can't. I reliable source of income and a frick shack with no roommates. Take advantage of that shite. Sure these types of women won't love you...
But they will suck your dick dry after you buy them two cranberry vodkas and tell them you have a 401k.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 12:53 pm to RLDSC FAN
quote:
I'm going thru a very difficult time in my life right now.
yea well i am out of community coffee k cups at work and had to use the walmart brand. suck it up pussy
Posted on 6/5/17 at 12:55 pm to RLDSC FAN
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Not bad at all. You got a lot of time to turn this around.
I'd recommend using whatever motivation it takes to turn your body into a machine. Kill yourself in the gym. Go outside and get some sun, and run or do some hiking. Focus on eating really well and read up as much as you can about dieting.
Find a new passion (other than work). Something you can really get behind and pour some time into. Like learning a new language, musical instrument, or a new skill in general.
In general, learn what it takes to make yourself happy. At this point it's going to be difficult for you to be with any woman because you're unhappy and you're going to give that vibe. As much as you wish they could, another person isn't going to be able to fill that void. You have to make yourself happy before you can be with someone else and be happy.
Getting dumped sucks because a lot of people get left with a perpetual feeling of not being good enough. Use that as motivation to be "good enough." But do it for yourself. To prove that you can be the best version of you possible. When you achieve that, there's a good chance you'll find someone else who wants to be with you. And you'll be much healthier (psychologically) and ready to be with someone. It's hard to see, but in the end, you'll realize that you were better for it. You took this really crappy moment in life and turned it into an opportunity to make yourself a better person.
This post was edited on 6/5/17 at 12:56 pm
Posted on 6/5/17 at 12:57 pm to Pecker
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Pecker
well said. i didnt picture you for the actual advice type.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 12:57 pm to RLDSC FAN
Do ppl being in a harder situation than you may be make you feel better?
I've been fighting stage 4 colon cancer since Feb 2016. Chemo surgeries chemo more chemo more surgeries and....
Now they wanna take organs out like completely. Less than 6 but more than 3.
Sorry your wife left you.
I've been fighting stage 4 colon cancer since Feb 2016. Chemo surgeries chemo more chemo more surgeries and....
Now they wanna take organs out like completely. Less than 6 but more than 3.
Sorry your wife left you.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 12:57 pm to Pecker
Wife left me but now I eat grilled chicken and speak German ladies
Posted on 6/5/17 at 12:59 pm to danfraz
quote:Holy shite. God bless you man...
I've been fighting stage 4 colon cancer since Feb 2016. Chemo surgeries chemo more chemo more surgeries and....
Now they wanna take organs out like completely. Less than 6 but more than 3.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 12:59 pm to The Mick
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Holy shite
ISWYDT
Posted on 6/5/17 at 1:01 pm to danfraz
Welp. Now I feel like a bitch.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 1:01 pm to RLDSC FAN
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It's been mentioned. Travel. If at ALL possible travel.
It's a fricking Seinfeld episode, but you have the chance to live like George did for anepisode. Every instinct you have? Try the opposite. When out talk to any woman who interests you. Give zero fricks. "Wish I knew that when I was single". How many times have you said that? Have we all?
You do know.........
Mind blown!!!!
Soon to have dick blown.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 1:03 pm to RLDSC FAN
I see you are in cali...dude...there is a ton of hot pus in cali...go out and slay some...you will feel better.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 1:04 pm to RLDSC FAN
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But when I'm at home alone (like right now) it gets very overwhelming.
I know exactly how you feel. When I went through my divorce, I would hit the gym and stay active and busy with friends, but when I would go home to that empty and cold house, reality would crash back down.
It's funny how they say silence is deafening, but the home would be so quiet I could hear it like a roar.
All I can say is time is the ultimate healer of wounds of each days gets better. You will have days that suck, and days that are awesome; and then one day you'll hit your normal.
Stay busy and lean on friends and family during this time. I wish I didn't know how you felt, but when I look at myself 3 years ago, I am amaze at the person I am now, and just how much better my life is with the right partner.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 1:05 pm to Chad504boy
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Wife left me but now I eat grilled chicken and speak German ladies
..."and I've learned how to be happy and not rely on someone else's approval for my happiness"
Posted on 6/5/17 at 1:06 pm to RLDSC FAN
quote:Sorry to hear that bud. Whatever you do don't get down on yourself. Its not you it is her. Stay away from the self loathing attitude and get a new lease on life. Go on a vacation solo or with a friend. Really use this opportunity to do something you wouldn't normally do. Maybe the new attitude will bring your wife closer to you, but by then you will be over the bitch and you can kick her to the curb.
Not at all, my job is very stable. We've just been fighting a lot and things just got bad. She basically said she doesn't love me anymore.
Posted on 6/5/17 at 1:09 pm to Murray
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Seek counseling. Go weekly for a couple of months, at minimum before you decide if you want to stop or not. Gives the counselor time to get to know you and you time to get used to it.
ETA: To be clear, I'm talking about individual counseling and not marriage counseling. Start there. Go for yourself and not with the intention that it will save your marriage.
Very good advice and highly recommend. I thought I was too strong for counseling, and then I hit a rough patch that was affecting the new relationship I was in. Just a few sessions had me feeling a lot better.
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